Develop the things which God has put inside of you. You are going to need them later on when the problem will come. God prepares you for all things. What you need is somewhere near. In time of need, dont panic, just look for it. Whats yours is yours. Dont try to be somebody else in order to fit in. You will become a slave to your image. Its better to be disliked and have fellowship with God. If God has taught you a lesson, hold on to it. What works for you, works for you.I live in Russia, where born again Christians are very few. Many times I have to take a stand for Christ and suffer the consequences. Sometimes it gets really tough. Will you share about how you had to stand up for Christ?