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I'm not sure which one of you to listen to. Some of you clearly believe that Hell is a literal place and (like the Bible says) full of weeping and gnashing of teeth. Others say it's a mere separation and an eternity of "living in death."

Than Void said that hell is only for those who "hate him forever." Well I don't hate beings that I don't believe in.

Anyway none of this makes sense to me. Then Emmy tells me that god loves me and loves us all. It seems to me that all evidence points to the contrary.

I mean, you all seem like pleasant friendly people. How do you bring yourself to believe in a being that would treat people like this? I want to understand how to overcome the brutality of it all. Why would god make me suffer? What is my crime against him? How is it just for an immortal to infinitely punish a mortal being for finite crimes? I'm willing to bet that not a single one of you good people would threaten the life of your son or daughter if they told you they no longer loved you and didn't want to see you. For me, that comparison isn't even fair because I don't even claim to deny your god, I simply can't find him. (and I've been seeking for years)

I want to believe that god is love and that he cares about the human race. I want to feel the protection of a heavenly father, but what kind of father would threaten his children with torture if they don't choose to love him even though they've never met him?

Several of you said that god loves us enough to give us a choice. What choice? Love me or I'll cast you into this burning wood shed that I made for my worst enemy?

I WANT TO UNDERSTAND!!! I want to know your god the way you do. I want to know what it is you see so that I can overcome this contradiction ... or at least learn how to ignore it.


I want it to make sense ... and it just doesn't.

You show wonderful logic and excellent questions.

God is Love (totally unselfish).

Whatever God does, it is for the sake of those that are just willing to accept God’s help (His pure charity/Love). Those that refuse to accept God’s Love (Charity) mostly out of pride or wanting to be “loved” for who they are trying to be perceived as and not in spite of who they are, take on a much lessor objective of helping those that are still in the process of accepting God’s help.

God is not trying to get humans to “do” something, but is trying to gift humans with the greatest gifts possible, but they still have to want these gifts the greatest gift being His Love.

Godly type Love cannot be made instinctive since that would be a robotic type love and God cannot force this Love on a person (like a shotgun wedding with God holding the shotgun), so it has to be the result of a real free will choice with likely alternatives (the perceived pleasures of sin being man’s alternative).

There are lots of things God allows, causes and/or creates to help willing humans to turn to God for help (His Charity) like satan roaming the earth, Christ going to the cross, tragedies of all kinds, sinning and even hell.

Hell was not “created” to punish the wicked although that happens in hell, but to help willing individuals turn to God and avoid hell. If there were no “consequences” to not accepting God’s Charity (Love), lots of people would not humble themselves to the point of accepting God’s charity out of their personal pride. Hell does give one good reason to swallow your pride.

If all willing humans would of their own free will accept God’s Charity without some of them needed to see an alternative to not accepting God’s help, there would be no need for hell, just annihilation of those that refused.

People that are not gifted with eternal life do not live forever in hell, but would at differnet times be consumed by the fires of hell (annihilated).
 
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Eternal hell can be a logical outcome.

From the design perspective, humans are to live an eternity but with a physical body which is decayable. Humans can recognize each other only through the physical body as an image. On the other hand, the physical body can't act as an eternal ID from the witnessing perspective. The continuity of an individual cannot be witnessed once the body is decayed. To simply put, humans need a permanent ID which is independent of the decayable physical body.

That's why humans need a soul (immortality) which serves as the ID of an individual. Soul is thus capable of lasting forever, unlike the decayable body.

On the other hand, God is the only source of good. When a human soul leaves God, the only way he can go is to become evil. Without God's guidance, one can only go more and more evil. Satan actually sets such an example.

It is expected that hellfire will come when the souls of the wicked become unbearably evil, unless God gives out His grace to destroy the immortal souls.

However, God's promised grace is given out only through Christ but no other names. There might not be other form of grace for the destroying of those immortal souls. Plus that, God ever said the oath that "they can never enter my rest". There will be no rest for the wicked.

So if the above theological assumptions are correct, an eternal hell becomes a logical outcome.


Humans on earth rely heavily on our so called conscience to act. This could the law God wrote in our hearts. Once we leave God, He may take it back. That is, those wicked souls in Hades may no longer be guided by the law or anything from God, as they are in a separation from God. Without God's guidance, they may turn quickly to someone like Satan himself.
 
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I mean, you all seem like pleasant friendly people. How do you bring yourself to believe in a being that would treat people like this?
It is interesting that you suggest I might choose to not believe something that I know is true, just because I don't like something about it. Is that what you are saying?
Why would god make me suffer? What is my crime against him?
You must know the answer to this question, if there is one. Asking someone else to tell you this is like pin the tail on the donkey.
How is it just for an immortal to infinitely punish a mortal being for finite crimes?
What is the infinite punishment you are talking about, can you provide the exact verse?
 
