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Your spouse is in hell

Viola_Strange

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slayer-2004 said:
Assume that you and your spouse have known each other since you were 5 , and you have always loved each other since you were 17 . Your spouse was raised as a buddhist , and you were raised as a christian . You tried to convert him/her a couple times , but you both eventually realized that its best to be tolerant of each others religion , because you love each other for who you are .

You grew old together and both died in your sleep the same night .

You both arrived at heavens gate , but your spouse was not allowed into the gates of heaven , and God send him/her into the depths of hell .

God gave you a choice , heaven or hell with the one you love , you chose God reluctantly because you know that you wouldnt be together in hell anyways , satan would isolate you .

So now comes the question : how can you enjoy eternal bliss in heaven knowing your spouse is suffering eternal damnation ? How can you sit up there in your happy little cloud with the knowledge that the one you love is being tormented forever ? Is true heaven a possibility in this scenario ?

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Question 2 : If you truly are a christian and you love one another as god loves you , then how can you sit in your state of bliss when anybody is in hell ? If you are ffollowing gods law , is heaven a true possibility in any scenario ?
Question 1: I would not have made that choice which you have forced upon me. I would have chosen the option to go to Hell with my spouse, if that 'twere where he was meant. Because when you enter into such a relationship your soul is no longer your own, but also blended with your spouse. Therefore, even by the laws of physics, you are bound to go wherever they are destined.

Perhaps that is why the Bible warns repeatedly against marrying certain types of people.

Then again, I'm not really sure if God has a religious preference.

I would not presume to know Satan's plans for us once we arrived anymore than I would assume God's.

Question 2: I don't know what sort of mind set I would be in if I 'twere in Heaven, but I am certain it would not be like that of any emotional state on Earth, such as bliss or happiness. Therefore, your antecedant negates your consequent and any argument attempted from your question would be illogical.
 
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