Hi there,
I was having a talk with a friend, we are both Christians, and he raised a quite different perspective to I.
This led me to question my own thoughts/approach to this type of situation, and it was inconclusive, so I want a larger broader perspective.
I recently moved into a new apartment, and a female friend wanted to see my new place. The plan was she would come see the unit, we would hang there for an hour or 2 until dinner time, then head up to the shops and grab dinner.
My friend objects, saying this is not beyond reproach, and is a potential situation for sexual temptation. (Putting a LOT more emphasis on the not beyond reproach perspective, as he agreed sexual temptation is very very low...). He talks about other people looking in on the situation and not knowing the situation can make false assumptions and ultimately its not beyond reproach.
I sit on the other side of this fence, I debate that we are just two friends who have no interest in each other than friendship, clearly expressed, and she just wants to see where I am now living.
Of course a simple solution is to just have a third person present, but I am interested in people's opinions in 1 on 1 male to female social interactions. Should it be kept 100% purely to public areas? What do you think?
Thanks,
I was having a talk with a friend, we are both Christians, and he raised a quite different perspective to I.
This led me to question my own thoughts/approach to this type of situation, and it was inconclusive, so I want a larger broader perspective.
I recently moved into a new apartment, and a female friend wanted to see my new place. The plan was she would come see the unit, we would hang there for an hour or 2 until dinner time, then head up to the shops and grab dinner.
My friend objects, saying this is not beyond reproach, and is a potential situation for sexual temptation. (Putting a LOT more emphasis on the not beyond reproach perspective, as he agreed sexual temptation is very very low...). He talks about other people looking in on the situation and not knowing the situation can make false assumptions and ultimately its not beyond reproach.
I sit on the other side of this fence, I debate that we are just two friends who have no interest in each other than friendship, clearly expressed, and she just wants to see where I am now living.
Of course a simple solution is to just have a third person present, but I am interested in people's opinions in 1 on 1 male to female social interactions. Should it be kept 100% purely to public areas? What do you think?
Thanks,