wow!

[blueSKYpilot]

long story short.. there is this girl i really like.. i swear we are like TOTALLY compatible. she's one of those "crazy" girls.. and so am i. well i mean im not a girl.. but i have that "crazy" personality.. and yes shes a Christian.

but i seriously cannot figure her out. i'm pickin up like 50000 different vibes from her... really long story.


i need God's help so bad. i am so confused.

this is more of a prayer request lol

 

[bumblebee62331]

Pray. Can you talk to her? If you get to know her better the vibes should be easier to understand after a while. And you could always ask some of your friends for help interpreting the signals.

I'm sure she'd love it if you went up to her and talked to her. Or maybe send her a flower and a note to say you think she's nice for valentines day?....

 

[Carri20]

Ooo I like the flower & note idea! It's a sweet & simple way of hinting how you feel without coming on too strong and spooking the girl. But she probably already has some idea how you feel just because of the fact that she IS a girl.. Whoops, my train of thought just derailed. Ah.. Hmm.. Yeah so anyway try the flower thing for V-Day and see what kind of vibe that gets you. :-D

 

[superfly]

dude, cool things. get to know her as a friend.

going out with someone is in lieu of marrying them, and your marriage partner must be your best friend. so get to know her well as a friend.

then, after you guys have become good friends, and you're pretty sure she likes you, and you feel that you can get down on your knees and propose to her, *then* you start moving towards a relationship with her.

going out is ALWAYS with the intent of marriage. if you don't intend marrying the person, don't go out with them. cause if you don't intend marrying, but you go out, you're deceiving them (and yourself) and being deceitful is a sin.

 

[Carri20]

Funny, I always thought the decision to date came before the decision to marry.

 

[bumblebee62331]

Funny, I always thought the decision to date came before the decision to marry.

Same.

By the way, if you are going to have a PM invitation in your signature, you need to be able to accept PM's.