We all know that you come here because you really do know that God is real as all man does
Sorry, that's the statement of any failed Christian mentalist: claiming to know our minds and promptly demonstrating a miss by a country mile.
you are just looking for a reason to admit out loud that you now believe. Well while on that journey please do not tell me that my reasoning is wrong as I do not care what you believe as I know its not like mine.
That's an error of fact as an opening. I used to believe, now I don't.
And as for "I do not care what you believe", well, yes, I have met evangelists like that.
It's not a good opening strategy for more than one reason.
when asked to stop they throw a temper tantrum. Please respect our views and way of being as it is not like yours but we are allowed to be so.
If you can find a temper tantrum in my writing I will apologise.
My aim is to be at least as polite as the person I am replying too.
The principle that one should respect views I find disturbing, if the implications are worked through.
(and reciprocity of respect offered to all views.)
Certainly there should be no unnecessary insult or personal attack, but views and beleifs to be placed on an untouchable pedestal?
The concept might seem nice at first thought, but what if other people got their hands on it?
Consider all the things that would suddenly be beyond critique or criticism. Unless this was, rather dubiously, being claimed as a unique privilege, of course.
But even that idea could be claimed and asserted by others. Messy.