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Dear Jagar. We are given the Two Commandments, on which hang all the Law and the Prophets. The first and great Commandment is: " Love God with all our hearts, with all our souls, and with all our minds. The second is like it:
Love our neighbour as we love ourselves. Simply put and straightforward.
God our Heavenly Father knows that is not easy to us, and is always ready to help and guide us.
We read in the Bible: " Repent," and also "Be Born Again." Matthew 7: 7-10:"
Ask and ye shall receive, then we thank God and share all Love and Joy, with our neighbour: all we know and all we meet, friends and not friends.
We keep asking and thanking God and sharing all Love and Joy with all around us. God will see our loving efforts, and God will Bless us. Love is a Christian`s great weapon, love will overcome all adversity and unfriendliness.
It might take a bit longer to achieve all we want, but Love will ALWAYS be the Victor. With God on our side, Who or What can be against us?
People around us will treat us the same as we treat people, the Love and Joy we share, will make life enjoyable. When needed, we will also give a helping hand, and Jesus our Saviour will be in our midst and lovingly encourage us.
We might stumble and forget at time, but then we ask God to forgive us, and carry on loving and caring.
God is Love and God wants loving sons and daughters, and Jesus will be
THE WAY. Why?? Love is the key to God`s House with many mansions,
and Jesus will prepare a place for us there. Can you think of a better reason?
I say this with love, Jagar. Greetings from Emmy, your sister in Christ.
 
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Here is a quote from an old Wikipedia article on the topic (that doesn’t seem to be around anymore) that I thought explained it pretty well: "For many ancient Christians, Hell was the same "place" as Heaven: living in the presence of God and directly experiencing God's love. Whether this was experienced as pleasure or torment depended on one's disposition towards God. St. Isaac of Syria wrote in Mystic Treatises: "... those who find themselves in Hell will be chastised by the scourge of love. How cruel and bitter this torment of love will be! For those who understand that they have sinned against love, undergo greater suffering than those produced by the most fearful tortures. The sorrow which takes hold of the heart, which has sinned against love, is more piercing than any other pain. It is not right to say that the sinners in Hell are deprived of the love of God ... But love acts in two ways, as suffering of the reproved, and as joy in the blessed!" This ancient view is still the doctrine of the Eastern Orthodox Church."

A good article about hell from an Orthodox perspective: Heaven and Hell in the Afterlife
 
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God does love everyone, there is a verse from Bible about God send sunshine and rain to both good and bad.

My understanding of hell is where all the people without love went. I think if you live at a places where everyone is selfish and hateful it is hell. However the nearest thing about heaven and hell is from near death experience, where people of all faiths has described good and bad examples, and the bad ones seems to be more than just bad people.
 
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Thank you everyone for taking the time to answer my questions. Unfortunately, none of your answers provide me with any understanding. Seashale76, your answer seemed the most reasonable in my persistent search to overcome the obvious contradictions of hell. It didn't help any, but I do thank you for your effort.

Sadly, in the end, I always seem to come to the same conclusion: Your god sacrificed himself, to himself to save us from a place he made himself .... and then called it a gift.

I would be willing to accept this if I could find even one of you who could answer YES to the following questions:

EXAMPLE SCENARIO:
Parent: Makes a child (You) and then disappears, never revealing himself to child
You: Grow up without a parent and act out as a child does
Parent: Returns and tells a much older you that you must be punished for your childhood actions.
Parent: Tells you that if you don't love him and confess for simply being a child that you will be burned with a blowtorch every day for the rest of your life. However, if you agree to love him, he will spare you this punishment that he created.
You: Accept his terms because you don't wish to be burned.


Questions: Would you tell others that your Parent had given you a "gift" ??
Would you brag about how much love your Parent had for you?
Would you possibly convince foster children to stay under his care?

Compounding the problems ......
Parent: Disappears and demands correspondence from you without ever speaking to you personally.


Some of you have written that I only see the dark, judgmental side of your god. I submit that since the creator of the universe made the earth, the human condition, and even drown the entire first draft, that he should be able to overcome one's lack of belief. Basically, if you make the rules, you can choose to forgive and forget rather than burning 85 billion people and counting.

I once had a conversation with an atheist (no, I'm not an atheist quite yet), and without knowing it, he said something very telling. His story went like this:

Atheist said:
If I'm wrong, and I die and go before god at the great judgement - and he really is casting the majority of people into hell. I'm going to get as many people as I can, bum-rush him and shove him right into his own hell. Than, after a short while, I'll throw him a line down into that dark pit, I'll pull him out, dust him off, and tell him I forgive him for what he's been doing and that we should all move on.

Of course, the story is ridiculous. The one and only god is not about to be "bum-rushed" by a silly mortal, but that was not what caught my ear. What caught my ear is that in that moment, an atheist, a non-believer, a self-proclaimed hedonist, who supposedly is the worst of the worst in the eyes of christians, showed more forgiveness in his heart than the almighty creator of the universe.

My problem with hell is not that your god isn't allowed to do such things. My problem with hell is that even you and I have more forgiveness and mercy than to create such a horrible place and condemn others to it for even one day.


May You all have Long Fulfilling lives.
I thank you for your time.
 
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Thank you everyone for taking the time to answer my questions. Unfortunately, none of your answers provide me with any understanding. Seashale76, your answer seemed the most reasonable in my persistent search to overcome the obvious contradictions of hell. It didn't help any, but I do thank you for your effort.

Sadly, in the end, I always seem to come to the same conclusion: Your god sacrificed himself, to himself to save us from a place he made himself .... and then called it a gift.

