Hello there, thank you for honouring my thread with your presence!
I have a few questions, which I would like to discuss with the Christian people on this board. And since this is one of the biggest and most active Christian forums in the world, this seems like the perfect place. The questions concern God, His characteristics and existence, Christianity, Ethics, etc.
In the past, some Christians who I presented these questions to have felt offended. I sincerely hope that this is not the case here, and apologise in advance if it is. It is not my intention to insult anyone or attack your religion, I merely search for an in-depth discussion concerning your religion.
Three more things, before we get started. First, I apologise for any spelling- or grammatical errors made in my posts. English is not my first language, since Im from Holland, and even though I always use the spelling checker some mistakes slip through. Second, Im not sure whether this thread really belongs in this section. It seems more appropriate for the debate section, but I cant post it there because I need to post a hundred times elsewhere before that, and I dont feel like wasting your and my time writing a hundred posts just to make this thread. And third, for your own sake, dont try to answer all these questions at once. It took me days to think of them and weeks to formulate them properly, so dont stay up late trying to answer every question. I wouldnt want to endanger your health.
Ready? Okay then, here we go:
A number of questions, directed towards the Christian people here.
1. The heaviest stone:
Heres a classic one, to get things going. Some of you have probably heard this one before. God is said to be omnipotent, or all-powerful. Which means that He can do everything He wants. So, can God create a stone that is so heavy that God Himself cannot lift it?
2. The true fruit:
All right. Imagine a man, living all by himself in a fruit garden. This garden has all kinds of fruits, like apples, bananas, oranges, etc. However, this man doesnt eat the different sorts of fruit. In fact, he only eats one sort of fruits, the bananas. Thats the only fruit he eats, every day, for his entire life. And every time after eating a banana, he says: This banana is delicious. I made the right choice, because bananas are the most delicious fruit on the planet. It is the true fruit!
Now, this man has the full right to say what he says about bananas. But does he know it, when he says that bananas are the true fruit?
2b. Now, let us transfer this analogy to religion. Imagine a religious man, a Christian, who has been a Christian all his life, saying that Christianity is the true religion and should be preferred over all other religions. Now, this man has the full right to say and to believe that. But does he know it?
3. Jobs Problem:
As you all know, there is a lot of suffering in this world. War, hunger, diseases, you name it. Now, when I sometimes ask Christian people why there is suffering in the world, and why the all-loving God doesnt stop this (since He is omnipotent), some of them say that God is testing us. He is making us suffer to see whether we will stay loyal to Him. They sometimes refer to the story of Job, in which God takes everything from Job (his wife, his children, his land, his health) because Satan challenged Him and wondered whether Job would stay true to Him.
Now, being God, He has a certain right to accept this challenge and let Satan have his wicked way with Job for the sake of His challenge. According to the Christians, He gave us everything, so it isnt too illogical that He can take it away (although not all Christians will agree with this).
Theres just one little thing that bothers me. God, according to Christians, is
All-knowing. He knows everything about past, present and future. This means that He didnt have to accept Satans challenge, since He already knew Job would choose Him. In fact, theres no use in testing any of us by suffering at all, because God already knows who will come out of the test, and thus who are the true Christians. So why does He do it anyway?
3b. Some of you might answer that God might already have known that Job would remain faithful to Him, but that Satan didnt. But then, does that really matter? I mean, destroying an innocent mens life just to prove that Hes right doesnt seem like something a benevolent God would do, right?
4. The Dictator:
Once, in a country far, far away, there was a cruel dictator. He had ruled over his little country for decades and made the inhabitants suffer a great deal. One day however, there was uproar in the country, and an angry crowd gathered before the house of the dictator, only to be stopped by his own private army. The people were furious, and they demanded elections. They said that they wanted to have a choice, to express their free will. Okay, said the dictator, As you wish. I will organize elections, and you can freely choose between me and an impartial other candidate. However, if any of you dare not to vote for me, I will put you in the deepest dungeon and torture you horribly!
Now the dictator gave his people a choice. But is it a free choice? Do the people really have an opportunity to express their free will?
4b. Later that day, the dictators ten-year-old son walks up to him, and asks him whether he can have some candy. The dictator nods, opens a drawer, takes out two pieces of chocolate and puts one of them in each hand. The reaches out his hands towards his son and opens them, displaying a piece of white chocolate in the right hand and a piece of brown chocolate in the left hand. The dictator tells his son that he can pick whichever he wants. So the boy picks out the right hand, containing the white piece of chocolate.
However, upon doing this, the dictator becomes furious and gives his son a mighty blow to the side of his head. Crying, the boy asks him why he did that. The dictator answers that he didnt want him to pick the white piece of chocolate, and that he has the right to punish him because of that. The son disagrees. After all, whats the use of having a choice when ultimately the decision is forced upon you anyway? According to him, it is not a fair choice.
