Doesnt make sense to me because the 2nd law is stated in terms of time..... as if time is the given and the 2nd law follows from that.
The difference is between time per se, analogous to a spatial dimension, and an
arrow of time, an irreversible direction of time - the distinction between past and future; like always having to move forwards in space, never being able to go back the way you came. At micro-scales, interactions are reversible - there's no distinction between past and future; under certain conditions at macro scales, the bulk result of many reversible micro-scale interactions is not reversible - an arrow of time emerges.
Consider a perfectly insulated box partitioned in two, each side of the partition containing a different coloured gas. The individual molecules of the gas bounce off each other and the sides of the box reversibly and unpredictably. If you played a video of one molecule's interactions backwards, you wouldn't be able to determine that it was playing backwards - there's no arrow of time, no clues to tell past from future.
If you remove the partition and let the gases mix, the individual paths and interactions of the molecules still give no clue to past or future, but the statistical accumulation of their unpredictable paths causes the two gases to diffuse into each other, and you can tell, by looking at the mixing of the of the gases, that the state of the system is changing - an arrow of time emerges. At this point, you see complexity emerging as the gases mix in complex ways.
The initial low-entropy, ordered state becomes increasingly disordered. The statistical arrow of time persists until the gases are completely mixed and there is no distinguishable change in the state of the system from one observation to the next - the arrow of time has vanished, and the entropy of the box is at a maximum - no more disorder is possible. As it approaches this state, the complexity also reduces as it becomes easier to describe until, when it's fully mixed, its complexity is also at a minimum.
That's roughly the path the universe is on - a low-entropy state at the big bang unwinding through a period of increasing entropy where complexity can be found, until it reaches maximum entropy at thermal equilibrium - uniform heat-death, and complexity can no longer be sustained.