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Your most painful experience

Petr

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Hello everybody :)
I'd like to discuss most painful experiences that you've met on your life journey. Mine is breaking up with my girlfriend, some 10 months ago, well she did break up with me, I still sometimes keep lost in thoughts and my spirit becomes low. Like today, I started to weep a little bit while I was reading the Bible (was reading Baruch), and kept repeating the lines saying:

"O Lord Almighty, God of Israel, the soul in anguish, the troubled spirit, crieth unto thee. Hear, O Lord, and have mercy; for thou art merciful; and have pity upon us, because we have sinned before thee." Baruch 3:1-2

And as I was repeating it, I gained strength and stopped being sad.
Back to my painful experience; She was my first true love, even though we were together as partners only for some 11 months, it was so nice. Back then I did not know God much, in fact the break up has caused me to pick up the Bible and read, and has always helped me get through tough times and there were lots of them, much depression..I acknowledge all the transgressions, ungodlyness and wickedness, (and there were many many of them...), but she sees me as nothing in her life anymore, she wasn't willing to speak to me for many months (7-8 months), and it's still sometimes paining my heart...
 
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MEOMY

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Im gonna take a different route and go with physical pain!... When I was 12, my brother accidentally fractured my leg. Around that same time, we were miniature golfing with my grandma and he accidentally knocked me out with a golf club (my grandma didn't know I was knocked out and yelled at me for laying on the ground lol)

I think I owe my brother some accidental injuries...
 
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nicholzac

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My most painful experience by far was losing my first baby...8 weeks pregnant...I had already heard the heartbeat...It was mothers day when things went wrong...and the baby was due christmas day...I had a horibble doctor...seemed like everything that could be painful was.
 
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Love&Pain

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I have a lot of painful experiences...

My dad was in prison for 4 years. It was painful to go c him.

When my grandfather molested me. It was painful to see him die in the hospital with lung cancer.

The time me and my family little to eat, when we were going to be evicted from our house, when we had no electricity or water.

Being made fun at school. Not having friends

My mom calling me names. Getting hit. Getting kicked out.
 
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mightywarrior77

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I have a lot of painful experiences...

My dad was in prison for 4 years. It was painful to go c him.

When my grandfather molested me. It was painful to see him die in the hospital with lung cancer.

The time me and my family little to eat, when we were going to be evicted from our house, when we had no electricity or water.

Being made fun at school. Not having friends

My mom calling me names. Getting hit. Getting kicked out.

You've had your share of them Dear Love. God Bless you!
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