Your view on birth control?

[jess91877]

Myself personally, I have voted for BC. I have been on the pills for years due to hormonal reasons, even before I became married and active in that way. My body was not producing enough estrogen, the pill contains estrogen which my body needed, so those are the physiological reasons.

As far as a quiver full, and children being a blessing, I fully agree. Personally though, I feel I should not have them and have emotional reasons for not having children. As a children of parents who were abusive I have a tendency to have abusive feelings for children. Because of that, I try to avoid prolonged contact with children. I have surrendered this part of my life to the Lord, but I don't want to have them and risk being nasty like my parents were to myself and my siblings...the dysfunctional family setting is all I know.

I still see it from one generation to the next as my siblings have children, they say they will never be abusive, but the words they say to their children are ten times harsh than any spanking imaginable. They have little messed up lives as a result. I just can't do that to another human life, or risk having that happen.

After much prayer and thought, it still does not weight on my heart to have children...I'm 28, that can change, but I do doubt it.

 

[crusader4peace]

i think birth control is fine excluding abortion. well times have changed and our earth is too over populated. its better to give 2 kids the best u can offer rather than 7 kids whom u can't provide the best.