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I haven given myself to God.

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Well this morning I decided I am ready to fully give myself to God.

As a little background, I was raised Catholic and over the years let my faith slip away.

I was dating a girl for 2.5 years and we split on Thursday, due to the fact that I could not commit myself to God because of differences in opinion.

Since then I have been very sad, having trouble keeping food down, and lost alot of sleep just thinking.

Well last night I decided I didn't need to go out and drink the some friends. I said a prayer and then since I couldnt sleep I hit the internet for questions and answers.

My views on everything have changed and I realise what she was trying to convey to me. I wish more than anything for us to get back together, but I am not doing this for her, I am doing it for myself and God.

Since about 2am this morning I have been reading my Bible and feeling a bit better.

I feel a bit happier now that I can admit this.
 
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Great. Feel free to post questions, and we'll try to give you answers. I recommend going through John first, then Romans, then Matthew, continuing the rest of the NT. Remember that the internet is not always reliable- only the Word of God is 100% reliable, and therefore anything you read should be tested against it to determine its reliability. Keep in mind that your faith is based on facts- the Word of God- NOT feelings. You will occasionally feel distant from God. Keep talking to Him- He's always listening, even if you don't feel like He is. Above all, seek the Truth, and not the ways of this world. Persevere, and never give up hope- you have the ultimate Hope- God, who will help you through anything you genuinely want help with.
God bless, and take care.
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ozmum,

Thank you, I downloaded their Home Bible Study .pdf.
Mate, I can understand where you've been and where you are coming from.

The most important part of a Christian's life is FOUNDATION!

Foundation of His Message, the Gospel, that our Lord Jesus Christ died for you on the Cross, and you are set free from the curse.

He loves you and His grace is sufficient for you.

You confess and repent your sins, and then forgive your girlfriend and yourself, and you will see your life changed and HIS WILL, will be done.

Praise our Lord Jesus Christ
 
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Well this morning I decided I am ready to fully give myself to God.

As a little background, I was raised Catholic and over the years let my faith slip away.

I was dating a girl for 2.5 years and we split on Thursday, due to the fact that I could not commit myself to God because of differences in opinion.

Since then I have been very sad, having trouble keeping food down, and lost alot of sleep just thinking.

Well last night I decided I didn't need to go out and drink the some friends. I said a prayer and then since I couldnt sleep I hit the internet for questions and answers.

My views on everything have changed and I realise what she was trying to convey to me. I wish more than anything for us to get back together, but I am not doing this for her, I am doing it for myself and God.

Since about 2am this morning I have been reading my Bible and feeling a bit better.

I feel a bit happier now that I can admit this.

Wow, I am almost in the same boat as you! My boyfriend and I broke up due to a lot of reasons, but one was faith - he was a strong Christian and I wasn't - I was a borderline non believer. We broke up, and I was devastated. Immediately after our break up, I went through a lot of personal problems, including a layoff. I really felt that I had no one in the world to turn to, and at that moment, God reached out to me. I started reading the Bible and going to Church, and trying to learn as much as I possibly can about Jesus Christ, and He just really touched me - He loved me even at the times I didn't love Him back.

Instead of viewing our breakup and my layoff as a setback, I began to view it as a gift from God. These things happened to bring me closer to Him, and I am eternally thankful that He loves me enough to give me another chance to find Him. The break up hurt, but it fulfilled God's purpose for me - I know that I would never have turned to God if we had never broken up.

We are still on friendly terms, but he doesn't know I've found my faith, and he really doesn't need to know. I still love him and still hope for a reconciliation, but if that doesn't happen, I am still happy. He will always be in my heart and prayers because he was the one that brought me closer to God.

Its been about 3 months now, and I feel so refreshed! God's spirit really is amazing! I've met some amazing Christians who have really taught me a lot, and every day I read the Scriptures and pray to God to strengthen my faith.

I will keep you in my prayers also! Congratulations on finding Him!!
 
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Wow, I am almost in the same boat as you! My boyfriend and I broke up due to a lot of reasons, but one was faith - he was a strong Christian and I wasn't - I was a borderline non believer. We broke up, and I was devastated. Immediately after our break up, I went through a lot of personal problems, including a layoff. I really felt that I had no one in the world to turn to, and at that moment, God reached out to me. I started reading the Bible and going to Church, and trying to learn as much as I possibly can about Jesus Christ, and He just really touched me - He loved me even at the times I didn't love Him back.

Instead of viewing our breakup and my layoff as a setback, I began to view it as a gift from God. These things happened to bring me closer to Him, and I am eternally thankful that He loves me enough to give me another chance to find Him. The break up hurt, but it fulfilled God's purpose for me - I know that I would never have turned to God if we had never broken up.

We are still on friendly terms, but he doesn't know I've found my faith, and he really doesn't need to know. I still love him and still hope for a reconciliation, but if that doesn't happen, I am still happy. He will always be in my heart and prayers because he was the one that brought me closer to God.

Its been about 3 months now, and I feel so refreshed! God's spirit really is amazing! I've met some amazing Christians who have really taught me a lot, and every day I read the Scriptures and pray to God to strengthen my faith.

I will keep you in my prayers also! Congratulations on finding Him!!
That is awsome!!! Glad to see someone else is in the same position as I am. I hope everything works out for you.

The hardest part right now for me is that I want to call, or see her. Its been the daily process for so long.

With her though, I dont feel this is just an emotional attraction, so that is why I am willing to wait and fight it out when I am doing with finding myself.
 
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Congratulations. :D I am really happy for you, and I think it's great the way you have approached it. It can be so hard sometimes, as it often necessitates the unlearning of a lot of your ways of life, but it is SO worth it! :D

Enjoy your stay at the forums, and God bless.

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Congratulations. :D I am really happy for you, and I think it's great the way you have approached it. It can be so hard sometimes, as it often necessitates the unlearning of a lot of your ways of life, but it is SO worth it! :D

Enjoy your stay at the forums, and God bless.

Digit
Yeah, I am focusing on not cursing as much. I have cut back alot withing the past 3-4 days but every now and again one slips out. Just gotta keep working on it.
 
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