Again, why do you place such a high expectation on me to be fair, but no expectation on Christians to be fair?
I have actually only expected that you would place that expectation on yourself. I do admit, I have some higher expectation of your fairness than some Christians I would talk to, but due to your mental capacity. You are quite intelligent, though you have suffered in many ways, which has caused you to form some beliefs/attitudes, and then you will respond this way, which is not how you would respond if your life's circumstances had been more ideal. My purpose for raising this point, is for your sake. Since I think in normal conditions you would prefer to be fair, and perhaps you were not aware of the way you were behaving.
"Yes" to which question? I don't expect "yes" fits all three.
Perhaps, but most know about atheists through the "hypothetical atheist" that is preached about in churches.
Not me. My impression of atheists is from experience. I had not heard of the expression "atheist" until about two weeks before I joined this website. My impression is therefore not a result of indoctrination. You may not expect to learn this, but that is actually the truth in my case.
The one who claims that the universe is an accident.
Is this not typical for an atheist?
Ok, but I would rather investigate the full extent of the meaning in this. It seems to potentially have some truth, if not for a majority of atheists, then a significant proportion. Perhaps the most vocal and blatant proportion, that causes a misconception like you have in the converse.
The one who is the major cause of sexual deviance and sexually transmitted diseases.
I would not accept the word "cause" because we know the cause is natural, but rather I would suggest that Christians are expressly much less comfortable with sexual deviance than atheists. Do you know the percentage of people who have been turned off from Christianity because of it's views on sexuality? Take it further, how many people become atheist with this as their primary (even if suppressed) motivator? (eg, polygamy, homosexuality, masturbation, fornication, marriage, or even lust?).
STD is a consequence of increased risks, so we would need to seriously investigate whether atheism is responsible for increasing those risks when compared to some other discipline. Do you think there could possibly be some truth in that allegation? I believe there could be some truth in the opposite way, due to beliefs against protections, frustrations resulting in underground activities etc.
The ones who just want to sin more.
This could be a malformed expression. I think if the people who said this were pressed to explain, they would probably accept that everyone must achieve a comfort with their sinfulness. Those who pursue Christianity for this purpose will usually find comfort in being forgiven. Usually that comes with conditions, for example repenting and turning away from the sin. Some people find comfort instead by adjusting their definition of sin. These approaches are not mutually exlusive, eg some atheists have said to effect that if there is a god to judge them, then that god should understand that they did their best. They are expecting some forgiveness and that gives them the necessary comfort. Some Christians for example, might say instead that two people sworn to each other even without formal mariage ceremony but all intentions, are not fornicators. They are adjusting the definition of sin, and that gives them the necessary comfort. For a Christian to observe that an atheist shifts their definition of sin to achieve the necessary comfort, they might express this as thinking that the atheist likes to sin more. But really, humans just all suffer some desire to sin that makes them uncomfortable sometimes, and we all need to find ways to cope with it.
These don't refer to actual atheists, but hypothetical atheists, like we see in "God's not dead" to convince Christians that atheists are horrible, wicked people that you should hate. And as a result you do. Not because you know anything about us, our experience, or our point of view, but because modern Christianity teaches that you know everything "because I said so."
You seem to be speaking to me as though I am someone else. Thanks, I will get hold of that movie.
You are a Christian, you do not have any view of the atheist perspective at any time. You have a strawman.
Why?
Exactly. Why would you? You have been fed a narrative designed to remind you how much you hate atheists. You only know the strawman atheist.
Not true, I know a handful of real life atheists. I think you are one, but I doubt that sometimes.
Actually, I have not been fed a narrative to remind me how much I hate atheists, you are making that up. I have through my life, had influence from people who have represented Christianity in a positive way, as a positive thing, and I have received a lot of information from that experience that I have been able to see in a perspective of being true. I was not always able to see it that way though. I am pretty certain that you have some idea in mind of me that is quite different from the truth.
Let's put it to a test: From the atheist perspective, what do we believe to be true that you do not? What claim do we make that could be true at all?
Ok, generally and by defintion, an atheist will rather decide that God is most likely not true whereas I have always chosen to believe that God most likely is true. Atheist's claim all sorts of things that are true, and like any finite/limited human, are prone to making claims that aren't true. What is the purpose of this test?
No, it very clearly hasn't.
Why do you believe this? Please explain.
What is this? Is this a Christian telling other Christians that non-Christians are reckless, wild living people who hate you, and this is taken as proof that Christians are getting the same treatment as us? Is this supposed to convince me that Christians don't hate us? This is the very narrative I'm talking about.
