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Homosexuality is a sin, get over it...

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letting me off that easy? lol. Again putting words into my mouth.

And this is far a debate from homosexuality it's about liberal theology in general.
Okay, fine, you are judging the salvation of Liberal Christians rather than only those liberal Christians who are homosexuals.

Please respond: when you distinguished whole-cloth between Christians and those who only claim to be Christians you made a judgment on their salvation. I referred only to your own words, quoting you in context without redaction.

I am being very clear about my questions and straight forward in my reasoning. Why wont you give me a similarly clear answer with straight forward reasoning?

If you dont respond reasonably and logically in your next post, I will have no other option but to conclude that you have no reasonable, logical response.
 
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Okay, fine, you are judging the salvation of Liberal Christians rather than only those liberal Christians who are homosexuals.

Please respond: when you distinguished whole-cloth between Christians and those who only claim to be Christians you made a judgment on their salvation. I referred only to your own words, quoting you in context without redaction.

I am being very clear about my questions and straight forward in my reasoning. Why wont you give me a similarly clear answer with straight forward reasoning?

If you dont respond reasonably and logically in your next post, I will have no other option but to conclude that you have no reasonable, logical response.
I'm not judging the salvation of anyone, you're questioning my faith by your pressupositions stating that I'm a legalist. I wont waste my time arguing with someone who only spends time being defensive. I have yet to see your "question" all I have seen is personal attacks.

Btw I think it's funny that any individual or group can label themselves christian. But for any other standard it wont last...are you a lawyer without a law degree? so can you be a christian without christ?
 
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Really?

I have been pretty consistently either posting scripture or pointing out condemnation of entire groups of Christians. In your case I was pointing out that it is indefensible to equate pluralism and moral relativism (your words, not mine) with people who only call themselves Christians.

Those groups are, at best, bogeymen that exist only in conservative rhetoric and, at worst, catch-all terms that refer to whomever is in the sights of American conservatism: eg The ACLU, NOW, NEA, Operation Push, The NAACP etc. etc..

It doesn't matter what I think (except insofar as I am spot on in this instance) what does matter is this: Christian liberals (pluralists and moral relativists if you prefer) are finished being afraid of the bullying tactics of the religious right.

You, without a doubt, stated in post 368 that moral relativism and pluralism goes hand in hand with those who are not Christians but merely call themselves such. Unless you are willing to argue that a person needn't be a Christian to be saved then you did, in fact, state that moral realtivism and pluralism are grounds to judge a person's salvation.

I dont know how to make it more clear and consistent than perfectly clear every single time.
 
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Really?

I have been pretty consistently either posting scripture or pointing out condemnation of entire groups of Christians. In your case I was pointing out that it is indefensible to equate pluralism and moral relativism (your words, not mine) with people who only call themselves Christians.

Those groups are, at best, bogeymen that exist only in conservative rhetoric and, at worst, catch-all terms that refer to whomever is in the sights of American conservatism: eg The ACLU, NOW, NEA, Operation Push, The NAACP etc. etc..

It doesn't matter what I think (except insofar as I am spot on in this instance) what does matter is this: Christian liberals (pluralists and moral relativists if you prefer) are finished being afraid of the bullying tactics of the religious right.

You, without a doubt, stated in post 368 that moral relativism and pluralism goes hand in hand with those who are not Christians but merely call themselves such. Unless you are willing to argue that a person needn't be a Christian to be saved then you did, in fact, state that moral realtivism and pluralism are grounds to judge a person's salvation.

I dont know how to make it more clear and consistent than perfectly clear every single time.
Again, this is your pressupositions, which are again working against you. I can't by the forum rules make any statements about who is or isn't a Christian. You are just being defensive here because your individual conviction when I didn't make any spefic claims to any individual group.


I didn't once make a statement of salvation in regards to moral relativism or pluralism. You my friend , are being inconsisten.
 
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Again, this is your pressupositions, which are again working against you. I can't by the forum rules make any statements about who is or isn't a Christian. You are just being defensive here because your individual conviction when I didn't make any spefic claims to any individual group.


I didn't once make a statement of salvation in regards to moral relativism or pluralism. You my friend , are being inconsisten.

