what do I need to do...how do I answer their questions?...what do I need to know?
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CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
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babygirl789 said:
First of all, I am a Youth Pastor. I will tell you right now, it is a mission that is full of great joys, deep sorrows, and everything in between. It is not a job for the faint of heart, or weak in faith. Your patience will be tested, your trust in God question, your actions put under a microscope.
A strong bible knowledge is the first place to start. I strongly suggest that you start with Proverbs, and learn them well. I find that reading a chapter a day works great, making notes of the ones that I need to apply to my life, and can use to help others.
Next is to get some formal training, both bible schooling and child psychology. A Masters in that would be best. The best thing to do before you attend college is to get as many hours in studying as you can. I know it sounds like a chore, but sometimes the things that we can get done ahead of time will help.
When you do go to college, spend the time there learning. Colleges can provide a great education, but can also provide a distraction for you. The best thing is to be a bookworm, but not to over do it. Breaks can be a good thing, clearing the mind from time to time and re-energizing the body.
As far as what to tell them…. That is a loaded question. Two kids facing the same problem will require two different answers. Let’s take for example two kids that are faced with drinking. What do you tell them? That depends on what their background is. One kid may come from an Italian background, where drinking wine at meals is normal, but the other may come from a conservative background where drinking, even at special occasions, is strictly forbidden. Now what do you tell them? Do you talk to their parents about it as well? Again, that depends. There are way to many variables to give you a pat answer for every problem that comes along.
As far as what you need to know, everything, but admit it when you are wrong, or that you don’t know it all. There will be questions that you can’t answer. Don’t worry about it. Just do the best you can.
With no offense intended, you have a drawback to face. SInce you are a woman it will be more difficult for you to find employment as a Youth Pastor. You will be temped to comprimise your standings. Don't. God will have a place for you, you just need to keep trusting Him.
Oh, two more things:
First, ALWAYS rely on God, no matter what the problem is, big or small, personal or public. Constantly lean on His everlasting arms.
Secondly, don’t try to be as cool as the kids are. As you get older, you will want to try to fit in with them, but you can’t do that. Be yourself, but stay on top of the slang terms and their meanings.
If you want to know more, or need any advice, just send me a PM or email.
God Bless
Mav.
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I moved this here just so I can get opinions from all of you...please give me some advice...thank you! 
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I want to see what people here would say....sorry but I wasn't getting many replies where it was
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