Dear Bezel286. You had some good replies, may I join too? We are all on this Earth to learn, to pick up our cross daily, to learn from it and overcome the wrong. Jesus gave us 2 Commandments, they contain all what God`s 10 Commandments tell us. 1) Love God with all our hearts, with all our souls, and with all our minds. That is straight forward, God made us in His image, He loves us, He wants us back again, we are His. 2) Love our neighbour, all others, friend or foe, As we love ourselves. LOVE is the most wanted and strived-for Goal. It may sound easy, yet to love as God wants our love, is all-conquering and the highest goal, All for God, and shared equally amongst each other. We are all different, we all have different crosses to bear, but the love we share is always the same. Jesus will give us His Love, Joy and Peace, He will help and guide us, and we will find that to love selflessly becomes easier day by day. Unless you seriously try, Bezel, you will not know that the cross which Jesus asked us to carry daily, will become easier and easier. Christianity is a loving relationship, and we all have our crosses to bear, but with helping others, friend or foe, we will find that God`s promise, " not to give us more than we can bear," is absolutely true. I say this humbly and with love. Greetings from Emmy, your sister in Christ.