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Messy

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Your happiness does not depend on the person that you are married to making you happy.

Say amen to that! Thank you for posting. I'll learn to not be offended, pray for him and change myself and stick to the Lord. Let Him reign in my circumstances.
My father was an atheist. My parents had a terrible marriage. When my mother came back to the Lord, He taught her to forgive and bless him and not be offended. It worked. They have a great marriage now.
 
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Am I allowed in this section? I can't remember. I just wanted to say its obvious Christ is our first love. But we must also remember that some feel the need to marry. So in doing so that also brings them happiness. It doesn't mean you love Christ less. Its like there are two forms of love. The love I have for Christ can never be matched for the love I have for my soon to be wife.

Its why I tell her she is the stars in my universe and God is the universe itself. Also I've always noted the bible verse that says as husbands we should love our wife like we love Christ. Which I tell her I feel that way for sure. After all with Christs love for me (and my love for Him) I would have never met her.
 
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