I would be willing to accept this if I could find even one of you who could answer YES to the following questions:

EXAMPLE SCENARIO:
Parent: Makes a child (You) and then disappears, never revealing himself to child
You: Grow up without a parent and act out as a child does
Parent: Returns and tells a much older you that you must be punished for your childhood actions.
Parent: Tells you that if you don't love him and confess for simply being a child that you will be burned with a blowtorch every day for the rest of your life. However, if you agree to love him, he will spare you this punishment that he created.
You: Accept his terms because you don't wish to be burned.


Questions: Would you tell others that your Parent had given you a "gift" ??
Would you brag about how much love your Parent had for you?
Would you possibly convince foster children to stay under his care?

Compounding the problems ......
Parent: Disappears and demands correspondence from you without ever speaking to you personally.


Some of you have written that I only see the dark, judgmental side of your god. I submit that since the creator of the universe made the earth, the human condition, and even drown the entire first draft, that he should be able to overcome one's lack of belief. Basically, if you make the rules, you can choose to forgive and forget rather than burning 85 billion people and counting.

I once had a conversation with an atheist (no, I'm not an atheist quite yet), and without knowing it, he said something very telling. His story went like this:



Of course, the story is ridiculous. The one and only god is not about to be "bum-rushed" by a silly mortal, but that was not what caught my ear. What caught my ear is that in that moment, an atheist, a non-believer, a self-proclaimed hedonist, who supposedly is the worst of the worst in the eyes of christians, showed more forgiveness in his heart than the almighty creator of the universe.

My problem with hell is not that your god isn't allowed to do such things. My problem with hell is that even you and I have more forgiveness and mercy than to create such a horrible place and condemn others to it for even one day.


May You all have Long Fulfilling lives.
I thank you for your time.
Jagare, you didn't answer my question and I am not sure if your understanding of hell is correct. Would you mind answering the last question in this post:
What is the infinite punishment you are talking about, can you provide the exact verse?

Until I know how justified you are to believe what you believe, I don't know that I can trust that your belief is correct. Do you see that as being important?
 
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Jagare, you didn't answer my question and I am not sure if your understanding of hell is correct. Would you mind answering the last question in this post:
What is the infinite punishment you are talking about, can you provide the exact verse?

Until I know how justified you are to believe what you believe, I don't know that I can trust that your belief is correct. Do you see that as being important?

The eternal nature of hell is well-documented in the Bible. Jesus actually uses the threat of hell often. It is the primary reason I cannot bring myself to believe. How can a I, a moral and kind human being overlook such deplorable behavior? How can any being, immortal or not, torture his own creations for simply not knowing he exists???? I do not know how to ignore this atrocity.

The verses you requested:
Matthew 18:8
II Thes. 1:9
Jude 7
Matthew 3:12
Mark 9:43
Jude 12-13


Is "forever and ever" without end?
The phrase "forever and ever" is used both of describing God's eternal worth and the duration of eternal damnation. The exact same Greek phrase is used in each of the verses in the table below.
forever and ever
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aionas ton aionon
"ages of the ages"
Eternal - without endEternal Damnation
"Now to the King eternal, immortal, invisible, the only God, be honor and glory forever and ever. Amen," (1 Tim. 1:17). ". . . To Him who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb, be blessing and honor and glory and dominion forever and ever" (Rev. 5:13).

"And a second time they said, "Hallelujah! Her smoke rises up forever and ever" (Rev. 19:3).
"And the devil who deceived them was thrown into the lake of fire and brimstone, where the beast and the false prophet are also; and they will be tormented day and night forever and ever," (Rev. 20:10).



It seems very obvious that Jesus meant to make it very clear that Hell is eternal torture.
Is Hell Eternal? | Christian Apologetics and Research Ministry
 
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Sadly, in the end, I always seem to come to the same conclusion: Your god sacrificed himself, to himself to save us from a place he made himself .... and then called it a gift.
You've missed the "Why?" in your description here. Rather an important thing to skip over, I think.

I would be willing to accept this if I could find even one of you who could answer YES to the following questions:

EXAMPLE SCENARIO:
Parent: Makes a child (You) and then disappears, never revealing himself to child
You: Grow up without a parent and act out as a child does
Parent: Returns and tells a much older you that you must be punished for your childhood actions.
Parent: Tells you that if you don't love him and confess for simply being a child that you will be burned with a blowtorch every day for the rest of your life. However, if you agree to love him, he will spare you this punishment that he created.
You: Accept his terms because you don't wish to be burned.


Questions: Would you tell others that your Parent had given you a "gift" ??
Would you brag about how much love your Parent had for you?
Would you possibly convince foster children to stay under his care?

Compounding the problems ......
Parent: Disappears and demands correspondence from you without ever speaking to you personally.
But this analogy is off-base on so many points. It really doesn't parallel the situation between us and God very well at all.

1.) God is not our Parent. He is our Creator. He does not become our Heavenly Father until we, by faith, accept His Son as our Saviour and Lord. If we do not, God relates to us only as a holy, wrathful Judge.

2.) We are not God's children merely by virtue of the fact that God is our Creator. God only adopts us into His family after we have humbled ourselves before Him, and acknowledged our sin, and by faith accepted the redemption He offers us in His Son, Jesus Christ.

3.) God has revealed Himself in a general way to all humanity through His Creation and through our innate moral sense. He has not vanished leaving no trace. He entered human history very directly in the person of Christ. So no one truly "grows up" without God. He is there and we know it, which is why we are held responsible for what we do with this knowledge.

