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why is it the only time if ever that some one wants to talk about God is in the middle of a lesson!!! how anoying is it and how do you deal with it concidering that in the middle of a lecture/lesson you are ment to be lerning! grrr help coz this is anoying me big time!
 

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why is it the only time if ever that some one wants to talk about God is in the middle of a lesson!!! how anoying is it and how do you deal with it concidering that in the middle of a lecture/lesson you are ment to be lerning! grrr help coz this is anoying me big time!

Is this question coming from a believer or non? I understand your frustration, but make sure that the person asking doesn't see it that way, because that can easily come off as "me understanding this lessing is more important than you coming to a (deeper) relationship with God". I'm not tryign to be critical, but I was the unbeliever and I was pushed away because someone thought I was annoying by asking questions at what (admittedly) were bad times. But instead of even saying "Hey, do you have a few minutes after class, because I'd really love to share this with you, but I HAVE to get this down before the next test..." I got "I can't talk about this now." Makes a world of difference to someone who's seeking somethings. Just my 0.02 :)
 
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Is this question coming from a believer or non? I understand your frustration, but make sure that the person asking doesn't see it that way, because that can easily come off as "me understanding this lessing is more important than you coming to a (deeper) relationship with God". I'm not tryign to be critical, but I was the unbeliever and I was pushed away because someone thought I was annoying by asking questions at what (admittedly) were bad times. But instead of even saying "Hey, do you have a few minutes after class, because I'd really love to share this with you, but I HAVE to get this down before the next test..." I got "I can't talk about this now." Makes a world of difference to someone who's seeking somethings. Just my 0.02 :)
yeah they are non believers and well iv tryed saying can we talk after class but they care to much about there repatations to be seen with a chrstian, sad as it is its true!
 
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