The point I was simply making is
"We can't be letting kids aged 15 be making major life altering decisions about gender surgery, because they're not adults and not old enough to fully understand the long term consequences of actions" doesn't logically gel with handing down adult-level punishments from a legal standpoint when they make potentially life-altering mistakes in other ways.
In what way though...we aren't saying 15yo children should be able to go around with guns at school. We are saying the exact opposite, aren't we? We are saying that's incredibly wrong.
I understand that some people are saying children can make life altering sex change decisions at 15 (or younger) but they don't actually mean that. The parents are the ones giving medical consent, right? Which means we all sort of agree that in reality, if the child ends up severely psychologically damaged or permanently physically damaged, it's some combination of the fault of the parents and doctors....not the children, right?
If people are saying that a 15yo can make drastically life altering and unnecessary medical decisions without a parent's consent...and 15yo children can take guns to school because they can fully understand what they are doing and have a firm grasp of consequences....
Yeah, they apparently think children are walking around making really clear choices and probably shouldn't be voting. Probably shouldn't even be living alone, or going outside without helmets.
Also, did you see the Netflix documentary Surviving the Flame? Weird cult headed by some goofy "matchmaker" guy who was able to talk multiple adult women into "being trans" to the point of undergoing medical procedures and surgeries. Wild stuff, especially for those that believe such things can't happen.
Critical Legal Theory was a thing that was built on these sorts of points. It was a widespread, sweeping movement where the main issue confronted was not only the arbitrary nature of laws, but the subjective nature of words and the often subjective application of law. In a country that seeks to treat all citizens equally can't possibly do so and is inherently unjust etc. What brought it crashing down was....debate. Critical Race Theory adopted some of the same arguments but avoids the debate entirely...and treats itself as a set of facts.
I think more to the point.....didn't they hold the parents responsible?
Because if they did, is that not a tacit admission that he wasn't entirely responsible for his own actions as an adult? Is this the same case I'm thinking of? That's the issue I think. You can make the argument that this teen was able to make these adult decisions and should receive an adult punishment....or his parents are in some way to blame for his behavior through negligence or abuse. They aren't in jail for simply hiding him or not calling the police on him, are they?
I'm certainly not advocating for the former...but it drifts into the same realm, logically, as the age old question
"Why can an 18 year old get drafted and go to war, but can't buy a beer?"
I get the arbitrary nature of the age of consent drifting from 16 to 18 to whatever in some places is odd... but it is, logically, something that needs be done or we're treating children like adults.
As noted, obviously we pick ages that can be somewhat arbitrary to establish when "adulthood" begins, but why even establish those ages in the first place if people (and justice systems) are going to carve out exceptions to them whenever they feel like?
Again....there's a punitive nature to justice. If people believe it's all about taking someone who made a mistake out of society, "fixing them", and releasing them back into society...it's not really that. It's about inflicting a punitive retribution upon those who abused and harmed others. If you can accept it's more about that than it is..."rehabilitation into society"...then it makes sense under certain circumstances we consider a child's crimes worthy of harsh punishment.
Had this child built a bomb that he then detonated and killed 50 people, I doubt we'd even be holding this discussion.