Not intended for that purpose. What I intended was to show you that because of someone being offended that you don't like what they like (ie, Christians who are offended that you don't find the value that they find in their doctrines), then they become abusive. This was relevant to me last week, because I have found that very same thing, though it was not wild, reckless living, it was that I chose not to pursue their interests in wealth. This was a statement that St Paul wrote to Timothy, in the New Testament. As such, Timothy's circumstances appear that he had decided to not join his friends in wild, reckless living, and as a result, those friends had turned on him, speaking about him abusively. I mustadmit, I don't know the full story surrounding this, but St Paul's observation appeared to contain some useful truth, relevant to me, on my mind at the time, and what I thought could be useful for you to consider too. The quote by Jesus was to remind you of the point of view that the Christians would have when you disrespect their values. Then I asked you whether you think you can see a pattern, of abuse being a response to being offended. It would be nice to know that you have seen what I meant, please give it some fair thought.
I would like to be open about the fact that I do not believe in a God, but I can't. I have to lie, all the time. Why? I might get attacked again. I might see my career stall. I have no I idea how my son will be treated as a result. All because of the hatred inside Christianity.
Yes, I pity you. I have never seen anything like it. I have though been promptly excluded from a job opportunity for saying that I enjoy discussing Christianity online. I don't know how I would handle your circumstances. I make no judgement. I have seen that there is quite often disadvantage for being honest. In fact, that is a well known principle of survival in this world.
You may have to define attitude for me then, as these statements say that nothing is more important than belief.
So I have sent some examples to you in a PM, and for those watching, I will just say that I gave some specific examples of behaviours that are justified by belief, but those beliefs cause people to act irrationally. I have withdrawn this statement since it singles out a specific group of people to which I don't identify, and then goes to describe that I think they are wrong. Then later I was shown that I would be inviting judgement with the same measure, so it's better to just avoid pointing to specific people, because really everyone can be pointed at for something.
So then I think it is better to address directly the scriptures in question, those I have submitted to JGG and those he has submitted to me, and see if I can show how attitude is important. Then I may conclude to show how belief is something else.
For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, (9) not a result of works, so that no one may boast.
St Paul here is addressing some Christians in Ephesus, who he is explaining as Gentiles, they have been offered the hope of resurrection with the Jews, and inheritance of a place in God's kingdom. St Paul explains in the verses that follow, especially verse 14, that the Gentiles were invited and accepted by God and the Christian Jews, to worship as Gentiles. St Paul speaks of this in very strong terms, as the Gentiles having formerly been "lost" (as they were considered "unclean" by Jews, and thus prevented from engaging in the worship of God alongside them). St Paul is addressing the Christian Gentiles' attitude, reminding them to stay humble rather than to boast of their salvation, since there is nothing that they have done that could have brought this about. St Paul reminds them in verse 8 that Jesus has achieved all this for them, and that this was a gift from God. In saying this, St Paul is encouraging an attitude of gratitude, and that of wanting to share the gift. You may observe that this is not effectively reflected in the attitudes of some who have received the gift. Perhaps St Paul was aware of this tendency, which must be quite a basic human tendency, and is writing directly to these Christian friends to explain to them that they should be careful to monitor their attitude about this.
Galatians 3:24 So then, the law was our guardian until Christ came, in order that we might be justified by faith.
In this verse, when going about explaining the attitude it is encouraging, I can see the first most obvious observation is that of a belief. That is, to believe that the law could "guard" a person from sin, and Jesus Christ can free us from it. So I began to investigate why this belief exists, and what Paul's understanding of sin, law, Jesus Christ must be. It becomes apparent that whether law or Christ, the one who practices the faith is trying to be justified in God's view even though they are sinners. What is this "justification"? I see that it is one's own sense of peace with God, which was firstly instituted by satisfying legal requirements, but as we can see in the eventuated Christian teaching, the freedom to know that our sins will be forgiven if we live in obedience to Him. You can see a contrast between law and Christian faith, in that law is individual's interpretation of defined decree, whereas obedience to Christ Jesus is more reasonable and loose, tailored to each individual and situation. You can see this Christian attitude in a lot of St Paul's philosophy (for example, eating of meat sacrifieced to idols is ok for some but not others), and for an example of Jesus' own attitude, when His disciples were accused of breaking Sabbath law by eating wheat as they strolled the field. There is a difference to be observed in the attitude there, whereby one type of person is trying to trap and condemn another using law, while another is trying to free someone of their feeling of sinfulness using forgiveness and providing examples of why it is reasonable. Attitudes are very prevalent in this matter, when we look at what it is all about.
