Yes, you are often confused. Taking things on faith always leads to confusion. I'm talking about any consciousness at all Colter, be it a god, a person or a chipmunk. The issue of metaphysical primacy has specifically to do with the necessary relationship between consciousness and existence. Do the object of consciousness conform to the subject or is it the other way around. Existence cannot hold primacy and not hold primacy at the same time and in the same respect. That's a contradiction. That is why any argument for a creator god is instantly self refuting. If even one consciousness enjoys primacy over it's objects it means that consciousness has primacy.
The statement that these are narrow terms is laughable since all of the concepts involved are the most basic, most fundamental concepts there are. "existence" denotes everything that exists, everything that has existed and everything that will exist in the future. "Consciousness" denotes all consciousnesses. "objects" means any object of consciousness whether it is an entity, action or attribute or some other class of existent that hasn't been discovered yet.
No, these are not narrow terms. They are so fundamental that an error involving them renders a whole worldview false. This is the fatal flaw of theism and Platonism and Kantianism and many other worldviews. Maybe you should actually learn what the fundamentals are of your own worldview first and then you will avoid contradicting yourself so much.