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Do YOU have a crush on anyone?

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So I have thought about this, and I have decided that life would be a whole lot better without imagined possibilities. Because there's nothing you can do about it
if it is only in your imagination, other than think about how unsatisfied you are with it not being real.

Too true... Too true... If we have no expectations then there can be no disappointments.
 
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lol sweetlamb...It almost seems that way for me, but it's weird...I always choose my crushes carefully...if that makes sense! I'm pretty sure it doesn't. But I'll find someone who's really cute and attractive and find out they aren't a christian. Well, that doesn't develop into anything. But I guess it has to be a combination of things to spark my interest. Not only am I picky that way...I've never dated because I'm shy. I've literally not asked a girl out since the 6th grade. so, I'll probably be single for the rest of my life :cry:
 
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lol sweetlamb...It almost seems that way for me, but it's weird...I always choose my crushes carefully...if that makes sense! I'm pretty sure it doesn't. But I'll find someone who's really cute and attractive and find out they aren't a christian. Well, that doesn't develop into anything. But I guess it has to be a combination of things to spark my interest. Not only am I picky that way...I've never dated because I'm shy. I've literally not asked a girl out since the 6th grade. so, I'll probably be single for the rest of my life :cry:
Cheep up. No one is as inept around girls as I am.
 
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lol sweetlamb...It almost seems that way for me, but it's weird...I always choose my crushes carefully...if that makes sense! I'm pretty sure it doesn't. But I'll find someone who's really cute and attractive and find out they aren't a christian. Well, that doesn't develop into anything. But I guess it has to be a combination of things to spark my interest. Not only am I picky that way...I've never dated because I'm shy. I've literally not asked a girl out since the 6th grade. so, I'll probably be single for the rest of my life :cry:

That sounds like the story of my life.
 
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i am still waitin for some answers on my crushes.
Yeah me too but I know that when the time is right they will come. I guess I have to learn to e patient which is not something I am very good at. But I am learning - slowly!
 
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This is kind of a spin off of another thread.

Instead of wondering if anyone has a crush on you... do YOU have a crush on anyone else? Whether it be here on CF or someone you in person?
Are people seriously hooking up through CF? Sing me up... okay that was a joke, because these are silly threads, but the answer is... duh! Just none so serious that I would be hurting myself for living in fantasy rather then reality.
 
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I don't let myself get crushes any more... I don't like the feeling of getting crushed.

When I see a beautiful woman now, I just let myself acknowledge that she is beautiful and leave it at that because I don't know her as a person.
 
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I don't let myself get crushes any more... I don't like the feeling of getting crushed.

When I see a beautiful woman now, I just let myself acknowledge that she is beautiful and leave it at that because I don't know her as a person.
What if you do know her as a person? Not all crushes have to be on someone you don't know.
 
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What if you do know her as a person? Not all crushes have to be on someone you don't know.
I prefer not to be crushed any more. I don't let my feelings go there, I used to let myself fall for any woman, but I don't do that any more.
 
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