4.) God does not judge us and threaten punishment simply because we have been "childish." Far from it. We stand under God's wrathful judgment because we have contravened the holy, just law of the Creator and Ruler of the entire Universe.

5.) God does not demand our love and allegiance in a vacuum. He does not say, "Love me or die." Instead, He has gone to enormous lengths to demonstrate to us that He loves us. This is the heart of the Gospel.

6.) No one has to suffer the torments of hell. Anyone who desires an escape from such a fate has only to recieve the gift of salvation God has obtained for them at terrible cost to Himself.

7.) Many people "accept God's terms" because they recognize the tremendous love He has shown them in the sacrifice of His Son on the cross for them, not simply because they hope to escape punishment.

8.) God speaks to me personally every day in His Word, the Bible, which His Spirit illuminates to me as I study it. God is not silent, nor is He distant.

And so on.

Some of you have written that I only see the dark, judgmental side of your god.
As your analogy reveals, this is exactly how you see God.

I submit that since the creator of the universe made the earth, the human condition, and even drown the entire first draft, that he should be able to overcome one's lack of belief.
Sure, God could appear before you in all His glory and power and crush you to the ground with the force of His omnipotent presence. He could terrify you into obedience; He could stun you into compliance to His will; He could force you to do as He wishes. But God doesn't want this sort of relationship with us. He wants us to willingly and lovingly choose to walk with Him. He wants us to take joy in fellowship with Him, not serve out of grudging, fearful compulsion.

The issue at heart isn't one of belief but of desire. We desire our own will and way over God's. Claiming unbelief is a smoke-screen, a lame justification for living our lives with our back to our Maker.

Basically, if you make the rules, you can choose to forgive and forget rather than burning 85 billion people and counting.
Not if God is holy, and pure, and just. God has done all that His merciful and loving nature requires to keep us from the flames of hell. But His justice must, and will, be satisfied. If we will not let Christ satisfy God's justice for us, we will have to answer for our sin on our own. God would rather "forgive and forget" and He has made a way through Christ to do so, but if we reject that way, we put ourselves in the path of God's judgment.

What caught my ear is that in that moment, an atheist, a non-believer, a self-proclaimed hedonist, who supposedly is the worst of the worst in the eyes of christians, showed more forgiveness in his heart than the almighty creator of the universe.
No, what he showed was the reason why we cannot be trusted to operate justly, and righteously, and with truly selfless love apart from God. All of these things are absent in the choice to let everyone off the hook regardless of the evil they have done. Ultimately, the atheist's forgiveness of God is self-serving; for it works to justify letting him off the hook for his own evil deeds. God does not have this motivation; He has no wicked deeds requiring forgiveness. Your story, thus, falls quite flat.

My problem with hell is not that your god isn't allowed to do such things. My problem with hell is that even you and I have more forgiveness and mercy than to create such a horrible place and condemn others to it for even one day.
See above.

Selah.
 
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Did god create hell?
"Then he will say to those on his left, 'Depart from me, you cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels.'" - Matthew 25:41

He prepared it. That's all I can really say for sure as to its origin.

Is it true that god is sending the majority of people to hell?
I don't know the numbers. None that didn't deserve it, though.

Does god love me even though I'm not sure I believe in him?
He loves you enough to give you a chance to believe in him. Please take it.

A christian over on AtheistForums.org who goes by the pseudonym, Drich told me and many others that god does NOT love everyone.
I can see how a case could be made either way for that, but what's relevant is the chance he is giving you, right now, to believe in him and become a Christian disciple. And for Christian disciples to look for ways to show his love to all people.
 
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The eternal nature of hell is well-documented in the Bible. Jesus actually uses the threat of hell often. It is the primary reason I cannot bring myself to believe. How can a I, a moral and kind human being overlook such deplorable behavior? How can any being, immortal or not, torture his own creations for simply not knowing he exists???? I do not know how to ignore this atrocity.
What torture are you talking about? I have seen that there is wailing and there is torment forever and ever, but I don't know any verse that speaks of torture.
The verses you requested:
I would like to look at these individually, because I am trying to see if there is any reference to being tortured forever and ever.
Matthew 18:8
If your hand or your foot causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life maimed or crippled than to have two hands or two feet and be thrown into eternal fire.
Jesus says that the entering into life is yet to happen. When does it happen? When He warns of being thrown into eternal fire, is He meaning to say that we will survive the fire?
II Thes. 1:9
They will be punished with everlasting destruction and shut out from the presence of the Lord and from the glory of his might
What part of destruction do you think means everlasting torture?
Jude 7:12-13
In a similar way, Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding towns gave themselves up to sexual immorality and perversion. They serve as an example of those who suffer the punishment of eternal fire.
Again, this verse does not say anything about everlasting torture, but a destruction that has happened as an example of what will happen to those who are not saved.
Matthew 3:12
His winnowing fork is in his hand, and he will clear his threshing floor, gathering his wheat into the barn and burning up the chaff with unquenchable fire.”
Have you ever seen chaff survive fire? Also, this verse is very interesting to consider further. Do you think there is any person who is not part chaff?
Mark 9:43
If your hand causes you to stumble, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life maimed than with two hands to go into hell, where the fire never goes out.
This has the same content as Matthew 18:8. It also says that it is better to go into life than to be discarded (GEHENNA - see what ViaCrucis wrote about that).
Is "forever and ever" without end?
The phrase "forever and ever" is used both of describing God's eternal worth and the duration of eternal damnation. The exact same Greek phrase is used in each of the verses in the table below.
forever and ever
foreverGK.gif

aionas ton aionon
"ages of the ages"
Eternal - without endEternal Damnation
"Now to the King eternal, immortal, invisible, the only God, be honor and glory forever and ever. Amen," (1 Tim. 1:17). ". . . To Him who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb, be blessing and honor and glory and dominion forever and ever" (Rev. 5:13).

