Hi everyone,
I'm new to this board. I am 27 years old, just recently diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome. I love the Lord and I have a deep desire to serve Him in any way that He wants me to ... however, I have great difficulty talking about my faith or about the Lord with other people, especially if I am required to somehow figure out how to fit it into a conversation (which is the usual way things work).
I do not generally have trouble when someone directly asks me a question about Jesus or about my faith. Neither do I have trouble writing about these topics. I am currently working on a website and have written meditations on God's Word that I am currently starting to share with others.
However, when I am required to figure out how to "work it into a conversation" I fail almost every time. This leaves me greatly discouraged. I think "if I really believed, I would have more courage and be bolder in my faith." But God has worked in my life so awesomely in the past ten years or so that I cannot hold the position that "I really don't believe."
I guess witnessing just seems to be too much of a social activity, these days, and for me that just seems to be a nightmare. Sometimes I wish that I could just quit my job and go into some sort of ministry where I wouldn't have to "beat around the bush", and where I wouldn't have to sit around day after day and see all the people headed toward hell all around me and not be able to do anything about it.
Maybe I take everything way too literally, I don't know ...
A few weeks ago was the first time I witnessed to one of my close friends from high school. I had this perfect peace about it because I knew that the Lord wanted me to do it and I was being very direct. But how do you do that otherwise?
I am just so very confused and sad. I know that I am really not as faithless as I feel ... I try to speak about the Lord whenever I get a clear opportunity, especially to my family members and close friends ... but I am always so devastated when I fail. It just destroys me inside to know that some people who I have known for years don't even know what Jesus means to me, and what does that say about me? And how do I tell them now after all these years? It's like a neverending cycle.
I know this is kind of confusing ... it is hard to explain, I guess. I hope no one misunderstands what I am saying ...
Thank you for listening, anyway ...
Sunrise
I'm new to this board. I am 27 years old, just recently diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome. I love the Lord and I have a deep desire to serve Him in any way that He wants me to ... however, I have great difficulty talking about my faith or about the Lord with other people, especially if I am required to somehow figure out how to fit it into a conversation (which is the usual way things work).
I do not generally have trouble when someone directly asks me a question about Jesus or about my faith. Neither do I have trouble writing about these topics. I am currently working on a website and have written meditations on God's Word that I am currently starting to share with others.
However, when I am required to figure out how to "work it into a conversation" I fail almost every time. This leaves me greatly discouraged. I think "if I really believed, I would have more courage and be bolder in my faith." But God has worked in my life so awesomely in the past ten years or so that I cannot hold the position that "I really don't believe."
I guess witnessing just seems to be too much of a social activity, these days, and for me that just seems to be a nightmare. Sometimes I wish that I could just quit my job and go into some sort of ministry where I wouldn't have to "beat around the bush", and where I wouldn't have to sit around day after day and see all the people headed toward hell all around me and not be able to do anything about it.
Maybe I take everything way too literally, I don't know ...
A few weeks ago was the first time I witnessed to one of my close friends from high school. I had this perfect peace about it because I knew that the Lord wanted me to do it and I was being very direct. But how do you do that otherwise?
I am just so very confused and sad. I know that I am really not as faithless as I feel ... I try to speak about the Lord whenever I get a clear opportunity, especially to my family members and close friends ... but I am always so devastated when I fail. It just destroys me inside to know that some people who I have known for years don't even know what Jesus means to me, and what does that say about me? And how do I tell them now after all these years? It's like a neverending cycle.
I know this is kind of confusing ... it is hard to explain, I guess. I hope no one misunderstands what I am saying ...
Sunrise