The Ex

[HopeFaithLove4u]

*stands gaurd next to Lost* no one will hurt you while im on watch!

Awww, that's sweet! You're her protector.

 

[Im_A]

I don't know who knows or who remembers but I was in a abusive relationship like 5 months ago. He abused me physically and verbally. He even left scars on my arm. I remember one time when he made my ears bleed. I can still picture the times he'd grab my neck, pull my hair, throw, punch me, slap me, grab me or whatever. I remember always being sad and hurt. I remember wondering how I could get of the situation. I lived with him for 6 months. That was when I wasn't a christian. I don't even know if I could say a have personal relationship with God right now. anyways, he texts me ever so often asking me if I will talk to him again. I text him back and try to explain what he has done to me and my heart. He doesn't see it. He sees me as the bad person who is at fault for everything. Please pray for me and him. thank you.

block him every way. block his phone numbers. block any way of him communicating with you online. if you have to, get a protection order against this idiot.

the last thing you need in your life is to have a man that abused you in your life in any way...especially now that your picking up the pieces of his stupidity done against you.

you'll find your way to healing and forgiveness, but right now, get him out of your life in every possible way, and make sure you keep all those areas closed off from him.

i hope the best for you and i'll send a prayer for you.

 

[septemberskies]

I know it has been said but keep your distance from this guy. Don't text him or anything else... get your number changed if you have to. That's a creep!!! There is no reasoning with him... he had his chance and he blew it. Nuff said.

 

[mechman]

Awww, that's sweet! You're her protector.

thats right! and i wouldnt want to mess with this! *flexes*

 

[LostUntilSaved]

I'll be praying for you that you take the opportunity to look for a church home.

Thank you sweetie

We can study by ourselves.

JM

I need to do more of that

Honey, came from an abusive relationship, too. I do communicate with my ex, because of our children other than that, I put my foot down that it is all we ever will talk about.

If he texts, I dont text back. I pray that you will have the courage to not entertain him anymore honey, please. Let go of him. Even posting about him, will not help, do not try to figure him out, I did that, it hurt me alot. I know you don't need advice but I just had to say something because I love you and I dont want you to get hurt all over again.

I love you too. I enjoy hearing from you everyday

*stands gaurd next to Lost* no one will hurt you while im on watch!

*hides behind u*

Awww, that's sweet! You're her protector.

block him every way. block his phone numbers. block any way of him communicating with you online. if you have to, get a protection order against this idiot.

the last thing you need in your life is to have a man that abused you in your life in any way...especially now that your picking up the pieces of his stupidity done against you.

you'll find your way to healing and forgiveness, but right now, get him out of your life in every possible way, and make sure you keep all those areas closed off from him.

i hope the best for you and i'll send a prayer for you.

Thank you for your prayers and advice

I know it has been said but keep your distance from this guy. Don't text him or anything else... get your number changed if you have to. That's a creep!!! There is no reasoning with him... he had his chance and he blew it. Nuff said.

yeah he did blow it, I don't know what he wants from me

thats right! and i wouldnt want to mess with this! *flexes*

 

[soccerdad66]

My heart hurts. I realize there is darkness in my life.

Thank you sweetie. I haven't been to church in a long time. Something is wrong with me.

It seems to me that you're pretty hard on yourself.

Noone is perfect, and many times you don't know how many mistakes someone has made before they learned there lessions.

It would be good if you found a church to get plugged in to, but it doesnt mean that something is wrong with you. My old church was a great mixture of young and old people, and was a great place for hurting people because of their experience and tenderness.

 

[LostUntilSaved]

It seems to me that you're pretty hard on yourself.

Noone is perfect, and many times you don't know how many mistakes someone has made before they learned there lessions.

It would be good if you found a church to get plugged in to, but it doesnt mean that something is wrong with you. My old church was a great mixture of young and old people, and was a great place for hurting people because of their experience and tenderness.

I say something is wrong with me because many times I put up a wall or I am always angry. That's why I got into boxing and martial arts when I was a kid. sometimes I would have so much anger inside and i didn't know how to deal with it so when I started taking self defense classes when I was mad I would just hit a bag and think about what made me angry

 

[soccerdad66]

I say something is wrong with me because many times I put up a wall or I am always angry. That's why I got into boxing and martial arts when I was a kid. sometimes I would have so much anger inside and i didn't know how to deal with it so when I started taking self defense classes when I was mad I would just hit a bag and think about what made me angry

That doesn't sound like a bad way of dealing with it, but have you ever tried to get to the root of what makes you angry all the time? I'm assuming you're trying, but sometimes we think we've found it, when something else was really making us angry.

I've felt that way before, so you're not alone. I'm not a big fan of over-analyzing, but sometimes you need to get to the heart of the matter.