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Seraphim19
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My girlfriend of almost 2 years told me tonight that she cannot see us getting married anytime soon, but possibly in the next few years. She said there are so many things she wants to do - like help orphans around the world (that is her dream and child development is her career path). I could be okay with that, the only problem is sex. We have not had sex but we are not far away. As most probably have experienced, sexual temptation only gets worse the longer you are with someone and I can feel it getting worse each month that goes by even though we are trying so hard to be pure.
I feel like I could be ready to marry someone within 2 years easily, but she is not so sure. She says here feelings towards marriage have nothing to do with me, she just wants to experience so much more before committing her life to someone else.
I am her first boyfriend, and she even said she has a hard time thinking of just being with one guy without knowing anything else the rest of her life.
We are very much in love but I feel like there is little direction right. It seems like the thing to do is have sex and play that part out until we are both ready at the same time to settle down together.
Seems pretty dumb huh?
I feel like I could be ready to marry someone within 2 years easily, but she is not so sure. She says here feelings towards marriage have nothing to do with me, she just wants to experience so much more before committing her life to someone else.
I am her first boyfriend, and she even said she has a hard time thinking of just being with one guy without knowing anything else the rest of her life.
We are very much in love but I feel like there is little direction right. It seems like the thing to do is have sex and play that part out until we are both ready at the same time to settle down together.
Seems pretty dumb huh?