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Why is prostitution illegal?

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In the United States, one of the biggest complaints non-believers have about christians is what we consider to be interference with our lives. One of the main instances is legislated morality. For this discussion we will ignore violation of separation of church and state and uninvited evangelism and being forced to listen to prayer at public events.

Most moral issues are agreed on by pretty much everyone. Acts which inherently harm other people are immoral (murder, assault, theft, rape). These are harmful by definition.

There is another category of acts which can cause harm to people in certain circumstances. Harm is possible, but not inherent. I don't agree that such acts are moral issues, nor do many other non-believers. Yet christians do, simply because some alleged god is claimed to have prohibited them. Nearly all "commandments" related to sex fall in this category.

With the lone exception of adultery, I do not consider any sex act between any number of consenting adults in any combination of genders to be a moral issue.

Now in the case of most sexual issues, christians give people grief for performing "sinful" acts, but they are not illegal. (Though the continuous attacks on the sex industry show that christians want to make them illegal.)

But for this discussion, we will consider a sex act that is illegal: prostitution.

Now obviously christians think they are commanded not to be a prostitute or to engage one. The question is why they think non-christians, who do not believe in any gods or their "commandments", should be prohibited from prostitution via legislation.

In other words, legislated christian morality.

Now christians may say: "but there are many non-christians who are also think prostitution should be illegal!" But they also say "this is a christian nation based on christian values". While this can be disputed, there is no doubt that christian morality has had an influence on society and that everyone, including non-believers, has been drummed with the idea that "prostitution is bad" since the day they were born.

So the questions are:
1. should prostitution be illegal?
2. if so, why?

Since we are talking about actual harm and not the pronouncements of some god, the ground rules are that there will be no mention of the christian god, his "commandments", or his "plan". All discussion will be based on the actual real world harm that has been observed. Not just the potential for harm. There are many things that have a potential for harm that are not illegal.

We already know why christians think they are not allowed to engage in prostitution. What we want to know is why unbelievers should be forcibly prevented from engaging in prostitution.

If there are unbelievers who think prostitution should be illegal, they also have to provide an actual reason.

And be aware, I do not plan on a superficial treatment. If you say "prostitution is stressful for the prostitute because of the shame", you have to explain why she has shame in the first place. Shame presupposes what she is doing is wrong. Where did she get the idea that it is wrong?

Have at it.
 

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In the United States, one of the biggest complaints non-believers have about christians is what we consider to be interference with our lives. One of the main instances is legislated morality. For this discussion we will ignore violation of separation of church and state and uninvited evangelism and being forced to listen to prayer at public events.

Most moral issues are agreed on by pretty much everyone. Acts which inherently harm other people are immoral (murder, assault, theft, rape). These are harmful by definition.

There is another category of acts which can cause harm to people in certain circumstances. Harm is possible, but not inherent. I don't agree that such acts are moral issues, nor do many other non-believers. Yet christians do, simply because some alleged god is claimed to have prohibited them. Nearly all "commandments" related to sex fall in this category.

With the lone exception of adultery, I do not consider any sex act between any number of consenting adults in any combination of genders to be a moral issue.

Now in the case of most sexual issues, christians give people grief for performing "sinful" acts, but they are not illegal. (Though the continuous attacks on the sex industry show that christians want to make them illegal.)

But for this discussion, we will consider a sex act that is illegal: prostitution.

Now obviously christians think they are commanded not to be a prostitute or to engage one. The question is why they think non-christians, who do not believe in any gods or their "commandments", should be prohibited from prostitution via legislation.

In other words, legislated christian morality.

Now christians may say: "but there are many non-christians who are also think prostitution should be illegal!" But they also say "this is a christian nation based on christian values". While this can be disputed, there is no doubt that christian morality has had an influence on society and that everyone, including non-believers, has been drummed with the idea that "prostitution is bad" since the day they were born.

So the questions are:
1. should prostitution be illegal?
2. if so, why?

Since we are talking about actual harm and not the pronouncements of some god, the ground rules are that there will be no mention of the christian god, his "commandments", or his "plan". All discussion will be based on the actual real world harm that has been observed. Not just the potential for harm. There are many things that have a potential for harm that are not illegal.

