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[SIZE=+2]Wednesday 2/14/07[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+2]Hearts 'n Flowers--Hearts 'n Weeds![/SIZE]
But God knows too...and He waits to bring healing to your brokenness. That's what Calvary is all about! But He cannot do it until you release the hurt to Him. You must let it go! And when you do, peace and comfort will flood your soul. And the sorrow will not be wasted--God will use you to bring healing to another--for that's how His love works!​
Words from the Well--a poem for the hurtingHurt to Heal!
"He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds
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For the Lord shall comfort...he will make her desert like the garden of the Lord; joy and gladness shall be found in it, thanksgiving, and the voice of melody (Isaiah 51:3 KJV)."
Develop an intimate relationship with the One who loves you beyond all earthly loves. The Holy Spirit will nourish within you those graces and virtues that may someday enhance a marriage relationship to its fullest--you'll be a better person, just because you waited!




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"Beloved, let us love one another; for love is of God, and everyone that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God (l John 4:7 (KJV)."
"Lord, You are the One True Love of my life. I love You! Let me know Your love today; let me show Your love today. In Jesus' Name, Amen."
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Up until I did let go and let God heal me and make me whole again - I, as a single, use to HATE (with every fiber of my being honestly) this holiday with a passion. It wasn't until I let go of past hurts; and got past the feeling that because I didn't have a certain someone in my life I was somehow less than a person -- that I was able to enjoy this holiday with the TRUE love of my life and lifetime husband Jesus Christ.

Now I LOVE Valentine's day because I remember the TRUE meaning of love and how He showed that love to me and all others -- by dying on the cross for us. How many of us can say our spouse/bf/ect would DIE for us? How many of us would DIE for our spouse??? Only ONE, Him Who first loved us!

Happy Valentine's Day. Great topic as always ImHisServant!
 
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Hi Ladies!

This is a prayer request. :prayer:

My father in law was brought to the hospital last night with severe chest pains, he's still there. :( They've been running test after test and we're still waiting to hear if it was a heart attack. Please lift him up in prayer today. He's not a Christian. :(

Thank you,
Christina
 
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I almost forgot it was Thursday! Schools are out for the 3rd day straight, so I slept in! :)
I am going to be sharing a series with you from Revive Our Hearts, with Nancy Leigh DeMoss. This is a series she did back in 2002 I believe, called "How's Your Love Life?" If you go to reviveourhearts.com you can see the radio transcripts from her show and even print them off.
I am having to cut these down some though, because they are kind of long, so I hope that is ok.
This was a series that was VERY convicting to me.

How's Your Love Life?
part 1
Nancy Leigh DeMoss, Revive Our Hearts

We throw the word love around casually...I love pizza, I love ice cream, I love my Honda, etc. But what does the word really mean?

To find the meaning of true love, we have to go back to the Word of God. The word agape is one of the rarest words in the ancient Greek language and literature, but it's a word that is commonly used in the New Testament. The Greek word agape never refers to romantic feelings or sexual love.

It is a God-quality. That means it is something that we don't have naturally. We have to have God in our lives to have this kind of love. It's a God-quality that always acts in self-sacrifice. Genuine love--God's agape love---always acts in self-giving, self-sacrifice, the laying down of my life, not seeking to be pleased myself.

I heard a definition of love--godly love--years ago that has really stuck in my heart and it is something that I keep coming back to. It becomes a measuring tool for my own love. This person said that genuine love is totally giving of myself to meet the needs of another person without expecting anything in return. Did you get that? Totally giving of myself to meet the needs of another person without expecting anything in return.

Sometimes it's easy to give to meet the needs of another person. But often there is a subtle, secret, hidden desire for that love to be reciprocated. I"m doing something to serve so that that person will love me in return. But genuine love is giving of myself totally--laying down my life if need be--for the benefit and the good of another person without expecting to get anything in return.

Now there can be some loving feelings that God puts in our hearts, but ultimately true love is not a feeling; rather, it is a determined act of my will. That kind of love always results in determined acts of self-giving.

