I felt kinda odd at the cookouts because I didn't know anyone there, so it was like, 'Hey, you don't know me and I don't know you, but Imma come here and eat yo food,so...yeah". Both were nice. But I found out today that my mom can be a bit...calculating. Later on, she told me that if the guys didn't look the way they did, ...then she'd want me to get noticed by one of them, since I looked nicer that day. How embarrassing! :oThe last thing I'd want is for her to try to set me up with someone.