Watch this miracle - an evolutionist is about to quote Scripture!
*shock* *gasp* *horror*
Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight. For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to make themselves beautiful. They were submissive to their own husbands, like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her master. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.
(1 Peter 3:1-6 NIV)
Amber4099, I haven't seen you make any replies in this thread yet. You doing alright? =) As gluadys said, you may be very surprised to be moved to Origins Theology. This is essentially a subforum where people discuss how science and Scripture relate to each other, especially in terms of questions about origins and the like.
You will find two broad, different camps here. The first camp is the creationist camp, most of whom are young earth creationists, or people who believe that the earth has been created recently and rapidly based on how they read the Bible. (Though every once in a while you get some slightly different creationist views.) The second camp is the evolutionist camp, most of whom would be labeled "theistic evolutionists". That's the bunch I'm part of, and we believe that evolution makes a lot of sense when we look at nature - and that it also makes sense put together with the Bible. We aren't all that different - we agree that the Bible is important, we just disagree on
how it is important. We get quite nasty and terse over it at times; many of us have gotten used to it, but if you're feeling a little shocked, I apologize on behalf of everyone.
Thus you will get some very different views about evolution depending on who you ask. But don't get too hung up on evolution in the first place. Evolution is only a part of atheism, and there are many people here (myself included) who accept evolution and yet firmly believe in the God of the Bible. If you don't think you're a good arguer, there's no need to try and argue your husband into the Kingdom of God in the first place. Just keep praying hard for him and set a good example for him (as the passage above from 1 Peter advises).
It would help, though, if you could find out his views about evolution. Is he an atheist because of evolution? Or for some other reason? There would be no point arguing with him for a year about evolution only to find out that he hates God not because of evolution, but because God let something horrible happen to him when he was a little boy. I'd like to repeat that not everybody who accepts evolution turns into an atheist automatically.
I hope that this will be a safe environment for you to explore what various people believe about this matter. Many of us have spent lots of time thinking about this (though we all still have a long way to go) and hopefully we can help you in any way possible.
(And guys, let's keep it civil. Someone asked for help. Let's help, no matter how much we disagree on how we should help.
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