Not only that, but it's not their hair...it could be seen as an "adornment"an attractive wig is SO expensive.
I'm not suggesting we need to be gaudy. There is nothing worse than cracked makeup. I'm simply saying we need to take care of ourselves and care how we look.
I think African American hair that is moussed is exquisitely beautiful.Does that help?
God does not always protect. My daughter was raped twice (and she was dressed modestly both times).
Very sorry to hear.Sorry about your daughter. I was molested once (been avoiding men since then) and lost count of inappropriate touches and inappropriate conversations. I am a man but most of my perpetrators are men and not all of them are gays.
I am straight but I look feminine enough to catch unwanted attention. Even my BO is like that of a girl, I don't know why.
I don't easily trust men as a result.. I rarely found men who are worth that trust - to be entrusted with a young girl that is. And yet, religion makes men authority figures. Something is quite messed up in our world and is probably worshiping the devil disguised as god.
I'm so very sorry to hear about the molest. It seems to happen to far to many people, and it does so much damage. I pray that God will give you healing and peace.Sorry about your daughter. I was molested once (been avoiding men since then) and lost count of inappropriate touches and inappropriate conversations. I am a man but most of my perpetrators are men and not all of them are gays.
I am straight but I look feminine enough to catch unwanted attention. Even my BO is like that of a girl, I don't know why.
I don't easily trust men as a result.. I rarely found men who are worth that trust - to be entrusted with a young girl that is. And yet, religion makes men authority figures. Something is quite messed up in our world and is probably worshiping the devil disguised as god.
Rape is a crime of power, not of sexual interest. It has nothing to do with how attractive you are or how you are dressed. 80 year old women in sweats get raped.If youre pretty it seem theres nothing you can do short of covering your face
I love hyper sexualization. When I was an Orthodox Jew, and we dressed extremely modestly, and men were not allowed to touch women (not even a handshake) it was extremely sensual for a man to even cross the "line" and come over and talk to us women. I remember getting all flustered when a man would compliment me on my smile. It was all sorts of romantic. I truly miss those days.With regards to how Christian women should dress, there's
evidently a slogan, "Modest is Hottest" that's been going
around. I recently came across an article on why that
phrase is misleading at best.
“'Modest is hottest' is a phrase that needs to disappear.
Immediately. It needs to be completely erased from
the Christian lexicon—because it plays right into the
secular objectification and hyper-sexualization of women."
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Well, there is a lot to be said for leaving more to theI love hyper sexualization. When I was an Orthodox Jew, and we dressed extremely modestly, and men were not allowed to touch women (not even a handshake) it was extremely sensual for a man to even cross the "line" and come over and talk to us women. I remember getting all flustered when a man would compliment me on my smile. It was all sorts of romantic. I truly miss those days.
I love hyper sexualization. When I was an Orthodox Jew, and we dressed extremely modestly, and men were not allowed to touch women (not even a handshake) it was extremely sensual for a man to even cross the "line" and come over and talk to us women. I remember getting all flustered when a man would compliment me on my smile. It was all sorts of romantic. I truly miss those days.
I think Christian women should use common sense when dressing and so should Christian men. You can dress so as not to project your sexuality without losing your femininity. I have no problem seeing women in jeans or shorts or even sweats in the Winter. I have a problem when they put their looks and accessories to such a place that it becomes their focus. It has a lot to do with where their heart is rather than what they wear.....that goes for both men and women.