Romans 4:1 - Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.
This will be a very interesting point to look at, probably the best, and it will require a thorough, proper understanding of what faith is. This is important, fundamental, since what St Paul claims faith to be is in his reckoning the justification we have through our Lord, that gives us peace with God. Then, what is faith? for one thing, it is a confidence we have about what we hope for. It is worthwhile putting here that although atheist's demonstrate a lack of such confidence, it does not mean they don't have the hope. This is a description of faith submitted by St Paul in Hebrews 11. The other part of his definition is assurance of what we do not see. This might mean a few things, when considered in isolation, and not least of which is the uncanny nature of things such as coincidence. While this sort of faith might be uncomfortable for some people, who might think of it as paranoia or suspicion, it is an integral requirement of faith that we do trust our suspicion of attributing things to God rather than conflicting attributions such as coincidence. That is a hallmark of faith. So to someone who attributes things to God when they feel it is right to, and who is confident of the things they hope for (ie, a person having faith), they naturally feel justified due to their belief in what Jesus has accomplished. That justification produces in them a peace with God, which can only be achieved if someone is comfortable with their state of sinfulness in His opinion. Then I can see this is a good example of a Christian belief. Likewise, you will need to accept something that I will show you next, that demonstrates that someone's belief or faith is not necessarilly a qualification for salvation (resurrection to everlasting life), according to Jesus' definition. That is where attitude becomes what I have described as being more important than belief.
Let's look at the examples I provided, to see why I think Jesus is more concerned with attitude than belief:
Luke 10:25 (Parable of the good Samaritan)
This is a direct question asked to Jesus by a man who was enquiring of Him "what must I do to inherit eternal life?". Therefore, it directly addresses salvation on Jesus' terms.
The first observation I make here, is Jesus did not tell the man what he must believe. He did not present a formula, or even quote a law. Instead, His action was to ask the man, to challenge the man to listen to his own conscience. This is His response:
What is written in the Law? he replied. How do you read it?
Can you see here that Jesus is not telling the man what to believe? Can you see that Jesus is effectively telling the man to look closely at what he already knows? In this way, Jesus is actually encouraging the man to pursue the truth, to do so honestly, to even force the man to acknowlede what he knows and to realise that he is suppressing it. You know what happens. The next part I want to point out is this:
He answered, Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind[a]; and, Love your neighbor as yourself.
Can you see here too that in Jesus' own opinion, and in the opinion of the man who was challenged to be honest, the criteria for eternal life is not some belief, but some attitude. First of all we need to have the right attitude toward God. We need to love Him. If we don't love God, you know how difficult it is to be at peace with Him, to want to please and obey Him. Notice this: it is an attitude, not a belief. The next part is exactly the same in that sense, that we should love our neighbour as ourself. This too is an attitude rahter than a belief, because what it produces is a desire to make others pleased with us. If that attitude was practised perfectly, there would not be any resentment period. Only when someone treats another to displease them, is resentment formed.
That ties in perfectly to the other scripture I quoted, which again is Jesus' own definition of criteria for salvation:
(Matthew 25:31) - Jesus comes, separates those of appropriate and inappropriate attitude, and takes those fit for the kingdom to eternal life.'
Notice the explicit criteria as Jesus has said:
40 The King will reply, Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.
45 He will reply, Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.
Can you see here, that Jesus makes no mention whatsoever of faith or belief being necessary for salvation? In both of these examples actually, Jesus has expressely stated that He judges people fit for everlasting life based on the way they treat others. That is clear evidence from the judge Himself, to suggest that He does view attitude more important than belief. If you know of any statements of similar effectiveness to the contrary, I certainly would like to see them.
The reason I say therefore that attitude is more important than belief, is because at the end of the day, salvation is about resurrection to an everlasting life as opposed to everlasting destruction. For that society to function well, it requires members to have a suitable attitude. I suggest the attitude is more important than belief, because what belief implies is that someone has chosen to make opinions that affect their behaviours based on what is inevitably limited information. Beliefs can be and frequently are wong. In contrast, someone with a suitable attitude will make decisions and behave based on what they reckon to be best at the time. In making the decision, they will consider their own beliefs, and the circumstances, and which potential decision is most likely to produce an outcome they prefer. Someone with a poor attitude (eg, unfit for sustainable everlasting life) will make a decision this way. Whereas what we see in Jesus' descriptions is that someone with the attitude He approves of (those to be brought into everlasting life), will also consider other people's beliefs, circumstances and will prefer the potential decision that is most likely to produce a preferred outcome for every party.