"And a second time they said, "Hallelujah! Her smoke rises up forever and ever" (Rev. 19:3).
"And the devil who deceived them was thrown into the lake of fire and brimstone, where the beast and the false prophet are also; and they will be tormented day and night forever and ever," (Rev. 20:10).
This passage is speaking of those who worship the image of the beast. Do you think it refers to everyone who doesn't worship Jesus?
It seems very obvious that Jesus meant to make it very clear that Hell is eternal torture.
Is Hell Eternal? | Christian Apologetics and Research Ministry
A bible search for the word torture shows that God does not promise everlasting torture, and that demons are afraid that God will torture them.

None of that link you gave me demonstrates that there is everlasting torture. There is everlasting punishment, which is referred to as the second death in Revelation. When given the option between everlasting life and everlasting death, which will you choose? Don't be haughty about it either, because when you are faced with that reality, you won't have that luxory. Sketcher made a good point for you. Every time you consider these things, you are at a fork in the road. The further you get down one of these roads, the more effort it takes to turn around. This is why St Paul said "today is the day of salvation. If you hear His voice, do not harden your heart". Your heart is hard already, which is proven because the seed has not taken root. According to Matthew 13, the seed will only grow if the land is fertile. You should cultivate your heart and allow the seed to grow, it really is the better option.
 
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Dear Jagare. God is Love, and God Loves us all. God gave us
10 Commandments, which Jesus changed into Two Commandments, which tell us all what God told us in His 10 Commandments, and on these
Two Commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets. Jesus died for us, and now we can live for Jesus. Jesus told us in Matthew 22: 35-40: " The first and great Commandment is: Love God with all our hearts, with all our souls, and with all our minds. The second is like it: Love our neighbour as we love ourselves." That is straightforward and easy to remember, we ask God in
Matthew 7: 7-10: for Love and Joy, then we thank God, and start sharing all Love and Joy with our neighbour: all we know and all we meet, friends and not friends. God sees our sincere efforts, and God will approve and Bless us.
The Bible tells us: " Repent," and also " Be Born Again," and we stop being selfish and unloving, and change into Loving and Caring men and women,
which our Heavenly Father wants us to become. Matthew 7: 7-10: tells us to " Ask and ye shall receive." We keep asking and receiving, and sharing all
Love and Joy with all around us. We might stumble and forget at times, but then we ask God to forgive us, and CARRY ON LOVING AND CARING.
Love is a Christian`s great weapon to overcome all opposition and wrong behaviour. We will find that people around us will treat us the same as we treat people. We will have life enjoyable, and may even become sign-posts
to God.
Why Jagare? God is Love, and God told us to become Loving sons and daughters, and if anything will change this imperfect world, it will be Love and Compassion. Love freely given, and No conditions asked. With God on our side, Who or What can be against us? I say this with love. Greetings from Emmy, your sister in Christ. P.S. Hell, or Outer Darkness is only for those of us, who do not want God`s Love, or anything to do with Love.
 
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You've missed the "Why?" in your description here. Rather an important thing to skip over, I think.

I already know why. If you admit my statement is true, why is irrelevant. The only why that need be asked is: Why do you require something (blood) you made yourself to appease yourself into accepting something (humans) you made yourself?



1.) God is not our Parent. He is our Creator. He does not become our Heavenly Father until we, by faith, accept His Son as our Saviour and Lord. If we do not, God relates to us only as a holy, wrathful Judge.

That's no defense. Whether or not he "adopts" me, he is still my creator and the sole reason I was born.

2.) We are not God's children merely by virtue of the fact that God is our Creator. God only adopts us into His family after we have humbled ourselves before Him, and acknowledged our sin, and by faith accepted the redemption He offers us in His Son, Jesus Christ.

Fair enough. I'll move on as this is an entirely different argument.

3.) God has revealed Himself in a general way to all humanity through His Creation and through our innate moral sense. He has not vanished leaving no trace. He entered human history very directly in the person of Christ. So no one truly "grows up" without God. He is there and we know it, which is why we are held responsible for what we do with this knowledge.

The Mayans, the Egyptians, the Asians, the thousands of tribes all over the globe for many a millennium had no idea who Jesus was. All died worshiping gods that represented the creation you speak of. All had a moral compass and none of this has anything to do with my analogy.

4.) God does not judge us and threaten punishment simply because we have been "childish." Far from it. We stand under God's wrathful judgment because we have contravened the holy, just law of the Creator and Ruler of the entire Universe.

I disagree. I was born. Nothing more. This makes my analogy spot on: the parent returns to punish the adult for acting as he was created.

