First, let me say up front that I hate neither Muslims nor Islam. I have stated many times that Islam has great potential. I have had Muslim friends who I considered quality people. My daughter was very close friends with two Muslim sisters most of her life, and our families got along well because of our shared values: decency, fairness, kindness, honesty, modesty, chastity... Their father very much approved of his daughters hanging around my daughter, just as I approved of my daughter hanging around his. I have studied both the Quran & Hadith, and Arabic culture. As with most things, there is stuff I appreciate, and stuff I don't like.
It's good to hear this.
You have asked why the hatred towards Islam. I think it is a disingenuous question -- the answer should be obvious even to you. First of all, you say that countries like Saudi Arabia, Jordon, Malaysia, etc., are fine countries. That is just nonsense. Not only would I not want to live in such dictatorships, but they are not even truly benevolent dictatorships -- the poor suffer.
I'm Malaysian

. So I can only speak of Malaysia(in my POV, of course).
With recent political scenario, I can see some quick maneuver from the governing parties. A good sign, at least for me.
But I don't feel like labeling Malaysians are ruled by dictators. You see, we're quite in freedom to express our thoughts, with some limitions. But I do feel the limitation is quite needed at this moment as we're still a young country which is fragile and still looking to find our own identites. Some westerners I'd conversation with see those limitations as 'dictatorship' in minor and soft meaning. But hey! we're the one who borned, lived and most certainly will die here. I don't know how foreigners can still say Malaysia is ruled by dictator with their straight faces while they not even know how a country named Malaysia was borned.
Sory, I know this is nothing to do with religion in any means but, maybe I just need to express my thought.
A Muslim is better off living in Israel than any of those countries: not only would he be free to practice his religion, but his standard of living would be significantly higher. (One reason why Arabs in Israel do NOT emigrate to Islamic states.)
Sory if I'm being ignorant. Is any practising Muslim live in Israel right now? You see, with those news on world's media, I'm curious to know if they can even lived together in harmony.
But second, the greatest violence in the world is presently perpetrated presently by those identifying as Muslims. Not JUST that, but in ADDITION, they commit this violence IN THE NAME OF ISLAM.
Hate to say this. But you're quite right.
I use the 'quite' word there because, they use
Islamic brotherhood to fulfill their political agenda. Not that the commit violence in the name of Islam. If they rally a troop and ask them
on the name of Islam to commit such violence, they'll fail. But if they rally in the name of Islamic bortherhood, then start to quote news of how Muslims were persecuted around the world, they might be successful(not that I imply Muslims are persecuted all around the world).
And not JUST THAT, but you just don't see moderate Muslims getting hot and bothered and protesting in the streets about it. You would think that such blasphemy, doing evil in the name of G-d, would be more of a concern.
That distinguished of how our modus operandi is differ from those extremist. If you can go to a Friday prayer, maybe you can listen of how the Imam calling all Muslims to not taking part of any violence which involve in killing innnocent people. But struggle to fight for our rights(country sovereignity, freedom of religion, etc) or to fight those mockery(from ignorant people which has their own agenda like the Fitna, etc) with not go against the Islamic teaching. Here in Malysia, Muslims are start to boycotting some Hoand products

( no offence to Holland people).
Oh! And soldiers who invaded your country is not concider as innocent

. Maybe the word civilians would be more suitable
So if there are those who hate Islam, it is a sentiment that Muslims have brought upon their own culture and religion.
While this is true, but I'll not to put all blames on Muslims. I've my reasoning