Romans 5 tells us that when we were powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. It says God demonstrates His own love for us in this way: "While we were still sinners, Christ died for us."

Love is not just an emotional attraction. Rather, it's selfless, humble service to meet the needs of another person, no matter how lowly or menial that service or task may seem--no matter how undeserving is the recipient of that love--the person that we're serving.

Scripture tells us that that kind of love ought to be the supreme mark, the supreme characteristic of the people of God. Jesus said, "That's how people will know that you belong to Me. It's not because you memorized your Bibles. It's not because you have perfect attendance records at church. It's not because your church buildings are overflowing. It's not because you have all kinds of programs. The way that the world will stop and take notice of your relationship wth Me is that you love each other the same way--in that selfless, sacrificing, serving way--that I have loved you."

So the Scripture tells us, "Pursue love". Pursue love. Go hard after it. Make it your aim. Make it your goal to learn how to love. We're told that wives are to learn how to love their husbands and how to love their children. Did you know you can learn how to love with God's love? We're to pursue love.

Colossians 3 tells us we're to put on love. We're to be clothed with love. We put on our clothes, our garments. Did you put on love before you left your house this morning?

"Love one another with a pure heart, fervently. Be earnest in your love." 1 Peter 1:22

Do you have an agape kind of love?
 
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An agape kind of love is something I strive to learn and project. I can befriend anyone. I can love anyone. I will do and offer to anyone who needs something be it a friend, an ear, a cup of sugar, picking someone's sick child up from school because they are an hour away at work, etc.

And I also believe love is a choice. I can choose to love family, friends and strangers. I am not forced into it-- it is a decision of my own free will.

So where do I falter? This sounds so selfish. I get tired of repeatedly loving or helping someone over and over and over and not getting even a simple "thank you". Really, just a thank you is more than sufficient. I certainly don't expect anything in return, nor do I enter with the thoughts or notions of what they will do for me in return. DH and I frequently bicker over this. He doesn't play tit-for-tat, but he gets frustrated easier than I do.

And yes, those whom I believe practice agape love with grace and ease are truly marked by Him. There's a lady at our church whom I whole-heartedly respect. You can see the honest, genuine and selfless love she holds for everyone, friend or foo, oozing out of every pore in her body. It's quite remarkable to see this. And to me it's the utmost confirmation.

Nancy DeMoss' choice of wording in regards to clothing ourselves with love is excellent. I know on days when I walk out my door and say to myself: today no one will upset me, no one can or will ruin my day because today I'm going to show all of them love-- and when they ask why I'm in such a great mood I'm going to tell them it's because I have a friend in a high place. It truly creates a completely different mindset.

Excellent topic and post!
 
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I almost forgot it was Thursday! Schools are out for the 3rd day straight, so I slept in! :)
I am going to be sharing a series with you from Revive Our Hearts, with Nancy Leigh DeMoss. This is a series she did back in 2002 I believe, called "How's Your Love Life?" If you go to reviveourhearts.com you can see the radio transcripts from her show and even print them off.
I am having to cut these down some though, because they are kind of long, so I hope that is ok.
This was a series that was VERY convicting to me.

How's Your Love Life?
part 1
Nancy Leigh DeMoss, Revive Our Hearts

I heard a definition of love--godly love--years ago that has really stuck in my heart and it is something that I keep coming back to. It becomes a measuring tool for my own love. This person said that genuine love is totally giving of myself to meet the needs of another person without expecting anything in return. Did you get that? Totally giving of myself to meet the needs of another person without expecting anything in return.

Love is not just an emotional attraction. Rather, it's selfless, humble service to meet the needs of another person, no matter how lowly or menial that service or task may seem--no matter how undeserving is the recipient of that love--the person that we're serving.

