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Would you concider me a bad mommy???

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:wave: My son is 5months old and he gets in these moods where all he does is cry and when I hold him he kicks and screams and so I lay him in his bed and let him cry sometimes he crys for 5mins and goes to sleep oh I change his diaper and feed him and he still does these sometimes he crys for an hour but I don't know what else to do for him... :(
 
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I don't think you are a bad Mom either for doing this...My oldest son had colic for the 1st 6 months of his life and we had to do this often...there was nothing else for us to do cause we tried everything and I mean everything...Could your son have gas? If he is kicking and screaming, it could just be gas? Try giving him some of that Mylicon? I think that is what its called, for infant gas...I will keep you and your little one in my prayers :prayer: :hug:
 
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My oldest daughter had colic and the only way to give her relief was to hold her a certain way and rock her. If I stopped for even a minute the crying started again. My wife and I took turns rocking her. We spent a lot of sleepless nights and then she seemd to outgrow it at a certain point around 8 months old I think. It is difficult when a bay can't talk to tell you what is wrong. Just do the best you can and it will get better one way or another eventually.
 
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You're not a bad mom! One of the toughest parts about new motherhood is figuring out why your baby is crying. It sounds like your doing exactly the right things--feeding, changing, lying him down in his crib. Definitely try the Mylicon to see if it's gas (does your baby have a high-pitched scream at these times? That's how I know my younger son has gas). Other than that, all you can do is comfort him. Some babies just have a fussy time during the day.

If you're okay with him watching a video at this age, I recommend anything in the "Baby Einstein" series. They have been lifesavers for us!
 
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