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Blessed2003

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In my opinion, it is necessary to rehash the past, in order to make proper ammends, or come to terms sometimes what ever. I would highly recommend using discernment with your girlfriend though, because as much good as may be intended, it WILL be used against you, and she may keep it in the back of her mind, and at the worst possible time, it will be brought out. No one in their right mind would disclose all of their secrets to the wrong person, I'm not saying that there are not certain things that she may need to know, use your discernment on these issues, but you are correct to be skeptical. Pray and ask God what He would have you to do. Keep in mind that as Christians we should do all, one, to Glorify the Lord, and two not to cause a brother or sister to stumble, but be gentle with her when she asks, tell her the truth in love, that you don't think it is a good idea to bring all of this out in the open. If she loves you she can deal with it.
God Bless
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