Reformationist said:
Just because God is eternal doesn't make you eternal. You and I and every other person are CREATED beings.
Perhaps I used the wrong word. I meant immortal, in spirit. Do you agree with that?
That's means we have a beginning.
Agreed. But God doesnt, so purely from His perspective He knew us before we were and he created us as we would be. Does that make sense?
That means there was a time when we weren't.
Agreed. But before we were, do you think he didnt know us?
There was a time before we existed.
Yes, there was, but during that time do you think God did not know us? He is all-knowing, keep in mind, when you answer this.
The fact that Scripture relays to us that some were PREpared as vessels of wrath for destruction and some were PREpared as vessels of mercy is significant and all you're doing is sidestepping it.
No, I am not. Do you agree or disagree that there is no time with God? He does not see things in past, present and future tense. He knew us before we were and when he made us, he made us as he knew us. So therefore, he created, prepared vessels of wrath.
There is no way to put into words this concept because it is beyond yours or my comprehension. God created us, He prepared, He made us, and he
knew us.
That is why there are those who he hardens as he wills, he knew and created them
that way...the way he knew they would be.
He willed them to be that way, they way they are. I just can not explain this any better than that. Im sorry if it is lacking but this is just more than my little brain can do.
Have you even consulted the teachings of your church on this issue? Are you sure that they don't intimate that some are created for the purpose of being the objects of God's wrath?
The Church condemns what you say as a heresy.
Trent:
Canon 17.
If anyone says that the grace of justification is shared by those only who are predestined to life, but that all others who are called are called indeed but receive not grace, as if they are by divine power predestined to evil, let him be anathema.
Here is the link if you want to read all 33 canons concerning justification.
http://www.americancatholictruthsociety.com/docs/TRENT/trent6.htm#2
All I can say is the we are made in his image and likeness, the main ways we are created like God: God is a Spirit being, so are we [not supreme though]. God, who is a Spirit, is immortal, so are our spirits. God has free will to love as he wills, SO DO WE.
You can not deny the bible says God knew us. He prepared us knowing who were, that we would be vessels of his wrath because
HIS I can not stress enough, because of HIS sovereign choice is to, (certainly not our choice but HIS sovereign choice) IS to have us love freely.
As to God wanting us to be free to accept or reject the sacrifice He has put forth I will again ask you why?
He didn't decide that he was going to give us a choice in our being saved, that's not what free will means. Trent condemns this too.
Trent:
Canon 1.
If anyone says that man can be justified before God by his own works, whether done by his own natural powers or through the teaching of the law,[110] without divine grace through Jesus Christ, let him be anathema.
When he created us He created us liken to Himself, in His image and likeness.
God loves freely ... so do we. He will have mercy on who he wills and he will harden who he wills. We are the same in so much if we choose not to respond, love for love, he allow this hardening of our heart, thus he hardens our heart.
I am often told that it would be "unloving" of God to sovereignly ensure our place in His family by monergistically making our greatest desire be to obey Him.
Unloving in so much, love is not love if we can not give it of our own accord. He allows us to love freely because anything less than that, is really not true love.
His sovereign choice is for us to love Him from our
own desire to do so. Not from him giving us the desire to do so.
I am told it would violate our free will.
In so much God can not contradict himself, he made us like Him, to love freely.
I have to tell you I find this pridefully unreasonable.
That does not come as news to me.
I know myself and how often I willingly and willfully sin and I can't imagine most people are much different.
That depends. Do you believe a person can overcome their vices? Did you know that it is we, our vices in life that makes us sin?
I know the teachings from the Bible of man's continued rebellious response to the revelation of God.
I'm not being funny here. What reference is this? Are you meaning your understanding of the unsaved rebelling? Or is the elect in constant rebelling? I don't think I am familiar with this reformed teaching so I need you to explain what you mean.
That, more than anything, causes me to wonder why in the world "free will" is such an important thing for so many to hold onto.
Because it is how God made us and it is the reason why we love are why we except love from others. Before I expound, please tell me why do you think you still sin after being saved.
It's as if so many people forget how often they fall into sin and end up thinking that, if given the chance to choose between eternal life with God and the pleasures of the flesh, they would choose God. Do you understand how often every one of us willingly and gladly disobey God and rightfully incur His wrath?
