Would Like A Woman's Perspective

[scraparcs]

If you want to run the risk of making the situation awkward, talk to her. It'll make things clear, but it could make working together awkward. If you want to not worry, wait, wait, wait. It could be a long wait.

And some people are pretty naturally bubbly and vivacious. They aren't trying to be misleading, it's just who they are. I know I've broken a few hearts just being me. On the other hand, it isn't an automatic disqualifier. I'm still bubbly and vivacious at work, but there is someone I definitely find interesting and eagerly look forward to seeing around a bit more than everyone else.

 

[Mr. Runningfish]

It went straight downhill from there. We hardly even talk and she's downright rude and ugly to me when we do. Like a different person. While this saddens me, I'm thankful I found this out now...

Thankfully this school year will be over in 15 days and the very real and weird position I'm in will be over.

 

[DYOLF]

I'd rather not put all this out here, but I'm SO confused and I don't have any single female friends that I could turn to for their thoughts.

I've had a crush on a co-worker, which has turned into a pretty good friendship. Sometimes the friendship seems like it's more than a friendship. She'll grab my hand and hold it, or look at me with this I'm staring deep into you stare. Sometimes her hugs are long lasting and she doesn't want to let go.

I've known her for less than three months. Many people (co-workers, friends) think we are dating, which we both insist we are not. We just hang out. Practically everyday after work.

Then, there are times when the hug is a brief, pat on the back. She'll make fun of me if our hands accidentally brush, or she'll appear as if I'm not around her.

I wouldn't mind dating her. We've NEVER talked about feelings/emotions/the holding hands/ and the kiss (we kissed for the first time a couple days ago). The kiss was probably a factor of a few drinks we had, so I don't think it plays much into it, but I just don't have a clue.

I have the hardest time reading her in this area of our friendship. Other than that, for the most part I get her and she gets me. Sometimes she appears to be heavily interested. Other times no interest. I'm pretty much confused. So confused it makes me wish I only had friend feelings and didn't want anything more.

I pray and pray and pray again about this. I pray for God's will and I'll be satisfied with whatever that is. But I don't like this confused state I'm currently in.

Any women able to give some possibility or insight here? I guess I should just sit down and tell her how confused I am? That'd be the easiest, right?

God can lead a horse to the river but he will not tell it to drink.

 

[Sweet Melody]

It went straight downhill from there. We hardly even talk and she's downright rude and ugly to me when we do. Like a different person. While this saddens me, I'm thankful I found this out now...

Thankfully this school year will be over in 15 days and the very real and weird position I'm in will be over.

It sounds like you are better off without her.