You see, I thought I'd pre-empted this reply, by saying that
"God is OMNIPOTENT"
Now, perhaps we should discuss a few things first.
Firstly, the definition of omnipotence, as known to many is: all-powerful.
Now, God is all-powerful.
Secondly, the statement you make "however our volition and freewill chooses to live in this plan, we can walk in and out at any time." Makes entirely no sense when applied in conjunction with "God is omnipotent"
Which infact, you stated yourself, as one of the '10 essences of God'.
Because - (here's why) - if God is omnipotent, which you said he is, (so he is, let's assume) then he has the power to do anything.
If he has a perfect plan, then you must follow it because he is omnipotent.
If you do not follow it, you are indeed not doing what an omnipotent being doesn't want you to do.
You see the fallacy and the flaw in the above statement?
A finitely powerful being can choose not to do the will of an infinitely powerful being.
NO.
To resolve this we must:
EITHER
State that God is not omnipotent
or
State that whatever you do, you are still following God's almighty plan, because he is omnipotent, and therefore either MAKES us do whatever he wants, or ALLOWS us to do what we want, which is still effectively what he wants - because he allows us to do it, therefore you cannot deny God's will if he is omnipotent whatsoever.
Is my misunderstanding clear now?
This goes right back to the essence of God, I think the only way to really get our teeth into this is to first understand why God, according to the bible created mankind.
Gods will for mankind is for us, by the use of our own freewill and volition, come to him, this is the reason God gave mankind freewill, we have the freedom to be for him or against him, we can choose to either love him or hate him, why he did this is beyond the scope of this thread, but according to the bible it states clearly that man has freewill and from the use of this we are either with him or without him, its our choice, this is our freedom to willfully choose.
Now if God has given mankind this ability, yet it states that God is all powerful, he could have made all of us just be of him and in him, but heres the problem, if he did do this we wouldnt be free, because Gods power would override our freedom, and if we have the ability to think freely then enevitably there would be some creatures that would think against God, even tho he is perfect, and want to exercise there own freewill for themselves.
Look at Gods essense and you will see that their are things which God possess' which if worked together would work against each other, if God is 100% rightiousness, then he can only do what is right, and if God is all powerful, yet his rightiousness can only do the right thing, then what is the right thing to do with all power ? use it all of the time on creatures that have freewill, then where is there freedom? if he did use his all powerful nature all of the time then where would his rightiousness be?
And if our freewill is used to choose not to be of God, yet he is all powerful, what is the right thing to do? use his overruling power and will against a creature that wants to do its own thing or leave them be but give them ways to come back to him should they desire.
This is what he did with his Son, he has given us a way to come to him should we desire accoding to our freewill, his justice has been satisfied with his Son and can deal with mankind without compramising his perfect essense, you see because our own freewill walked away from God and became corrupt, he wont take that away from us if we want to live like that its our choice, our freewill, but what greater manifestation of love then God, being perfect in essence, chosing by his own freewill, to save a race that for no apparent reason, seems to hate him, and finding a way to redeam all of the human race and bring us all back to him, and at the same time remaining perfect, then after saving us, because of the work of his Son, he is also free to bless us and work in our lives by entering us into his perfect plan, I really cant see a problem with that.