I am a disadvantage with understanding you because I do not know what you believe about the effect original sin has on us after we are re-born.
You want your eternal disposition to be left up to one as wishy washy as yourself?
Of course not, this is error to a Catholic.
We aren't by ourselves in this, we are not alone. God said that he will not leave us orphans, He is with us.
I can't do anything with out Him. That is precisely why we have grace and that is exactly what God's actual graces are there for us. They are there because it can not be left up to us in terms of salvation. The bible says, he chose us; we did not choose Him but we have to work this out with fear and trembling.
This is the only reason why us wishy washies can sin, repent, and repeat it all over again is because God is faithful, and he chose us, not us him.
Every time you sin you are telling God that His Law and His love are less important to you than your own sinful desires.
So wouldnt that kill the life of grace if you did that? Isnt that what killed the life of grace in Adam and Eve?
I agree with you in so much as we are aware we are. If you are aware of this, then this is
exactly why we say you kill the divine life of grace in your soul. But because God chose us and not us Him, he receives us back through the call to repent but because we love freely, we must cooperate with this call. He chose us, we did not chose him. If we cooperate and respond to him, it is because he chose us, not us him.
Either way, I'm curious about something. You often like to compare the relationship of a human parent to their child with that of God to His creation, right?
No
I likened it in this instance to make my point, but I see a parallel, not a comparison with how He parents and how we are to parent.
Do you believe parenting children is the chief way our bodies were made in His image and likeness? Which incidentally would take us into the whole Birth Control issue.
You have children, right? Answer me a question if you please. Let's say that your child desired to play with one of his/her toys while sitting in the middle of a busy freeway. Would you let him/her?
If your answer is "no," as I hope it would be, why is it that you would violate his/her "free will?"
Free will is the power to choose between to opposites, so they are not in the street because they have free will, but I love him/her that is why
I would get them out the street but there are a number of reason why I would besides that one.
Could it be that, just maybe, you know better than he/she does and you will take the precautionary steps to avoid letting him/her bring unrecoverable harm to his/herself EVEN IF THAT MEANS VIOLATING THEIR FREE WILL?
Do you really agree that they would be playing in the street because they have free will? That is not the correct meaning of free will in reference to this discussion. They are playing in the street due to their lack of reason due to them having this illness we call original sin, they have a darkened intellect, not because their making a choice to do this freely.
That is not anything remotely close to what having free will is. How can you choose to do something when you do not have sufficient knowledge what you are choosing to do?
I think the question is more like, if I saw my worst enemys child in the street, would I let him die in the street just because he was not my child? If I am all-good do I just let him die, because he is not my child? He may not have come from my lions so to speak but he is a fellow human being so are we really unrelated then? Do you see what I am trying to say? We are ALL Gods children, those who are in His family and those who are estranged. Although their is a love and bond with those HE adopted (we did not chose Him, He chose us) He still looks after the estranged with providence.
Another word Id bet you'd say I do not know the definition of
Providence: God in His love and care for us, divine guidance.
Restraining your child from making a fatal mistake is an act of love in my opinion. According to your profession of God's relationship to His creation it seems as if you, and many others, believe that it is a loving act for God to merely warn you of the dangers you will encounter and do nothing more than encourage you to resist giving in to those temptations but do nothing to actually stop you from killing yourself, all for the sake of maintaining your "free will."
We do not necessarily disagree with this. However, we believe free will is the power to make a choice between the two opposites. A child in the street has no sufficient knowledge to make such choices.
Is that love to you? We're not talking about object lessons here Michelle. We're talking about everlasting damnation. What kind of parent would ever say, "Well, I really didn't want them to do that. I knew it was life threatening. I had the power to stop them but, BECAUSE I LOVE THEM SO MUCH, I let him/her make their own decision and kill themselves." How is that loving? You speak of neurotic. That is neurotic and unloving.
But can you stop your child if he has sufficient knowledge? What parent can stop their child from doing something crazy when they know the danger and choose it anyway?
He will find a way to go in the street if that is what he wants to do. Do you understand what I am getting at? Does that make me any less of a parent if he found a way to destroy his life? Did I not love him by giving him all I had?