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Hello Doulos, as a single chap with out a girlfriend my advise is prob ltd, but i can tell u for sure that once you really experience that wow wonder of God face to face ( but by faith) you will never be the same and you will never look back, You see the very one who can make you chilled out is the one that u sometimes make time for when its conveniant. Jesus (God) is the sourse of REAL HAPPINESS and not earhtly love like Jamie. you depend upon her for happiness and acceptance, but when you depend upon God you become in a way independant from her, that way you will be able to love her and be able to cope when you feel rejected. It goes like this"" I need you Jamie, but my love for God is so wow that I dont depend upon you, I have a greater meaning to life and affection for God.
Hope this helps a bit, I used to get hurt by people, but now I say OK...but you cant take away my thrill and delight in Jesus... Bless you fm JOHN
 
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If you go to the Lord with all of your concerns and cares and if He wants you to be with Jamie, that is up to him. But it also sounds like, no offense to you and/or her at all, that she ain't a Christian but hopefully she will become one. We will be praying for you and if you need us, let us know.
 
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