5.) God does not demand our love and allegiance in a vacuum. He does not say, "Love me or die." Instead, He has gone to enormous lengths to demonstrate to us that He loves us. This is the heart of the Gospel.

Actually, all evidence points to the contrary. Love me or die is precisely the message. Also, what are these enormous lengths? Even if Jesus is the true son of god it's not saying much. On a scale of time and population, your god revealed himself to a tiny fraction of a percent of people for what is essentially a millionth of second on the world clock. Before that, he occasionally revealed himself only to the Jewish people, who were too busy killing rivals to win them over for Jesus. After to his temporary death on the cross, no one has seen or heard of him. So what do you mean by enormous lengths?

6.) No one has to suffer the torments of hell. Anyone who desires an escape from such a fate has only to recieve the gift of salvation God has obtained for them at terrible cost to Himself.

7.) Many people "accept God's terms" because they recognize the tremendous love He has shown them in the sacrifice of His Son on the cross for them, not simply because they hope to escape punishment.

What sacrifice? How does an immortal being sacrifice himself? I'll die to save your life right now if I know I'm coming back to say goodbye before I spend thousands of years in paradise. Again, what does this have to do with my analogy?

8.) God speaks to me personally every day in His Word, the Bible, which His Spirit illuminates to me as I study it. God is not silent, nor is He distant.

That's awesome for you. I wish I knew how to make that happen for me, but again, What does this have to do with my analogy? All 8 points were supposed to be a demonstration to me of how my analogy wasn't fair. It seems my analogy was very fair.
Sure, God could appear before you in all His glory and power and crush you to the ground with the force of His omnipotent presence. He could terrify you into obedience; He could stun you into compliance to His will; He could force you to do as He wishes. But God doesn't want this sort of relationship with us. He wants us to willingly and lovingly choose to walk with Him. He wants us to take joy in fellowship with Him, not serve out of grudging, fearful compulsion.

The result is the same. Offering someone a choice of eternal life or endless torment IS the same as terrifying you into obedience. One of your fellow christians already admitted that in a previous post in this very thread.

The issue at heart isn't one of belief but of desire. We desire our own will and way over God's. Claiming unbelief is a smoke-screen, a lame justification for living our lives with our back to our Maker.

I'll gladly serve him. All he need do is reveal himself to me. I've been searching a very long time. (Which incidentally, is why I know so much about your Bible and your god.)

Not if God is holy, and pure, and just. God has done all that His merciful and loving nature requires to keep us from the flames of hell. But His justice must, and will, be satisfied. If we will not let Christ satisfy God's justice for us, we will have to answer for our sin on our own. God would rather "forgive and forget" and He has made a way through Christ to do so, but if we reject that way, we put ourselves in the path of God's judgment.

It seems to me that if god truly wanted to give us a fair shot at being with him, he could do a whole lot better than showing up one time in the middle of human history and leaving behind a book that even his followers can't agree on.

No, what he showed was the reason why we cannot be trusted to operate justly, and righteously, and with truly selfless love apart from God. All of these things are absent in the choice to let everyone off the hook regardless of the evil they have done.

Oh come on. What evil? Being born? Acting on the human impulses that he gave us? Also, I do act with truly selfless love. I would never burn my son or even you for denying me love and affection. Never.

Ultimately, the atheist's forgiveness of God is self-serving; for it works to justify letting him off the hook for his own evil deeds.

In the story, it is the atheist that saves god. Yes it's ridiculous, but the idea is that the atheist had already saved himself by shoving god into his own hell. It's not self-serving at all. It's merciful and forgiving.

God does not have this motivation; He has no wicked deeds requiring forgiveness. Your story, thus, falls quite flat.

One, it's not my story, and two, just because you make a claim does not make it true. The story shows that the overwhelming majority of people on this planet have more forgiveness and mercy in their hearts than your god has shown to billions of souls who have found themselves in hell -- never knowing who he was or why they had arrived.

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What torture are you talking about? I have seen that there is wailing and there is torment forever and ever, but I don't know any verse that speaks of torture.

Being a little obtuse are we? I don't see the word Rapture in the Bible either, but the premise is there and I've heard quite a few preachers use it in sermons.

None of that link you gave me demonstrates that there is everlasting torture. There is everlasting punishment, which is referred to as the second death in Revelation.
You're debating me on semantics? Fine, leave out the word torture and replace it with torment. I know that word is there. Better yet, let someone burn you once a day for the rest of your life and see if you consider it torture. I'll bet you would. All my links demonstrate torture. Everlasting punishment by unending burning is torture.

When given the option between everlasting life and everlasting death, which will you choose? Don't be haughty about it either, because when you are faced with that reality, you won't have that luxory.
Hey, thanks for the threat by proxy. I'm sure jesus would love your effort to bring me closer to him.

Sketcher made a good point for you. Every time you consider these things, you are at a fork in the road. The further you get down one of these roads, the more effort it takes to turn around. This is why St Paul said "today is the day of salvation. If you hear His voice, do not harden your heart". Your heart is hard already, which is proven because the seed has not taken root. According to Matthew 13, the seed will only grow if the land is fertile. You should cultivate your heart and allow the seed to grow, it really is the better option
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My heart is not hardened. I don't know why a handful of you christians like to tell me that. If anything, my heart is open and searching. Why don't you stop threatening me with eternal torture - oops I meant torment, and offer me something that will reveal your god to me.

