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Why Is Immortality/Eternal Life Desirable?

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You and yourself should be very happy together....
Enjoy your life...

My life is not about me and only me. I've indicated that there are plenty of other people in my life that matter and for you to ignore that is disappointing.

Why are you here telling others what you think and exposing
yourself to outside thoughts when you clearly state that you do not
want any external influence....

You misunderstand. I am not absolutely separate from external influence, but I do not let it overwhelm my own individual sense of reason. I am not so gullible as to be suckered or guilt tripped into believing something with no evidence or reason behind it.

God says that you need what He offers...
I do not put words in God's mouth.

No you just say what you believe God says, that's just as disingenous and unconvincing.

You on the other hand refute God's words and replace them with your thoughts...

I can't refute what isn't there. My thoughts are my own. Your thoughts are yours as much as you don't replace them with thorns and brambles that clutter your mind.

Who are you?

I'm a seeker of truth. I never claimed to be anything more. You, on the other hand, seem to claim to be so much holier than me just because of your beliefs, even if you yourself didn't accomplish your salvation, but God did. There's still that attitude of condescension.

Perhaps you are insane (in reference to your jab at my belief being a
form of insanity) and I and those who believe in the evidences as
given by the Bible are the rational ones.
Few people have the capacity to compartmentalize so much that they can appear to be sane in any capacity and also believe in God. It is a rare person that can do that. Not that anyone's ever completely sane, but on a spectrum, there are those that are more insane than others. Not saying anything explicitly about you, but merely saying you appear to be delusional in the sense of believing in something without significant evidence beyond the tip of your proverbial nose.

Who by using their rational mind would ever reach logical conclusions
when they banish all evidences that conflict with their own idea?

Eliminating evidences with denial instead of investigation,
sounds like a recipe for disaster....

I eliminate specious and extraneous evidence. My own ideas change as I see the evidence change the tendencies of a model to predict effectively. You confuse believing in simplicity and practicality with purposely excluding evidence for convenience, which is not what I'm doing.

And I have investigated Christianity and always found it wanting in terms of a comprehensive worldview, which Buddhism has given me in contrast.
 
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^_^ Ok. I might take time to put a somewhat finer point on that idea, that what troubles many unbelievers (the whole issue of suffering) serves the purpose of molding us into being more capable of experiencing His Glory, and when the process is complete we will be able to do so fully. I do find in Scripture that the absolute best moments I have experienced could be roughly 10% of this at the most, that those moments were achieved by experiencing EL in the here and now as a "downpayment" if you will, and that it is the other 90% that answers your question of "why is EL desirable?"

Which is why I focused on the notion that EL can be experientially known in this life. :) Does this make sense to you?

Suffering can be a good in simple humanist terms, without involving a God. When you involve a God that has a plan and it involves such suffering, it makes him appear terribly sadistic.

Problem with experiencing EL in this life is that this life is not eternal. Whereas experiencing, say, nirvana, can be experienced in this life in that it is a mental experience primarily, not anything so physical or embodied in any sense of eternal life.
 
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The power that can create the universe must be beyond our understanding.
The Bible says that the rocks melt like wax before God.
Men in bodies made mostly of water would evoporate...

If you can understand it at all, it is not ABSOLUTELY beyond your understanding, so you're making a mistake of terms here. Say God is inscrutable and you forget that you can scrutinize the Bible for God's nature, say God is unknowable and you forget that you can know God exists through your alleged revelations. God is hardly absolutely unspeakable, otherwise we'd be speaking about nothing at all.
 
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If you can understand it at all, it is not ABSOLUTELY beyond your understanding, so you're making a mistake of terms here. Say God is inscrutable and you forget that you can scrutinize the Bible for God's nature, say God is unknowable and you forget that you can know God exists through your alleged revelations. God is hardly absolutely unspeakable, otherwise we'd be speaking about nothing at all.
wrong again....
Who do you know and by what laws of nature could
a person so emanate power from their being that
they can melt rocks?

Explain this unexplainable phenomenon...
 
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If I had to give you an explanation, you'd just call me a hypocrite. There could conceivably be more truth in Chinese traditional medicine and the associated claims of being able to do stuff like the Touch of Death before I'd even come close to believing in a God that has no demonstrable effects on existence at all, except by the people who believe in It.
 
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I'm a seeker of truth. I never claimed to be anything more. You, on the other hand, seem to claim to be so much holier than me just because of your beliefs, even if you yourself didn't accomplish your salvation, but God did. There's still that attitude of condescension.
You are not a seeker of truth...
You are here to tell others what you "believe" and to call them fools.

I never claimed to be holier than you but I am...

Why?

Because the holiness I have is not my own by the
holiness of God that has been given to me in Christ.

I am done with your exercises in futility.

I have all the evidences I need.

You will not be convinced no matter what anyone says.
Your course is set and your ship is asea and you will not
change direction for others or me...

I have seen people heal in Jesus name.

This evening Jesus heal a woman who had injured her arm
when the name of Jesus was invoked over her injury.

My wife's cousin was healed instantly and completely
from a stroke that had left her arm paralyzed when a friend prayed
over her in Jesus name.

I have many more examples in my life, my family and in my friends.
We are the sane and rational ones who see the hand of God in our lives.

All you have is denial.

You have nothing but your thoughts and faulty logic.

I have so much proof that I know beyond any doubt who Jesus is
and what my future entails when I pass from this life to the one God
has promised to me in Christ.

I need not try to convince you as if I ever could.

So enjoy your life and go to a forum where those that
hear you will believe what you are saying.