I'd just like to point out that by the classic rules of debate there is a blindingly clear winner in this exchange thus far. And I'm not quoting him in this post.
 
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I'd just like to point out that by the classic rules of debate there is a blindingly clear winner in this exchange thus far. And I'm not quoting him in this post.

Thanks for not contributing to the dabate and making yourself the CF winner announcer...not.
 
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I realize how hard it can be to spell a word properly when you're provided a spell-checker coded directly into the website and you actually quote a properly spelled example in your response, but the word is "debate". You might be more likely to win it if you can spell it.

And I have contributed to this debate. I simply did not contribute directly with that post beyond pointing out that - in case you weren't aware of it - your perspective is the only one capable of not realizing you're losing badly.
 
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Christian means follower of Christ. So how can you not follow Christ and be Christian? I am speaking nothing of being Gods children.

How can you be a Christian, and yet not follow Christ? You can't. But it is not for you or I to define what it is to follow Christ. It is for God to define, and from his perspective it is perfectly possible for him to see someone of another faith behaving in a way which reflects Christ's behaviour and love on earth, and see his son reflected in that person's eyes. What he then decides in relation to that person is for him. He may or may not use the term Christian. Being a Christian is about having a certain relationship with God, not about a particular behaviour, or using a particular form of worship or prayer or whatever.

It is a difference of focus. I prefer to focus on God, and leave all decisions of who is in and who is out to him. The point is, God judges and God decides. It is not for me to bar the gates of heaven to anyone but myself, in relation to my own sin.

I am not sure if this helps, because I have been away for a while, and have somewhat lost the plot, in more ways than one. ;) :D
 
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Do you believe that consentual BDSM is a sin? What about consentual adultery (where the husband and wife are in agreement over their desire to commit adultery, but still wish to live together, and still profess to love one another)?

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Erm, not sure what BDSM is or involves, but assuming some form of extreme sexual activity, then no, not between consenting adults, but only as long as no-one actually gets hurt, either physically or emotionally. Which, I think, is a great danger in any such activity, and probably makes it sinful for most of those who engage in it. But the same caveat applies to sex within marriage too.

Adultery is contrary to the ten commandments, so that is much easier. Consent or not, God does not like it. But yes, they may well still love one another, and may even love God.

Do you not hate sin, though? Do you not hate the detrimental quality it has on a person who's enslaved to it? Is this not a reaction to your love for the individual who's enslaved to it?

I am human. I can hate with the rest of mankind. The question is, does God hate, and are we called to include hatred as a component of our faith, or not? I believe not, and that any hatred in me is not of God, and is to be repented. No, I do not hate sin, though. I hope I have compassion for it, as I hope that God will have compassion on me for my sins, when I stand before him.

If they continue in their sickness and do not seek a hospital, what do you think the effect would be?

Same as with physical illness, when life comes to its end. They will be left in God's hands, which are hands of love, mercy and compassion.

He drew from the Law of Moses, which makes the Law of Moses important for understanding it as well. If these elements are removed from pertinence in understanding the teachings Christ presented to us, then we're left to make faulty presumptions about what the way Christ related to people meant.

I agree that you cannot take Christ out of his context. But the fact remains, he is primary, and all else is, at best, secondary. If there is anything anywhere said by anyone, which is contradicted in the person and example of Christ, I will take Christ to be true, and whatever is not the same, as less true.

And this is very true, it's an excellent point. I somehow doubt, though, that he meant it in such a way that simply showing love to one another is the full extent of what it means to be a Christian. Even atheists can do that.

'Simply showing love to one another'. You think that is easy? :)

I have been a Christian for many decades now, loving those around me, but I do not think I have ever come even close to loving my brothers and sisters as Christ loved those he met. Without condemnation, and with full acceptance of every failing, every frailty; with compassion and acceptance of who they are, and what they have to deal with. With unfailing patience and sacrificial love.

If Christians could only focus on this, to the exclusion of all else, do you really think life would be easier than taking the moral high ground and preaching to everyone? :D

I agree completely. The problem is that Christ was the transmission of the Law and the Prophets (the promise of God to Abraham) manifest in the Flesh on Earth, to fulfil the promise of God. Thus all the portions of the Bible are equally relevant and important, but they haven't retained the same meaning they had before Christ. They're no longer absolutely propositional and legalistic, but they are delegated to a complete understanding of Christ, in an absolute way.

