I've never discussed this on a forum before. I feel like my understanding of the issues is fuzzy. I have a vague understanding of what I believe to be right but I'm having trouble finding ways to express it clearly so I'm hoping that discussion will help me to sharpen my understanding.
bryan said:
Can you really think that clearly as you see a 500 pound killing machine coming at you with 5 inch claws and a paw the size of a garbage can lid?
It's quite a fearful image you present. I realize you are talking about an animal here but you are relating it to a human context. The appearance of the person should be7 irrelevant whether it's a huge guy with a nasty look in his eye or kindly grandmother with violent tendencies.
If we allow fear to dictate our responses then we will do the wrong thing either way. I'm not saying we should be oblivious or stupid, but certainly fear will not guide us true.
Why is a human who has given up every shred of his humanity to victimize other humans any different?
Demonizing the attacker will not help us to make good choices about how to handle the situation.
Perhaps your death is part of God's plan to get him to repent later in prison or even on Death Row.
Thank you for considering this. There is no guarantee that it will work, but it's worth keeping in mind. We could end up laying our lives down in a rather painful way hoping it will lead to someone repenting and if it doesn't, then we could become bitter about the wasted sacrifice, but I don't think God sees it that way and I don't think he wants us to see it that way either. Doing good is still good even if it does not accomplish what we hoped it would.
Jesus allowed himself to be killed so that the whole world would have a chance at forgiveness. His death did not guarantee repentance, but at least he's given people the option. We may think, "well yeah, but that's Jesus. He was supposed to die as part of God's plan", but I think that misses the point of the choice he and God made for Jesus to willingly lay his life down not only to buy salvation for us, but to give us an example of how love over comes hate.
There is no point in giving us an example if we are not meant to follow that example.
Would you give both your kidneys to save two kids' lives?
Interesting choice of example. It really depends on the situation. If God made it clear that's what he wants me to do, then yes I think I would. Organ donation is a fantastic way to share the gift of life. ^.^
I believe the key factor in any of these hypotheticals is to keep asking "what does God want". That question needs to become standard in anything we do.
Would you kill a predator who is abducting them?
Laying one's life down is a deeply intimate decision between God and the individual. It's not my place to make that decision for another person so if I see someone being hurt, or about to be hurt, I will not think to myself, "they should lay their lives down". I will try to do the best I can to help that person.
In your example, I would be praying pretty hard for God to stop the predator. If that didn't work then I'd do my best to stand between that person and the intended victims. I see a difference between hate and violence; they are not necessarily the same thing. Perhaps I would try to use some physical means to incapacitate the attacker but I think any attempt on the Christian's part to invoke physical violence needs to be done very carefully and prayerfully.
Like in the bear attack, I can't think that much when I'm being attacked.
I get what you are saying. When things are happening quickly it's hard to make reasoned choices. Adrenaline is flowing and we are scared so we are more likely to react than to think through a list of options. We all handle pressure differently, but I don't think that's a good enough reason to stay that way. We can learn to think under pressure and therefore be more likely to make better decisions.
For example, a person who stubbornly insists that he can't think under pressure but just react, is more likely to miss an option for escape or some other way to defuse the situation. Your comment about being careful not to stand between the attacker and that person's means of escape is a good example of thinking clearly under pressure. A person who panics could miss that and end up adding more danger to the situation.
Panic is likely to cause a person to overlook asking God for help or wisdom in how to respond to a violent situation, especially if that person has a weapon they are relying on. Their first thought is likely to be the weapon rather than God. I'm not talking about absolutes, but just what seems to be likely.
There is no correlation whatsoever. Saying that owning a gun is a sign of a lack of faith is like saying that keeping your chickens in a coop is a lack of faith that God will keep the foxes away.
I agree with Bryan here. I don't think it shows a lack of faith (well not necessarily) to take precautions. Alarm systems, barred windows, and guard dogs are all reasonable solutions to avoid conflict. Whether it is a lack of faith really depends on whether the person is acting in wisdom or acting in fear.
However, I feel there is something different when it comes to relying on a weapon. I think there is a spiritual disconnect in finding comfort in a weapon which is designed to harm people.
God allows bad things to happen. There could be so many reasons why but I feel like we miss those reasons when we instead start thinking, "If God won't protect us then we'll protect ourselves".