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Young Adults Question Thread (4)

Luther073082

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losing my life too soon


When will you feel secure?

When I have a wife and middle class income or I'm dead. Actually I'll probably feel more secure dead.

Do you fear death and why?
 
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I don't really fear death, but it's a recent development. I guess I've come to a place that I know I'm going to be on this earth as long as God wants me, and then I won't be. Currently, I'm ok with that.

If you had the choice, how would you want to die?
Word. knowing theres a place for me upstairs is a big assurance in my life.

How would I want to die? Preferably in my sleep. Or in saving someone's life.

Favorite color eyes? Mine are blue all the way-- just like mine.
 
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Favorite color eyes? Mine are blue all the way-- just like mine.

To be honest I don't even pay attention! I seriously don't know the color of anyone's eyes. Heck my ballroom dance partner and I used to make constant eye contact while competing in Rumba and I don't remember for sure her eye color. I want to say hazel though.

The only persons eye color that I know is my own.

Where is your local hangout?

I'm not sure what you mean by local hangout, I don't think we even have one to tell the truth but Dancesport on the Plaza in Mishawalka, IN is where I spend alot of my time.

How quickly do you notice a person's eye color?
 
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My bf has these bright goldish hazel eyes...apparently they are quite attractive to most women. I took a day to notice, and it didn't matter much. I see you, I see your smile, eyes, whether you look me in the eye or not but I won't notice eye colour immediately...I'll know you have eyes :sorry: But I'll notice the colour of them eventually. I pay attention to other things initially.

SO I may notice but it isn't too significant to me.

Same question, how long to you take to notice someone's eye colour?
 
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Not very long; it's usually one of the first things I can describe about somebody.

Is there any specific feature you tend to identify people by?

Typically I do it by facial structure. But also I do it by hair style and color a bit. Its hard to say what I remember about a person in order to identify them. I'm pretty sure its visual but you never know we could subconciously identify people by their smell. LOL

How trusting are you?
 
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Typically I do it by facial structure. But also I do it by hair style and color a bit. Its hard to say what I remember about a person in order to identify them. I'm pretty sure its visual but you never know we could subconciously identify people by their smell. LOL

How trusting are you?
Despite the many reasons I have to not trust people anymore, I am still pretty trusting.

So I'd say I am quite trusting. I want to see the best in people.



What is your biggest peeve in others?
 
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a lack of a sense of humor...and a lack of education (when people say things that don't make sense or speak in really bad language etc.)

favorite fif song...
(if you have to ask who fif is, its five iron frenzy, if you have to ask who they are, just put your favorite song and the artist who performs it)
 
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is the weather nice where you live?

In the winter we usually have to live under about a foot or two of lake effect snow from Lake Michigan. It becomes very cold here and for about 2 months it was about -5 F in the morning and maybe 15 in the afternoon. Every year because of the weather hundreds die in car accidents in the area. A few of exposure

Spring is usually pretty nice a bit rainy but nice. It came late though, we had a small blizzard in April. (When will global warming save us?)

Summer is extremly humid. Typically the temp only gets up into the 90's but the humidity is also in the 90's so the heat index is sometimes 110 to 120. Dozens die of heat exhaustion every year.

Fall is also pretty nice although we have to dig out from under the leaves practically every day. The best thing about fall is football though.



Biggest Pet Peeve

Hmm I think parents who don't know how to be parents. I'm not a perfectionist or a parent myself but when they have a 4 year old walking around sucking on a pacifier I just want to say "What is wrong with you?"

When they pull out of the parking lot leaving behind a 1 and a half year old baby at a video store and I nearly call in an abandoned child to the police department, they should be shot.

When I see an 8 year old pushing her 1 year old brother accross a busy 4 lane highway by herself with no adults. . .

Interesting local traditions where you live.
 
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um.....gosh, it's been years since i've listened to them....i'll say the pants song....there are others of theirs that i like better, but none come to mind at the moment.

*heart throb...*

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interesting local traditions
besides the peanut festival, the peanut festival parade, the miss peanut pageant, and the azalea dogwood trail...no

what color is your hair
 
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*heart throb...*


besides the peanut festival, the peanut festival parade, the miss peanut pageant, and the azalea dogwood trail...no

what color is your hair

Dark brown.

Can you roll your tounge? (I can't)
 
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