I would not say that Christ is the transmission of the Law and the Prophets. Rather, I would say he is the fulfillment, and the First Fruits of the new creation.

But it is not true that all parts of the Bible are equally relevant and important. To say that is, imo, to make the Bible into God, which it is not.

The Law of Moses was given by the mouth of God, the finger of God wrote the ten commandments. Christ is the manifestation of God's Word.

I disagree. The Bible tells us that Christ is God's Word. Not a manifestation, but his identity. The Gospel of John is clear on this, and Revelation says that Christ's name is the Word of God.

For instance, would it be wrong to denounce ritual human sacrifice, if it manifest itself in society, and society accepted it as normal?

Our society does accept ritual human sacrifice. Four people a day in the UK die on the roads, and we all accept it. If 4 people died a day on the railway, or in the air, there would be an outcry.

This is about perception. Four deaths a day is not acceptable, and it ought to be stopped. But stopping this needs human will and action. Nothing to do with hatred.

But is this something you can consistently hold?

I don't know. Ask me again in five years time. Christ held it all his life, but I have some way to go. :wave:

But is it wrong to be opposed to sin, in and of itself?

No, of course not. It is only wrong to use the language of hatred, in relation to a faith based on God's love.

And it is also wrong to pick on sins that others have, but that one is free of oneself. For example, I am qualified to speak out against anger, or jealousy, or fear. But I am not qualified to lecture on the evils of sexual licence, homosexuality, etc etc. Not because I do not have a viewpoint, but because my own sins are my concern, and they are going to take a lifetime to deal with.

Most of these debates, in general, are started in an attempt to do one of two things (this is not universally true, but relatively); either to justify the sin, or to condemn the sin. Both modes of thought act in opposition to peace-keeping and love for one another. This makes people who come later and argue on either side look bad, do you not agree?

I think there is a third option. The third reason for starting these debates is for me, the instigator, to show how holy I am, by the strength of my vitriol poured out on my brothers and sisters in sin.

Such behaviour is anathema.

I am not sure that anything can make a person look bad, unless they collude in that making. In other words, a reasonable person can debate on any topic, and not be defiled by it, or by the tone of debate. Maybe they can even do some good, by keeping their temper, and an open mind to debate.
 
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I realize how hard it can be to spell a word properly when you're provided a spell-checker coded directly into the website and you actually quote a properly spelled example in your response, but the word is "debate". You might be more likely to win it if you can spell it.

And I have contributed to this debate. I simply did not contribute directly with that post beyond pointing out that - in case you weren't aware of it - your perspective is the only one capable of not realizing you're losing badly.
I'm not paying attention to my spelling since I am doing several things at once. I suggest you stick to the debate insted of focusing on small insignifacnt details.

Your boasting isn't going to get you anywhere and I'm not loosing badly that's ONE persons opinion especially since I get PM's from conservatives all the time. I wonder if your account is a real one in the first place since you are defending a liberal position when you clearly have a republican icon.
 
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Good Lord, the short mindedness of this all. <--This is generally refering to anti-homosexual arguments.

Somebody had said something like, "why should we question the church fathers, being they have been in agreement on this subject for 2k years"

Well they haven't been in agreement for one. Two, there is now a communications surge known as internet that allows these large discussions, they've been taking place for 2k years in a limited forum. Three, we challenge the words of the "church fathers" because God wants us to. It's about progressing, finding the truer truth. Understanding God's will in our lives.

If I do not push, if I don't honestly seek God, I am denying his reign on my life.
 
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I'm not paying attention to my spelling since I am doing several things at once. I suggest you stick to the debate insted of focusing on small insignifacnt details.

Pardon me for being educated and having respect for those forced to read what I write. In case you weren't aware, those who don't read/write/speak English natively are far more likely to have trouble with spelling errors because their knowledge of the language is far less likely to be as comprehensive as the average native.

