If they are, I haven't heard it. I'm a regular church attender, have been to many conferences and/or praise gatherings, and have watched a good bit of Christian programming on television, I've hardly heart it. However, I'm not going to refute what you claim to have noticed.
Okay, it's not 75%, but it is close. It's 69% of the time.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...hy-women-are-more-likely-to-initiate-divorce/
Which churches might those be? I could see the Amish, or perhaps some small denomination, but for the vast majority of churches, this is not the case.
Do you realize why the whole "log in your own eye first" is mentioned? It's because if you are doing the same thing that others are doing, it makes you a hypocrite. It's also a poor witness. It weakens your testimony and unfortunately many will not listen to your message.
In this case, we are dealing with commands given by God to women, so this can't apply to me, so the "log" comment is not valid.
However, you posted a comment about berating women.
Where might that be?
It is loving as Jesus loved to point out sin. Otherwise, people could die without being made right with God.