We already know why christians are not allowed to engage in prostitution. What we want to know is why unbelievers should be forcibly prevented from engaging in prostitution.

If there are unbelievers who think prostitution should be illegal, they also have to provide an actual reason.

And be aware, I do not plan on a superficial treatment. If you say "prostitution is stressful for the prostitute because of the shame", you have explain why she has shame in the first place. Shame presupposes what she is doing is wrong. Where did she get the idea that it is wrong?

Have at it.
Why is slavery illegal. Why is there any law at all
 
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Why is slavery illegal.
Slavery is inherently harmful to the person enslaved.
Why is there any law at all
To prevent human beings from harming each other. Please show how either a prostitute or her customer is harmed.
 
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I definitely think prostitution needs to be legal. I see nothing wrong with it morally. If it were legal it would be able to be better regulated, and greater steps toward ensuring the safety of everyone involved could be taken. I personally like the way Nevada's handled it.

Wikipedia said:
Under Nevada state law, any county with a population of less than 400,000 is allowed to license brothels if it so chooses[1]. As of 2007, Clark County (which contains Las Vegas) and Washoe County (which contains Reno) are the only counties with population above 400,000.[2] Incorporated towns and cities in counties that allow prostitution may regulate the trade further or prohibit it altogether.
As of July 2004, brothels are illegal under county or municipal law in Carson City (which encompasses the entire county), Douglas County, and Lincoln County. Eureka County neither permits nor prohibits licensed brothels and does not have any. The other 11 counties permit licensed brothels in certain specified areas or cities.[3]
The precise licensing requirements vary from county to county. License fees for brothels range from an annual $100,000 in Storey County to an annual $200 in Lander County. Licensed prostitutes must be at least 21 years old, except in Storey County and Lyon County, where the legal age is 18.
State law requires that registered brothel prostitutes be checked weekly for several sexually transmitted diseases and monthly for HIV; furthermore, condoms are mandatory for all oral sex and sexual intercourse. Brothel owners may be held liable if customers become infected with HIV after a prostitute has tested positive for the virus

And here's my favorite part:

Wikipedia said:
Since 1986, when mandatory testing began, not a single brothel prostitute has ever tested positive for HIV. The mandatory condom law was passed in 1988. A study conducted in 1995 in two brothels found that condom use in the brothels was consistent and sexually transmitted diseases were accordingly absent.

Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution_in_Nevada
 
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Where I live prostitution is legal.
As long as people are neither urged/forced to either become a prostitute nor to make use of their services I don´t see any problem whatsoever with it. It is a profession like any other profession.
I personally have never found the idea of paying for sex particularly tempting, but then I never found the idea of paying someone for cleaning my house particularly tempting, either.
 
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Where I live prostitution is legal.
As long as people are neither urged/forced to either become a prostitute nor to make use of their services I don´t see any problem whatsoever with it. It is a profession like any other profession.
I personally have never found the idea of paying for sex particularly tempting, but then I never found the idea of paying someone for cleaning my house particularly tempting, either.
Yeah. If you want to clean my house for free, go ahead. :)
 
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Where I live prostitution is legal.
As long as people are neither urged/forced to either become a prostitute nor to make use of their services I don´t see any problem whatsoever with it. It is a profession like any other profession.
I personally have never found the idea of paying for sex particularly tempting, but then I never found the idea of paying someone for cleaning my house particularly tempting, either.
I agree.

I do think with prostitution being legal, there would at least be some government standards that would have to be met. And if it were legal, and brothels were legal, I'd imagine these standards would be a lot easier to enforce.

I will say visiting prostitutes says something about a person, but that's another topic.
 
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I will say visiting prostitutes says something about a person, but that's another topic.
I don´t know what it says about the person - beyond the fact that he/she is visiting a prostitute.
I´d be interested in hearing and discussing your opinion. Why not start another thread?
 
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I don´t know what it says about the person - beyond the fact that he/she is visiting a prostitute.
I´d be interested in hearing and discussing your opinion. Why not start another thread?
Really? And I'm probablty going to get bashed, but I think its rather pathetic to have to pay for sex.

I'm aware people are lonely, but still... to actually pay?
 
