This is what the article states about "compatibility":
To me....that all seems to be framed wrongly (and misinterpreting what compatibility is). I don't believe it's sin that gets in the way of compatibility. I'm not even sure where the author gets that from.
Article above said:The real issue before every couple is this: none of us is compatible. We’re sinners. That’s why we need something much better and sturdier as the ground of our marriages.
As stated above, no one’s compatible. Why? Because both spouses are sinners, and sin shreds even the most promising union. Compatibility might exist on paper, but as soon as two sinners start living together, it won’t in practice. Your average Hollywood couple looks so happy on paper—everything seems to match up. It’s a fairy tale! But then tensions creep in. Booming bank accounts and sexual attraction are great, but they won’t solve even the smallest issues that develop when two fallen humans unite in matrimony. Not even close.
Sexual differences matter, too. Modes of problem-solving, emotional expression, intuitional differences—all these and more often play into the strange alchemy that is the man-woman pairing. Though we all face challenges, there’s glory in the Spirit-empowered outworking of a complementary marriage. When the man feels like pulling away, he must remember it’s God’s will for him to cling to his wife. Instead of sulking, he fights for his marriage, confesses his sin, and leads in reconciliation.
To me....that all seems to be framed wrongly (and misinterpreting what compatibility is). I don't believe it's sin that gets in the way of compatibility. I'm not even sure where the author gets that from.
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