Scripture tells us that that kind of love ought to be the supreme mark, the supreme characteristic of the people of God. Jesus said, "That's how people will know that you belong to Me. It's not because you memorized your Bibles. It's not because you have perfect attendance records at church. It's not because your church buildings are overflowing. It's not because you have all kinds of programs. The way that the world will stop and take notice of your relationship wth Me is that you love each other the same way--in that selfless, sacrificing, serving way--that I have loved you."

Did you put on love before you left your house this morning?

Do you have an agape kind of love?

I sure hope this is how I am seen by others. I know I am not always a picture of perfect love and selflessness. This reminds me of a friend of mine here on CF who always had the words "love is a verb" under her username and it is so true.

Reading this really helped clarify something I have always struggled with - in dealing with the "unlovely." I love the definition given of what love is (above - which I've put into italics so you'd know what I'm referring to). I guess it's not our concern to worry about how they (unlovely) react to what we are trying to do. We just need to do it and not worry about the return - whatever that return is.

I couldn't agree more with what was said about love not having anything to do with how many bible verse we know; or how many times we go to church; or how many church programs we have. That is why I recently left my church of almost 5 yrs. I don't think they got that either and seemed to be more concerned about programs than people. So now I'm looking for a body of believers who get this very same principal. A body of believers who WEAR agape love all the time - not just in front of the pastor and elders, ect.

I'm learning to have an agape type of love. It's not near perfect; and probably never will be. I just try not to use that for an excuse and try to chip away at it every day and do better each day that goes by.

Ok, I'll get off my soapbox now :preach: :tutu: .
 
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I do hope this is how others see me too. Loving, giving and doing for others comes very naturally to me. I would do anything for anyone....but sometimes I get tired. And this is where I falter. I get tired of loving, giving and doing all the time. Sometimes I start to think "It would be nice if someone showed all of this towards me." Not the specific acts but just having genuine care. I really do sense that this is terribly lacking in today's world. Which saddens me very deeply. I always feel like no one really likes me, or cares, or wants to spend time with me (except for my husband and children of course). Those thoughts creep in when I have my bad days. On those days I force myself to look up and focus on Jesus. I have to remind myself that I live for an audience of One. His approval and His love is all I need. I have to do everything for Him. I know He wants me to love, give and do and so I will continue on.....racing toward the prize.

*HUGS*

PS: Great Topic!
 
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Hi Ladies!

This is a prayer request. :prayer:

My father in law was brought to the hospital last night with severe chest pains, he's still there. :( They've been running test after test and we're still waiting to hear if it was a heart attack. Please lift him up in prayer today. He's not a Christian. :(

Thank you,
Christina

So sorry to hear about your father in law! I hope everything is okay - I will keep him in my prayers!
 
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A Deeper look at Psalm 23: Part 3

February 16, 2007

' He Makes Me To Lie Down In Green Pastures '

Nestled deeply in the tall shoots of his love, and there you will find rest.