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Really? And I'm probablty going to get bashed, but I think its rather pathetic to have to pay for sex.
I have no interest in bashing anyone, but "it´s pathetic" is not really a statement that can be discussed, is it? It´s merely a value judgement without any argumentative content.

I'm aware people are lonely, but still... to actually pay?
I can think of a lot of different reasons why people have no problems paying for sexual services and may even prefer it.
Loneliness? I personally doubt that paying someone for their company really helps with overcoming loneliness. :)
 
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In a free market, people should be allowed to sell goods and services with minimal government intervention, I don't see how prostitution is any different from any other service. So there's no reason it ought to be illegal. Anyone who says otherwise is just trying to give their religion political power, something that can only be viewed as an outright betrayal of the United States Constitution.
 
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I have no interest in bashing anyone, but "it´s pathetic" is not really a statement that can be discussed, is it? It´s merely a value judgement without any argumentative content.

I can think of a lot of different reasons why people have no problems paying for sexual services and may even prefer it.
Loneliness? I personally doubt that paying someone for their company really helps with overcoming loneliness. :)
Yes, but there are lots of things I personally wouldn't do, nor really take an interest who someone who did those things. So I don't use my feelings about them to support the legality or illegality of it.

Just I would personally not get involved romantically with someone who had visited prostitutes. That probably would've been a more accurate comment than what I did say.

Hope that explains it better.
 
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Slavery is inherently harmful to the person enslaved.

To prevent human beings from harming each other. Please show how either a prostitute or her customer is harmed.
Would you sleep with someone you are not attracted to! Most of this has more to do with drug habits. What about pimps using women for profit. Thats a form of slavery! This all in the immoral realm.
 
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Would you sleep with someone you are not attracted to! Most of this has more to do with drug habits. What about pimps using women for profit. Thats a form of slavery! This all in the immoral realm.

Which is one reason why prostitution should be legal. So that women are not exploited by pimps. Lots of people sleep with someone they're not attracted to.
 
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Would you sleep with someone you are not attracted to! Most of this has more to do with drug habits. What about pimps using women for profit. Thats a form of slavery! This all in the immoral realm.
Pimps can only exist where prostitution is illegal. Just like drug dealers can only exist where drugs are illegal. Remove the illegality and you remove most of crime.
 
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Would you sleep with someone you are not attracted to!
No. Then again there are a lot of things I wouldn´t do which others have no problems with. Just to give you the first two examples that come to mind, I don´t watch TV and I don´t play the lottery. And I wouldn´t want to be a plumber, either.
Most of this has more to do with drug habits.
Prostitution and drugs aren´t linked. However, in societies in which both are prohibited, they both grow in the same milieus, for obvious reasons.
What about pimps using women for profit.
Yes, what of it?
I am, of course, opposed to it.
Thats a form of slavery!
Yes, slavery definitely needs to be prevented. Forcing anyone into doing any work they don´t want to do is slavery - that doesn´t mean the work is slavery if people are not forced into it. Slavery is the "force" part, and - just like with any other job - I am all for making it illegal.
 
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Unlike some of you, i'm not going to be philosophical about my opinion of men who see prostitutes. Instead i'm going to outright say that 99% of men who use prostitutes are scum.

Most women become prostitutes to pay for their drug habits (another good reason to legalise drugs). Okay, you might get a few who enjoy it, but on the whole most would rather be doing something else. Most men who see prostitutes couldn't care less if their prostitute is a sex slave, trapped into it through drugs or whatever. As long as their sexual urge is met, they couldn't care less. Even if i got to the stage where no woman would look at me twice, i would still rather have a [wash my mouth][wash my mouth][wash my mouth][wash my mouth] than see a prostitute. The reason is, i wouldn't want to sleep with someone who wasn't really enjoying it.

That said, prostitution should be legalised and regulated. Also legalising drugs will drastically cut down on the amount of women who get trapped into prostitution.

Edit - making something illegal doesn't normally stop it from happening, it just drives it underground. So i'd rather it was done in a safe environment.
 
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Really? And I'm probablty going to get bashed, but I think its rather pathetic to have to pay for sex.

I'm aware people are lonely, but still... to actually pay?
Being pathetic is not illegal. As he said, please start another thread about that.
 
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