Why Would They?

[Sammy4God]

Why would they my dad beat me and touch me since i can remember,my mom just sit back and watch.Why would he do it?Did i not make a good grade?Did I make him mad?Did I forget to clean my room?WHat did i do?He still beats me,she still just watches.When will this stop?I cant tell,i have no where to go.What do i do?WHat did i do to make him do this?IS this somthing im soppost to do?Am I?




Sammy

 

[feline]

There is nothing you have done to deserve this. Is there any adult you can trust? A teacher, a relative, a pastor or priest, a friend's parents? If there is someone you truly trust with your safety, tell them. If not:
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National Child Abuse Hotline
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(1-800-422-4453)
This hotline is available 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
If your home is not safe, you need help to get out. Stay with a friend or a relative. Then report your parents.
If your father lays his hand on you again, call 911.
My thoughts are with you.

 

[f U z ! o N]

NEVER EVER let your father hit you. stand up to him and fight him back. tell him you will call the police and do. you should never have to deal with something like this.

 

[Sammy4God]

but see i cant call anyone i dont have any family i can stay with they will put me in a foster home,Witch i do not want to do.Thanks guys for praying.

 

[Katie12]

Hunny listen to us you need to get out fast,not tomorrow tonight right now,somthing yes you might go to foster care but at least you'll be safe.Dont you wanna be safe where no one can touch or hit you anymore?I know i would of loved that but i never told ether.Basiclly you need to tell,dont ruin your life cause your scared to go to a foster home,you need to tell.Ill be praying. May God be with you. Be safe please.




Blessed be and may God protect you,
Katie


P.S.
Feel free to pm me any time .

 

[luv4godremains]

it's not your fault, you HAVE to speak to someone to stop this, it's out of hand and not right, it's hurting you and you did nothing to deserve it! God will use this for good in you, but it will hurt, for a long time, I can't say if it will ever go, I can't say things like that because I honestly don't know. but your mom, she's probably scared herself, she probably doesn't know what to do! please tell someone, a teacher, a councellor, a youth leader, anyone! you have done nothing wrong, and it getting it dealt with you will not be doing anything wrong!
when your dad goes to hit you, stare him straight in the eyes if you can, that may shock him and stop him in his tracks! he would be able to see the pain in your eyes, and probably think you aren't afraid of him, even if you are!
please, do something! if ya ever wanna chat, PM, but don't leave it, leaving it won't do anything! the best thing you can do is something at a time like this, don't be folled by the devil into thinking that it is to do nothing! nothing will change if you don't do something to stop it, unfortunately it is up to you to tell someone to get it dealt with!
I'll be praying for you, and, as I said, PM me if ya wanna chat!
God bless

 

[Loopi]

Hun, i know its hard but i agree with all thats been said before this. You really do need to get out of there hun, and you need to tell someone whats going on. You really dont deserve this and it is far from your fault.
Maybe talk to a youth leader or your pastor? I dont know what your church is like or how close you are to your leaders, but i am sure they would want to help you and protect you. Let them stand by you as you leave all that is going on at home.
I know your scared of being put in foster care, but it is MUCH better than continuing to go through what you are ok? And God will be with you always and loving you always, so you are never alone ok?
pm if you wanna chat. Just dont leave things at home the way they are ok? nothing ventured, nothing gained.

 

[Sammy4God]

I know that i need to get out,i know i do,but he says that if i even try to tell he will kill me,i belive him to.I dont know any one i dont have any friends cause im home schooled.My pastor has asked me numbers of times if i was being hurt,i say no.I dont understand wh i do but as soon as someone ask i go blank and its like all i can say,no.I dont know why i just say it.I guess im scared.But see i have 2 brothers one older who is in the army and one younger(only a year)and i still get hurt the most,i have never seen my dad lay a hand on ether of emm.Thats what confuses me.Why would i get hurt and not him?I kinda think i know but is it cause im a girl and hes a boy,and you really cant do much to a boy like you can a girl,or another reason?Im trying to tell this next door ppl of mine hes a police officer but i dont know if he would belive me or not.

 

[Katie12]

Hunny listen all you can do is try,they'll have to comfrim it but still you will be getting out.You'll be safe.Just try to get his attention he was trained to listen.It will be hard but everyone here is supporting you,you've got to belive and trust us and the Lord.He is your true Father that hurts as much as you do when you get hurt or some one else.You have to have faith,you have to.Right now you dont have any and thats why your scared,thats why.I really think you should tell just like everyone else said its not your fault,its his own fault.Please do somthing to get out or maby you should join like a group at your church or go to the park get out and do stuff,make friends.Everyone belives in you hun,you need to get help you have my support 100%.Please be safe.May God protect you .



Blessed be,
Katie

P.S.
Feel free to pm me and talk .Ill be praying

 

[reeann]

thank you for the person who posted the helpline information. cut and paste