I'm all ears brother.
 
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Being a little obtuse are we? I don't see the word Rapture in the Bible either, but the premise is there and I've heard quite a few preachers use it in sermons.
Er, "The Rapture" isn't there.
 
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Does god love me even though I'm not sure I believe in him?

He loves you enough to have given you this life and all the blessings you have in it. You have light, food, water, shelter, the ability to breath, move (if that is the case and I hope so much that it is), and think. That alone should have all of us (who have these things) groveling on the ground in thankfulness that we are not deprived of such kindnesses.

I don't know that He loves you enough to have established a relationship with you (or that He will in time). No one can know that of anyone else. Do you recognize the awesome gift which God has given to us in the person of His Son? Do you recognize that nothing in this world will ever satisfy anyone eternally except to exist in communion with Him? Do you cast yourself upon Christ's merits knowing there is nothing you can ever do to enable yourself to stand before the presence of God in righteousness? If that is how you feel, then He has established a relationship with you.

Those who get caught up in unraveling the particulars of God in the mistaken belief that the limited minds we possess can comprehend all that He is love the world and the lie Satan extends in the promise of fulfillment in this world; they do not love Him nor do they have a relationship with Him.
 
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You've missed the "Why?" in your description here. Rather an important thing to skip over, I think.

I already know why. If you admit my statement is true, why is irrelevant. The only why that need be asked is: Why do you require something (blood) you made yourself to appease yourself into accepting something (humans) you made yourself?
No, I don't think the "Why?" is irrelevant at all. God is holy and just. It's that simple. His own holiness and justice, which are a part of His essential nature, demand that our sin, our contravention of God's just and holy laws be punished. God would be neither holy nor just if He simply swept our sin aside and extended us mercy. Instead, God worked to satisfy His justice and holiness and His love and mercy in the redemptive solution He achieved on the cross of Calvary. THere God met the demands of His own holy and just nature and the demands of His loving and merciful nature, too. God did not exempt Himself from the demands of His own justice. His sacrifice of Himself on the cross was done in order to be both just and merciful.

1.) God is not our Parent. He is our Creator. He does not become our Heavenly Father until we, by faith, accept His Son as our Saviour and Lord. If we do not, God relates to us only as a holy, wrathful Judge.
That's no defense. Whether or not he "adopts" me, he is still my creator and the sole reason I was born.
But your analogy proposed a child-parent relationship, which is not the relationship we share initially with our Creator. Only our acceptance of God's salvation bring us into such a relationship with Him.

3.) God has revealed Himself in a general way to all humanity through His Creation and through our innate moral sense. He has not vanished leaving no trace. He entered human history very directly in the person of Christ. So no one truly "grows up" without God. He is there and we know it, which is why we are held responsible for what we do with this knowledge.
The Mayans, the Egyptians, the Asians, the thousands of tribes all over the globe for many a millennium had no idea who Jesus was. All died worshiping gods that represented the creation you speak of. All had a moral compass and none of this has anything to do with my analogy.
Your analogy asserted the following:

"Parent: Makes a child (You) and then disappears, never revealing himself to child."

As an analogy of how God has dealt with us this is, as I pointed out above, not the case. God has made Himself evident in Creation, in our Moral Sense, and finally through His Son.

We are responsible for what we do with the light we have, but ultimately people aren't sentenced to hell because they are ignorant of the Gospel but because they have sinned.

4.) God does not judge us and threaten punishment simply because we have been "childish." Far from it. We stand under God's wrathful judgment because we have contravened the holy, just law of the Creator and Ruler of the entire Universe.
I disagree. I was born. Nothing more. This makes my analogy spot on: the parent returns to punish the adult for acting as he was created.
God does not punish us for acting as we were created to act. We were created to be in fellowship with God, not to live in a self-serving, sinful way. And when we turn our backs on our Creator, and live as we please, and sin, we fall under His judgment.

God does not demand our love and allegiance in a vacuum. He does not say, "Love me or die." Instead, He has gone to enormous lengths to demonstrate to us that He loves us. This is the heart of the Gospel.

Actually, all evidence points to the contrary. Love me or die is precisely the message. Also, what are these enormous lengths? Even if Jesus is the true son of god it's not saying much. On a scale of time and population, your god revealed himself to a tiny fraction of a percent of people for what is essentially a millionth of second on the world clock. Before that, he occasionally revealed himself only to the Jewish people, who were too busy killing rivals to win them over for Jesus. After to his temporary death on the cross, no one has seen or heard of him. So what do you mean by enormous lengths?
The enormous lengths to which God has gone to save us from our own wickedness begin with the setting aside of His heavenly glory and power, then humiliating Himself in taking on human flesh, then living as a servant to the creatures who despised Him and ridiculed Him, and who finally killed Him in a most cruel and savage fashion on a cross. Incredibly, though God was in no way obliged to do any of this, He did. He would have been fully within His rights as a holy, just Creator-God to simply send every sinner straight to hell. But God, as the Bible tells us, is also a loving and mericful God and so, in an effort to satisfy both His justice and His love He died on a cross to atone for our sin.

The Good News of what God has done to save us from our sin in the person of His Son has spread around the world. It can be heard on radio, on t.v. and the internet, or one can read of it in any of the millions of Bibles that exist. While Christ only lived for a relatively short time on the Earth, he is still known and followed centuries later. It seems that additional, regular, world-wide appearances have not been necessary.

