You know, in my mind it all comes down to people not being all that secure in their knowledge of God and the wonderful things God is able to accomplish.
What is the best way to convert the unconverted? Love or condemnation? Understanding or chastisement? If we as Christians believe in what we believe in then we can allow people to be wrong and still not have it effect our belief system. Homosexuality is wrong and it will forever be wrong. Yet, can we truly love those that insist on doing things their own way, the wrong way, and not have it effect the basic beliefs we all share and that is, "God is love?"
How does one convey "God is love" to another while condemning them at the same time?
I see this as the great dichotomy that must be answered by all Christians. Can we love even those that despise and hate us? Will we feed them, clothe them, help them even though they may wish us dead? I struggle with this myself, seemingly at the time, and yet we know exactly what Christ would do....He would forgive and not condemn. He didn't say on the cross, "Father, please exact the most painful retribution on these miserable sots that have nothing but evil in there hearts." He forgave and said, "Forgive them Father for they know not what they do."
Can we see the homosexual, the thief, the murderer, the adulterer, the gossiper or for that matter our own neighbor as needing our forgiveness first and our willingness to understand as well because "they know not what they do."
Whether the state wants to recognize that a man can marry a man is not nearly as much as a concern of mine as whether I can still love and still care about people that have made a colossal error. Whether the state wants to recognize that a man can marry a man should never shake my firm belief in my faith and the mercy and love that God has to offer even those that hate Him. Whether the state wants to recognize that a man can marry a man should never shake anyone's faith in what God and what the continual prayer of a righteous man can accomplish.
The state is wrong, period. Yet the state is made of people that need God just as desperately as we do and these people need our prayers. "Lord, open their eyes. Open their hearts to the truth of your word and the glorious love you have for them." Does the Lord care who wins the football game when both teams pray for victory? Does the Lord care who wins the game of allowing gays to marry and both sides pray for victory? Or does the Lord care when we don't display a heart filled with the same pity, mercy and compassion of our enemies as He does for His?
Mat 5:44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; Mat 5:45 That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust. Mat. 5:46 For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same? Mat 5:47 And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more [than others]? do not even the publicans so? Mat 5:48 Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.
The question is this. Is God's love so powerful as to allow even those that are mistaken, and which seek their foolish ways, and that even hate Him and yet still reach out in a desperate attempt to save, to bless and not curse?