That is why it is considered polite to make an effort to be legible, and impolite to not make the effort. If they need to figure out what a particular word means, typing in a botched spelling of it is much less likely to help them out.

Your boasting isn't going to get you anywhere and I'm not loosing badly that's ONE persons opinion especially since I get PM's from conservatives all the time. I wonder if your account is a real one in the first place since you are defending a liberal position when you clearly have a republican icon.

Well I'm sure it will come as a shock to you, but not every Christian thinks exactly like you do and not every Republican agrees with every other Republican.

A true conservative does not believe that a purely religious/moral issue like homosexuality should be legislated. The only Republican who would support such an ideal is one who is actively seeking to convert a democracy into a theocracy.


If you bother to actually look into the core differences between the Democrat and Republican parties, you'd see that at the core neither party should oppose gay marriage, gay rights, or anything of the sort. It is neither a big government or small government issue. It is purely a religious issue.

A good Republican fears the day that religion and government become the same thing.
 
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I'm not paying attention to my spelling since I am doing several things at once. I suggest you stick to the debate insted of focusing on small insignifacnt details.

Your boasting isn't going to get you anywhere and I'm not loosing badly that's ONE persons opinion especially since I get PM's from conservatives all the time. I wonder if your account is a real one in the first place since you are defending a liberal position when you clearly have a republican icon.
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Alright, lemme break it down for you. Konkurrent quoted your response to my argument. Konkurrent said, in his quote of you, that he was not quoting the 'blindingly clear' winner of the debate. Which debate was he referring to? The one between you and me. Who then was he saying was the winner? Me not himself.

Considering the fact that you have substantially misinterpreted a few short posts, should I believe that you are carefully interpreting a document as rich, complex and lyrical as the bible?

The answer is simple: I should not.
 
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I'm writing this thread not so I can go out and condemn people for their sins. Rather, it seems that there is a lot of defense in the Christian community for this sin, and that shouldn't be. Do I write this in hopes that it will diminish efforts to try and defend what is clearly, Biblically, wrong.



Anyone who has heard of the cities of "Sodom and Gommorah" knows that they were notorious hotbeds of homosexuality.

Gen 19:5-8
"and they called to Lot and said to him, 'Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us that we may have relations with them.' But Lot went out to them at the doorway, and shut the door behind him, and said, 'Please, my brothers, do not act wickedly.'"

The Greek word in the New Testament for homosexuality is literally "a sodomite". (A term that has unchanged in 5000 years, even today- "sodomy") Apart from the fact the city was clearly destroyed by God because of homosexuality in the narrative of Gen 19, even the New Testament clearly states exactly the same thing in Jude 7.

Jude 7
"Just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities around them, since they in the same way as these indulged in gross immorality and went after strange flesh, are exhibited as an example, in undergoing the punishment of eternal fire."

Any sinner should always remember that the God who commands us to love our neighbour is the same God who will cast any and all unrepentant sinners into the "eternal fire".

Here are more Bible quotes,

Lev 18:22-23
"You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination."

Lev 20:13
"If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death."

1 Cor 6:9
"Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals"

1 Tim 1:9-10
"realizing the fact that (civil) law is not made for a righteous man, but for those who are lawless and rebellious, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers and immoral men and homosexuals and kidnappers and liars and perjurers"

Rom 1:26-27
"For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error."


There we have a very precise Biblical picture of what homosexuality is, a sin.

If anyone has any objections to this, please post them. That is why I have made this thread, to answer objections. Thank you.

Shalom, OObi
I don't know what Bible version you use, but in a lot of those passages you posted above, "homosexuals" is "them that defile themselves with mankind" in the KJV.

I used to think that homosexuality is a sin, but last night, my eyes were opened. Homosexuality is NOT a sin, but rather, homosexual ACTS is the sin [i.e., the act of sleeping with members of the same sex; hence, the KJV says "them that defile themselves with mankind"--this gives the impression that homosexual Christians may receive salvation as long as they don't defile themselves with mankind (i.e., they don't sleep with members of the same sex)].

Homosexuality is a punishment from God [Romans 1:26-27 (context starts at Romans 1:21 it seems, but I could be wrong)]. Punishments are not sins; therefore, homosexuality is not a sin.
 
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