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AndreasE said:
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Are there any other husbands out here whose wives are suffering?

I'm not a husband, but I am the wife of one that had to walk with me through my disease, so I know what you are probably going through. Hold on to the faith brother and all things will work out in God's time and in His will. I know that sounds simple from where you are standing, but He truly will work out the things in your life if you trust Him to do so. My prayers are with you and your wife, for I know you both are in troubled waters.
 
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Thanks sisters!
My wife has been suffering from depression since her teenage years. Now post-partum on top of it (and a lack of sleep as well.) It's been like a rollercoaster ride. No worries. I am sticking to my vows. It's just really wearing me down...
 
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I'm not a husband, but I know a little of how much my brother-in-law suffered when my sister had post-partum depression. Not only was he exhausted from lack of sleep and helping to care for the baby, but he was also very worried about my sister.

Bless Brooke Shields for publicly talking about how she got help for her post-partum depression!
 
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Thanks for all your ears... things have been really busy at home, plus I took a week off to be with my family and see if we could get the baby to sleep any longer. I am certain that sleep deprivation plays a larger role in how my wife functions. While we did not get her to sleep through the night, at least it's down to just one feedingat 1:15am which I have taken over before I head out to work. This way, my wife can get rest from approx. 8pm to about 5:00am. Also, she had been seeing a psychiatrist that specializes in postpartum, yet she was about an hours drive each way away. She referred her to an NP much closer, but that lady has been switching her from one med to another, which I believe made things worse. She is back on Paxil now, and I hope that this will help her. We have also been in counseling at church, to work though a number of issues that have accumulated in 9 years.
 
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