? why ?

[mimi4him]

Ok , Why is it so hard to stop loving and caring for someone that has hurt you so bad?
And has already moved on and living with soneone else.

How do I stop the feelings and move on ?
Will they ever stop?

thanks
Blessings Carol

 

[Canuk]

I think it hurts because you have given a part of yourself to someone. It hurts because at some level you still care. It hurts because you have invested time, and effort, into the relationship.

I'm not sure you can 'stop' these feelings, but you can probably deal with them through some type of divorce care group offered through a local church.

 

[Deborah6763]

I think it hurts because you have given a part of yourself to someone. It hurts because at some level you still care. It hurts because you have invested time, and effort, into the relationship.

I'm not sure you can 'stop' these feelings, but you can probably deal with them through some type of divorce care group offered through a local church.

I concur -- try your best to get some sort of support around you. I tcan be one or two trusted Christian friends or a group. Ask the Lord to show you where to turn. The pain is real, and one way to deal with it is to have people you trust that you can talk to and be honest with.

blessings to you.

 

[bugdoddle24]

I don't understand things either. I feel the same way. May God Bless you and keep you. My husband and I have only been seperated this Sat. two weeks and I have caught him living with another woman. He just up and left and I don't know why. Things are hard, but we have to trust God and his purposes.

 

[Brotherfromanothermother]