For sheep to sleep, everything must be just right. No predators. No tension in the flock. No bugs in the air. No hunger in the belly. Everything has to be just so.
Unfortunately, sheep cannot find safe pasture, nor can they spray insecticide, deal with the frictions, or find food. They need help. They need a shepherd to "lead them" and help them " lie down in green pastures." Without a shepherd, they can't rest.
Without a shepherd, neither can we.
In the second verse of the Twenty-third Psalm, David the poet becomes David the artist. His quill becomes a brush, his parchment a canvas, and his words paint a picture. A flock of sheep on folded legs, encircling a shepherd. Bellies nestled deep in the long shoots of grace. A still pond on one side, the watching shepherd on the other. " He makes me to lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still waters"(Ps 23:2)
Who is the active one? Who is in charge? The shepherd. The shepherd selects the trail and prepares the pasture. The sheep's job - our job - is to watch the shepherd. With our eyes on our Shepherd, we'll be able to get some sleep. " You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You." (Isa. 26:3)
For you to be healthy, you must rest. Slow down, and God will heal you. He will bring rest to your mind, to your body, and most of all to your soul. He will lead you to green pastures.
Green pastures were not the natural terrain of Judea. The hills around Bethlehem where David kept his flock were not lush and green. Even today they are white and parched. Any green pasture in Judea is the work of some shepherd. He has cleared the rough, rocky land. Stumps have been torn out, and brush has been burned. Irrigation. Cultivation. Such are the work of a shepherd.
Hence, when David says, " He makes me to lie down in green pastures," he is saying, " My shepherd makes me to lie down in his finished work." With his own pierced hand, Jesus created a pasture for the soul. He tore out the thorny underbrush of condemnation. He pried loose the huge boulders of sin. In their place he planted seeds of grace and dug ponds of mercy.
And he invites us to rest there. Can you imagine the satisfaction in the heart of the shepherd when, with the work completed, he sees his sheep rest in the tender grass?
Can you imagine the satisfaction in the heart of God when we do the same. His pasture is his gift to us. This is not a pasture that you have made. Nor is it a pasture that you deserve. It is a gift of God.
To recognize God as Lord is to acknowledge that he is sovereign and supreme in the universe. To accept him as Savior is to accept his gift of salvation offered on the cross. To regard him as Father is to go a step further. Ideally, a father is the one in your life who provides and protects. That is exactly what God has done.
God has proven himself as a faithful father. Now it falls on us to be trusting children.


Trusting children.... we expect our children to trust us for their needs, yet how much do we truly trust God for our needs? What makes us so afraid to trust our Father completely? Why must we continue to look towards ourselves or others before turning to God?
Is there any area of your life that you have not yet given totally over to God?
 
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Awesome topic and post!

An area that I have not given up to God yet that immediately comes to mind are my gifts. Rather than seeking Him for help in better utilizing and mastering them, I choose to manipulate and work with them on my own. Which I think has proved to be rather useless and wasteful. I've prayed and we've talked. But I'm just not getting any clear picture whatsoever.
 
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He's still working with me on areas I haven't turned over to Him. I'll think I have and then He prods me and reminds me about something else. The main area He is working with me on right now is a more intimate relationship with Him....this is probably the hardest thing for me. Because just due to whom I am, its hard to be emotionally and spiritually close with anyone, let alone my Lord and this is really hard.
But He hasn't given up yet *smile* He'll get me there
 
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A Deeper look at Psalm 23: Part 3

February 16, 2007

' He Makes Me To Lie Down In Green Pastures '
You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You." (Isa. 26:3)


Trusting children.... we expect our children to trust us for their needs, yet how much do we truly trust God for our needs? What makes us so afraid to trust our Father completely? Why must we continue to look towards ourselves or others before turning to God?
Is there any area of your life that you have not yet given totally over to God?


Isaiah 26:3 & 4 are two of my favorite verses in the bible. Last year, while going through a really tough time at work -- my pastor picked up on the fact that I was not myself and inquired. So I told him what was up. He gave me those two verse to read that did MORE for me than ANYthing ANYone else ever said to me regarding that situation. It got me through every single uncomfortable, hurtful, stressful detail of the ordeal and keeps me going to this day!

Of course there are times still (being the human that I am) I can forget that He is our Shepherd and that He always DOES get us through and lays us down in green pastures -- but it doesn't take me quite as long to recoop now. Which is probably why He had me go through that whole situation (at work) to begin with. So it wasn't so terrible after all.

Here is the rest of that text my pastor gave me - it's equally as awesome as verse #3: 3

3 You will keep in perfect peace
him whose mind is steadfast,
because he trusts in you.
4 Trust in the LORD forever,
for the LORD, the LORD, is the Rock eternal.


Amen?​
 
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A Deeper look at Psalm 23: Part 3

February 16, 2007

' He Makes Me To Lie Down In Green Pastures '
Nestled deeply in the tall shoots of his love, and there you will find rest.​


Trusting children.... we expect our children to trust us for their needs, yet how much do we truly trust God for our needs? What makes us so afraid to trust our Father completely? Why must we continue to look towards ourselves or others before turning to God?
Is there any area of your life that you have not yet given totally over to God?
Wow...this topic is great to discuss and think about.