I would correct you, though, about your claim that Christ was not seen after his death. In fact, the apostles saw a resurrected Jesus, and Paul the apostle reports that Christ also appeared to himself and a crowd of about five hundred people before he ascended to heaven. Over the centuries, too, many have claimed to have encountered Jesus in visions and dreams. Many Muslims converting to Christianity today have claimed to have met Jesus this way.

What sacrifice? How does an immortal being sacrifice himself? I'll die to save your life right now if I know I'm coming back to say goodbye before I spend thousands of years in paradise. Again, what does this have to do with my analogy?
Your analogy stated:

"You: Accept his terms because you don't wish to be burned."

To which I responded when I wrote,

"Many people "accept God's terms" because they recognize the tremendous love He has shown them in the sacrifice of His Son on the cross for them, not simply because they hope to escape punishment."

I'm not sure what your complaints above have to do with the effectiveness or legitimacy of Christ's atonement for our sin. Jesus sacrificed himself as the God-man. He experienced the pain of crucifixion and death just as you or I would. How does the fact that he was resurrected diminish this?

8.) God speaks to me personally every day in His Word, the Bible, which His Spirit illuminates to me as I study it. God is not silent, nor is He distant.
That's awesome for you. I wish I knew how to make that happen for me, but again, What does this have to do with my analogy? All 8 points were supposed to be a demonstration to me of how my analogy wasn't fair. It seems my analogy was very fair.
It wasn't that your analogy wasn't "fair" but that it was a poor parallel to that which it was intended to analogize. You attempted in your analogy to characterize the relationship between God and humanity but did it very poorly - as my points explained.

The result is the same. Offering someone a choice of eternal life or endless torment IS the same as terrifying you into obedience. One of your fellow christians already admitted that in a previous post in this very thread.
If you are hiking into the mountains and a passing Ranger tells you that trail #1 is safe, and enjoyable, and has a spectacular view but warns you that trail #2 leads to danger and very likely death for any who travel it, is he merely "terrifying you into obedience"? It seems to me his warning demonstrates a certain measure of concern for you. He is not trying to threaten you into taking trail #1; he is trying to protect you from the harm of trail #2. The Ranger also intends, not just to keep you from harm, but to urge you to a path that will maximize your hiking pleasure. Clearly, then, the Ranger does nothing evil in presenting you with the potential outcomes of the hiking trail you choose to follow. In the same way, God warns us of the final consequences of the life-path we choose to follow. All paths that lead away from Him end in utter disaster but the path of fellowship with Him leads to "life everlasting." In telling us this, God shows us His love, not a tyrannical desire for obedience. How warped your view of God has become that you see the good that He does only as evil.

I'll gladly serve him. All he need do is reveal himself to me. I've been searching a very long time. (Which incidentally, is why I know so much about your Bible and your god.)
God must reveal Himself to all who would be His children. But He may not do so in the manner in which you expect or desire.

I don't see that you "know much" about the Bible or the God revealed in it... Your analogy indicates rather the opposite.

It seems to me that if god truly wanted to give us a fair shot at being with him, he could do a whole lot better than showing up one time in the middle of human history and leaving behind a book that even his followers can't agree on.
What God has done to reveal Himself to humanity has been more than enough for many millions of Christians. I don't see, then, that God has to do more. In any case, Christ will return one day and reveal himself to the world in person but it will be too late to avoid the consequence of one's denial of him at that point.

Oh come on. What evil? Being born? Acting on the human impulses that he gave us?
I don't know of any place in the Bible that says that we do evil in being born, or in acting upon the various fleshly impulses that are intrinsic to being human. Sin is, fundamentally, the contravention of the command of God. When we pursue our impulses at the expense of following the command of our holy Creator, it is then that we sin. And you - just like everyone else - is guilty of doing this many times.

Also, I do act with truly selfless love. I would never burn my son or even you for denying me love and affection. Never.
But you aren't God. You aren't anywhere even close. What God demands of us He demands as our Creator and Sustainer. Why should you be free to call the shots in God's universe? What's more, your standard of holiness, of moral purity, and your understanding of justice are not informed by perfection and omniscience as God's is. His justice and holiness are perfect; your sense of these things is warped and darkened by your own selfishness and weakness as a sin-prone human being. The reasons why God judges our sin as He does and why you would not are not clarified by trying to compare yourself to God.

One, it's not my story, and two, just because you make a claim does not make it true. The story shows that the overwhelming majority of people on this planet have more forgiveness and mercy in their hearts than your god has shown to billions of souls who have found themselves in hell -- never knowing who he was or why they had arrived.
But this "story" is utterly fictional and makes enormous assumptions about what people would do in regards to forgiveness and mercy. The story is not true in any sense. It cannot, then, serve as a basis for asserting anything objectively true about humanity or God.

Also, how do you know people arrive in hell totally ignorant as to why?

Selah.
 
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Er, "The Rapture" isn't there.


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That is EXACTLY my point Ebia. Try and keep up.


To Selah:

Thank your for your response. I could spend a lot of time debating each of your points, but it seems rather clear that we would merely end up going around-and round in circles. So, out of respect for you and this site, I will digress as we agree to disagree.
 
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