So whos right? The dictator, or his son?
4c. Now, if your answer to the last two questions was no, which seems quite possible, please answer me this;
The Bible says that God gave us free will. He gave us a choice. (In fact, this free choice seems to be the root of all our errors. Homosexuality = free choice. Catching HIV while trying to support your family by selling your body = free choice. Drown in the Tsunami = free choice.) However, if we dont choose the side of God, we will burn in hell, which probably hurts a lot. And we dont just go to hell for a short time, but we stay there for all eternity. Now, I agree with you that choosing between heaven and hell is a choice. But is it a free choice? Is it really a free choice anymore than the dictator gave his people or his son a free choice? Or does free choice include the acceptance of whatever choice you make, without adding any negative consequences to it?
4d. Back to the dictator. During the night after the original riots, a small group of angry people is still determined to take care of the dictator. They manage to enter his house, but they cant make their way past the guards in front of the dictators bedroom. So in the end, they decide to kidnap the son of the dictator instead. They take the young boy to their secret headquarters, and once there, they send a message to the dictator, telling him that if he doesnt end his reign over their people, they will kill the boy. They feel that this if fair, since after all, the boy is the son of the dictator. The boy himself disagrees, arguing that his fathers choices arent to blame on him. It wasnt his will for the people to be suppressed by the dictator.
Suppose that the people kill the boy if the dictator doesnt stop his reign. Would this be a morally acceptable thing to do?
4e. If your answer to this last question was no, consider what is written in Exodus 12: 29-30. Can God, a being that is supposedly perfect, do something that is morally unacceptable? And if He cant, doesnt that raise some questions about His omnipotence, since omnipotence is the ability to do anything?
5 Gods gender:
[sarcasm] Wow, thank you very much for insulting my religion [/sarcasm]. A statement that a Christian girl once made to me for referring to God as a She. Unfortunately, instead of making me feel sorry, it made me feel curious by raising a couple of questions.
For example, last time I checked God wasnt made out of matter. No matter means no genitals. No genitals, means that technically one cannot refer to God as a He. Or at least not forbid anyone else to refer to God as a She. Right? (If your answer to this question is yes, you can skip questions 5b, 5c and 5d.)
5b. Of course, some of you will respond to this saying that the bible refers to God as a He. However, the bible was written in a time when men were considered superior to women and dominated them. Women were considered as personal property. So at the time, if anyone were to refer to a supreme being, which God was supposed to be, using She, he wouldnt have been taken serious for an instant. So people referred to God as He. But does this really mean that God is a He? (If your answer to this question is yes, you can skip questions 5c and 5d.)
5c. Another thing. I (and note that I am a male) consider women to be the superior sex. Naturally, this means that I consider men the inferior sex. So far no harm done, at least not to the ladies here. However, here comes the tricky part. If I refer to God as Him this means that I consider Him male, or belonging to the inferior sex. Which is downright insulting, considering God is supposed to be a superior being. You see the dilemma. I cant call God a She because Christian people wont tolerate it, but I also cant call Him a He since that would be insulting Him too. What am I to do?
5d. One last thing. This one is even trickier than the ones before, but Im asking anyway. I noticed that a lot of the Christians (not all, mind you) are against gay marriage. However, something most of them (at least the Catholic ones) agree on, is that Catholic priests should not be married, since they are married to God as the expression goes in many countries. All fine so far. But. God is referred to as a He. Male. Catholic priests are also male. But if Catholic priests are married to or have a union with God, then this means that a male has married another male. Gay marriage. Right?
6. The good guy:
One day, a fisherman has a heart attack while fishing on the side of a lake, and falls into the water. A stranger on the side of the lake sees the man struggling not to drown, dives into the water and rescues the fisherman. The fisherman thanks the stranger, and asks him why he saved his life, since he was a total stranger to him. Since nobody else was watching him, he could have easily let him drown without having to endanger his life by diving in with him. The stranger answers that he saved the fisherman because he is a Christian, and he believes that good deeds like saving another persons life will get him to heaven.
A year later, the same fisherman has yet another heart attack on the side of the same lake, and hits the water again. Another stranger on the side of the lake sees this, and saves the fisherman like the first stranger did. After catching his breath, the fisherman asks this stranger the same question as he asked the other stranger a year ago, curious whether this is, like the other man, a Christian. This stranger, however, tells the fisherman that he is an atheist, and that he doesn't believe his good deeds will get him to heaven. To him, saving the life of the fisherman and seeing his happiness is enough reward.
Now, out of the two strangers, who had the better motive? The Christian, who saved the fisherman because he wanted to get the reward of going to heaven, or the atheist, who apparently didnt need a reward that big for saving the fisherman?