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harsh music is much like a harsh voice; how does it make you feel?But it's the style I'm struggling with. Rock in particular.
But the opposite of faith is not doubt, it's certainty. Without the possibility of being wrong, there is no need for faith. We can't prove anything to do with God; but we stumble on along the road anyway, with God's help, and sometimes we find it easy and sometimes we find it hard.But we can't doubt. Paul says that if we doubt then we are sinning because "whatever is not of faith is sin".
what precisely is the stuggle that you mentioned then?I enjoy it.
Hi Alphadux,I wasn't saying that anyone's conscience was necessarily seared. Very godly people have thought differently on different issues. Charles Spurgeon smoked cigars, yet other people of his day thought it to be sinful. Luther liked his beer. Some Christians today don't like cards others find nothing wrong with it. Actions are either sinful or they're not. They can't be both.
Actually It does depend upon the conscience of the individual. Not its being sinful or not, but whether the individual perceives it to be so. But in regards to an action being sinful or not; God knows.
Certainly a noble principle, but then the weakest brother sets the agenda.Hi Alphadux,
This is why we're told in ?Timothy I believe, to watch
what we hear.
Our conscience does indeed determine what is sin for
us and what isnt, when it comes to these sort of
ambiguous things.
If it's sin for you, then don't partake.
I can play cards and I can drink alcohol, but
if my brother who has a weak conscience, is offended,
then I know I better honor him, as I will answer to
God.
Amen.
Some say it's sinful. There's claims that the beat causes sexual stimulation in people. I've tried to find out if it's true, but I'm still not sure. Since I'm not sure, I doubt. Since I doubt, my conscience bothers me. And since my conscience bothers me, I can't listen to it.what precisely is the stuggle that you mentioned then?
But the only reason something is sinful for some people is because they're not doing it in faith. Playing cards is either sinful or it's not, regardless of what people feel. It's whether or not they're doing it in faith which makes the difference.Hi Alphadux,
This is why we're told in ?Timothy I believe, to watch
what we hear.
Our conscience does indeed determine what is sin for
us and what isnt, when it comes to these sort of
ambiguous things.
If it's sin for you, then don't partake.
I can play cards and I can drink alcohol, but
if my brother who has a weak conscience, is offended,
then I know I better honor him, as I will answer to
God.
Amen.
Certainly a noble principle, but then the weakest brother sets the agenda.
Not in my town!
so you believe sexual stimulation to be sinful?Some say it's sinful. There's claims that the beat causes sexual stimulation in people.
No, but if it stimulates someone then the likely result will be lust. I'm speaking outside of marriage.so you believe sexual stimulation to be sinful?
please define 'lust' in the context of your usage; is there a difference between lust and sexual stimulation?No, but if it stimulates someone then the likely result will be lust. I'm speaking outside of marriage.
I guess the two are pretty similar. The claim is that the anapestic beat arouses people. And if someones aroused, well...you know what happens. Thoughts fill your head and so forth...please define 'lust' in the context of your usage; is there a difference between lust and sexual stimulation?
what is this claim based on?The claim is that the anapestic beat arouses people.
Well, they probably base it on some studies. How reliable these studies are I don't know. They also use quotes from rock stars like Frank Zappa who said, "rock music is sex. It matches the body's rythm".what is this claim based on?
Well, they probably base it on some studies. How reliable these studies are I don't know. They also use quotes from rock stars like Frank Zappa who said, "rock music is sex. It matches the body's rythm".
I don't know. I'm just so frusturated with this. I want to listen to music but I don't feel right about it. I wonder if it's really the Spirit and I'm trying to justify my sin.do you 'personally' see a valid basis to any of these arguments? despite whether others claim to or not?
why? how are you sinning? what sin are you referring to? i dont mean to pry; you neednt answer if its too personalI wonder if it's really the Spirit and I'm trying to justify my sin.
Here's how it goes. I'm afraid that rock music is sinful. I like to listen to it and I've been asking the Lord to show me what's right. I still feel guilty about it though. So I wonder if the guilt is from Him and this whole time I'm trying to justify my sin of listening to it.why? how are you sinning? what sin are you referring to? i dont mean to pry; you neednt answer if its too personal