I find myself sometimes frustrated, angry, and irritated about things that only God can heal, deliver and free me from. I need to seriously learn how to rest in God no matter what. At times I try to "fix" situations on my own, thinking I can handle this or Im alright, not being completely honest with God and myself.

I must learn to completely trust in God and know it is only Him that I can fully rest and not let people, situations, things in life, or myself get me to feeling not like I should.

There's this song by Gospel Artist Deitrick Haddon called: "Resting Place". Some of the lyrics go..."Lord, u are my resting place. My rock, my sword, all pain erased...I find in u security. I seek your face, my resting place."

Resting in God brings True harmony and Peace within the heart, mind, body, spirit and soul.
 
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He's still working with me on areas I haven't turned over to Him. I'll think I have and then He prods me and reminds me about something else. The main area He is working with me on right now is a more intimate relationship with Him....this is probably the hardest thing for me. Because just due to whom I am, its hard to be emotionally and spiritually close with anyone, let alone my Lord and this is really hard.
But He hasn't given up yet *smile* He'll get me there
Thats my biggest area that God is working on me with also. He is getting me to a place in Him where I have no where else to turn to, but Him only. It does get hard at times. I need to give God my everything 100% all the time. God has done His part...its time for me to do mine and have an intimate relationship with Him from my heart. I have past issues where I was abused emotionally and mentally by what I thought was "true love" or "the perfect love", but the only perfect love is Jesus Christ. Once I have a rooted and grounded love "relationship and committment" with God, everything will be the way its supposed to be.

YES...thank the Lord He hasnt given up on any of us.
 
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Great Topic/Post Jennifer!

Currently this is not something that I'm really struggling with right now. I tend to give everything over to the Lord. There is still a small power struggle concerning alone time which I have none of right now but I HAVE to set my selfishness aside and focus on the job God wants me to do right now which is, raise my children up in the Lord. Motherhood is teaching me how to die to self....He must increase, I must decrease.

After reading that devotional I am just in awe of how great our God is. We are sinners who deserve absolutely nothing but He loves us anyway. He saved us anyway. He helps us anyway. I still can't completely grasp that and I will never understand it but I'll take it! ;)

God Bless all of you!
~Christina

PS: thanks for your prayers concerning my father in law. He's still in the hospital.
 
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Monday's Topic: Feb 19th

To Live Is Christ ~ From Persecutor to Preacher

1 Timothy 1:15> Here is a trustworthy saying that deserves full acceptance: Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners—of whom I am the worst.

If anyone knows anything about being saved, it's Paul. When Paul lived his life as Saul he was indeed a different man. Let's explore Saul's actions against Jesus' followers:

  • threatened
  • arrested
  • ridiculed
  • tried to get them to commit blasphemy
  • assualted
  • voted for their deaths
  • had them punished
  • travelled to other cities to persecute them
In fact the day Jesus spoke to Saul he was on his way to Damascus to take men and women of the Way as prisoners to Jerusalem.


Although Saul (self proclaimed worst sinner) was living such a dark and lethal lifestyle Jesus chose to appear to him. Jesus asked "Saul, Saul, why do you persecute me?" (Acts 9:4) Persecuting Jesus' followers was directly persecuting Jesus Himself. That day Christ appointed Saul as a servant to proclaim the gospel to the Gentiles.


Can you imagine one day hating a certain group of people, wanting them dead, going to great lengths to watch them suffer and the next loving the same group, teaching them the Word of the Lord you once ignored, trying with everything in your might to save them. What a change that was for Saul...so much so his name was changed.


A change like the one seen in Saul is impossible for man to do on his own. It is God who saves, it is God who changes, who sanctifies. It is God who places His desires in our hearts.


Echoing Beth Moore's words, "Having searched the life of Saul, how can we ever doubt that Christ can save?"

Discussion: Have you ever doubted your salvation? Does your past and/or sins just seem too big for God to forgive?

 
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