Turnoffs!

[plum]

I'd say I'm turned off by uncharitable behavior (especially because I want it out of my life as well):
being unkind to people "below" them
insulting or cutting down anyone, even family and friends
arrogant attitudes
lack of compassion or understanding for people in different situations
closed-mindedness and argumentative behavior
inconsiderate of the needs of those around them
an "I'm right, you're wrong" stony perspective on life where everyone of another opinion is the enemy

 

[Mrs. Luther073082]

I'd say I'm turned off by uncharitable behavior (especially because I want it out of my life as well):
being unkind to people "below" them
insulting or cutting down anyone, even family and friends
arrogant attitudes
lack of compassion or understanding for people in different situations
closed-mindedness and argumentative behavior
inconsiderate of the needs of those around them
an "I'm right, you're wrong" stony perspective on life where everyone of another opinion is the enemy

I'll add all those to my list, too.

 

[dawnsday]

Stupidity
More knowlege of pop culture then important news.
Being different on purpose.
Being typical on purpose.
Yuppies.
Metrosexuals.
Men who get freaked out, hateful or angered by Gay men (or women).
Jealousy regarding other men
Insecurity that I don't "need" a man.
Judgement of other people's sins
Materialism.
Preachy.
Cries too easily.
Gets frustrated/angry over every little thing.

 

[radhead]

Does anyone else find "firstborns" to be kind of arrogant sometimes? It seems like a lot of people have mentioned arrogance and that is the type of person I picture as being arrogant.

 

[ElElena]

I've never seen firstborns that way before. I haven't heard of them normally being that way.

I heard of something called the birth order before. I don't recall what the book said about the firstborn.

 

[Lintyfresh85]

Does anyone else find "firstborns" to be kind of arrogant sometimes? It seems like a lot of people have mentioned arrogance and that is the type of person I picture as being arrogant.

Nope, I'm humble as can be... it's my little brother who thinks he's entitled to things.

Nah, we're both well adjusted kids... but to me it's always seemed the younger seem more arrogant because they babied by parents and therefore sometimes believe they are entitled to things when they really aren't.

 

[dawnsday]

Does anyone else find "firstborns" to be kind of arrogant sometimes? It seems like a lot of people have mentioned arrogance and that is the type of person I picture as being arrogant.

i'm a first born and i'm not arrogant. it's not my fault that i know everything and everyone else is always wrong LOLOLOLOL! J/K!

 

[ElElena]

That's something like what I've heard before. I wasn't the firstborn so I can't be taking up for them for that reason.

 

[AWorkInProgress]

Maybe it is just me.

When she can't give me the time of day. As others stated honousity, which is huge for me.

Had one girl lie to me multiple times and it was hard to forgive her. Like sheesh just say your not intrested instead of leading me on in web of deceit.

 

[radhead]

I know that not *all* firstborns are this way, but it seems like a lot of them get offended if you disagree with them or something. For this reason, I like to purposefully disagree with them whenever possible. I'll even go out of my way to do so.

Actually, it's better than the alternative, which would be to always agree with them. Some people are like that. That kissing of their [egos] is what causes me to want to do the opposite.

 

[ElElena]

Now I have met one firstborn that doesn't like it if you disagree with him. Let's not pick on firstborns - Every mother has one.

 

[AWorkInProgress]

Jesus a first born? hmm..

 

[plum]

enough about the firstborns

more turnoffs:
If he breaks his word, lies, or pretends to be something he is not... this will make me lose faith and trust faster than anything else.
I also am not attracted to partiers, players, bullies, or druggies.

 

[Lintyfresh85]

ugh, I can't stand girls that party and flaunt their body... that's a huge turn off for me.

Modest is the hottest!

 

[LadyOfMystery]

ugh, I can't stand girls that party and flaunt their body... that's a huge turn off for me.

Modest is the hottest!

Woohoo.
Smokers, drinkers, and cursing excessively is a big turn off for me. Someone who laughs at me when I'm crying is a turn off as well. I speak from experience.

 

[radhead]

I don't smoke personally. But I have no problem with those that do, as long as they do so outside.

 

[ElElena]

Cute - moddest is hottest -

smoking causes choking

 

[Weasel7711]

a male organ...

 

[Sketcher]

a male organ...

Does facial hair count as an organ, I wonder?

 

[Pink Angel]

turnoffs for me are....

Tobacco chewers (EWWWW)
indesiveness
perverts ( i can take a joke here and there but when its constant and its all that is talked about......)


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