May God visit you and open your eyes as you claim
you are a seeker of the truth...

I cannot help you or convince you but God can.

I will say a prayer for you tonight as I lay my head down.

I encourage all here who know you or have talked with you to do the same,
to lift you up in prayer that you might know that Jesus is more than words but is
God the son who can change a man's life if those who could, would pray and
believe that God can do anything...even to the changing of a mans heart from
stone to flesh again.
.

The prayer of a righteous man accomplishes much.

I am the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus.

My prayers will accomplish much as will all those who read
this and begin to pray for you.

I love you as Christ loves me so I will take you to my Father
who has a way of revealing Himself to those who cannot see...:thumbsup:
 
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You are not a seeker of truth...
You are here to tell others what you "believe" and to call them fools.

I never claimed to be holier than you but I am...

Why?

Because the holiness I have is not my own by the
holiness of God that has been given to me in Christ.

When I call you ignorant, that isn't teh same as calling you a fool. Not to mention maybe I just think you're not following the truth except when it's convenient to you, but I could be wrong

I am done with your exercises in futility.

I have all the evidences I need.

You will not be convinced no matter what anyone says.
Your course is set and your ship is asea and you will not
change direction for others or me...

I have seen people heal in Jesus name.

This evening Jesus heal a woman who had injured her arm
when the name of Jesus was invoked over her injury.

My wife's cousin was healed instantly and completely
from a stroke that had left her arm paralyzed when a friend prayed
over her in Jesus name.

I have many more examples in my life, my family and in my friends.
We are the sane and rational ones who see the hand of God in our lives.

You are insane when you are justifying beliefs through apophenia, pareidolia and other associations of causation through mere correlation of events.

All you have is denial.

You have nothing but your thoughts and faulty logic.

I have so much proof that I know beyond any doubt who Jesus is
and what my future entails when I pass from this life to the one God
has promised to me in Christ.

I need not try to convince you as if I ever could.

So enjoy your life and go to a forum where those that
hear you will believe what you are saying.

May God visit you and open your eyes as you claim
you are a seeker of the truth...
If you can't even handle criticism and you are so certain, perhaps you are the one that is insecure and are trying to engage people just to make them think like you through pathos rhetoric.


I cannot help you or convince you but God can.

I will say a prayer for you tonight as I lay my head down.

I encourage all here who know you or have talked with you to do the same,
to lift you up in prayer that you might know that Jesus is more than words but is
God the son who can change a man's life if those who could, would pray and
believe that God can do anything...even to the changing of a mans heart from
stone to flesh again..

The prayer of a righteous man accomplishes much.

I am the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus.

My prayers will accomplish much as will all those who read
this and begin to pray for you.

I love you as Christ loves me so I will take you to my Father
who has a way of revealing Himself to those who cannot see...:thumbsup:

You wouldn't be the only person to pray and you won't be the last. You want to think God will do something because you're saddened in its name? Be my guest. But as far as I'm concerned, you're persisting in delusion for the sake of resolving this cognitive dissonance that you don't even want to recognize, let alone confront
 
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Yes in this physical changing world, if that is all there is to reality, death is sometimes a blessing when someone is suffering and that suffering can be only be releived by death. Reality is not about what we think reality is. Therefore you could be incorrect about oblivion being the destiny of everyone, and about this world that we can detect being all the reality there is.
I never said oblivion was about how I felt and neither did I say that reality being all we can detect in some conceivable way being about how I felt. You're reading that into what I'm saying.
When you say self is gone there is no other way of reading what you are saying, but oblivion of self.


Not unless you change the defintion to something other than an individual.
Individuals are not absolutely separate beings, they are in relation with other individuals
Both statments are true, but it is not the being in relationwith others that makes us individuals.
There is no sense in which it is not done away.
You're focusing too much on the experiential part and less on the metaphysical part
You don't believe in the metaphysical self existing after Nirvana--right?


Why do you deserve to exist? Deserve in the words of a western movie--unforgiven--has nothing to do with it.
If deserve has nothing to do with it, why are you asking me why I deserve to exist?
I don't recall asking that--probably in response to your saying everyone deserves life.

I have considered the fact.
Simply considering it from your tiny perspective is hardly a fair consideration
I don't think my perspective in comparison to yours is all that tiny.

How much love is too much? The answer is there cannot be too much love. It is the same with life.
Too much love is the same as too much life in that it smothers us, it doesn't allow us to be free, it focuses on control instead of liberty.
Smothering someone and not allowing them to be free is not being loving and certainly not too much love.

Too much of something is not always easy to realize until you've already done it or experienced it, so perhaps that's part of the issue here.
True, loving others is not always easy to do and certainly impossible for us to do perfectly.
 
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We have been over this many times. It means your life will have been meaningless after you and everyone who knew you is gone.
Only if I agreed that meaning was contingent on how long it lasted. Just because meaning doesn't last forever doesn't mean it isn't significant
It means that at some point nothing is significant anymore. There is no one for it to be significant to.


You cannot logically have it both ways. You cannot escape oblivion if you do not live forever. Failing to live forever is to be at some point without life and oblivion is to be without life.
Oblivion is not the same as non-life, though it might be said to be related. Oblivion is nihilism, non life is simply nature taking its course.
Yes oblivion is the same as non life. If nature takes its course and one ceases to exist, that is oblivion.

Ultimate meaning does not come from us. The meaning we create is temporary. That is not about being fair--just the way things are. When I talk about being caused I don't mean being caused by an accident of nature.
Just because you are a product of nature does not mean you are pointless.
Does Nature have a point? What is it?

You keep trying to get some purpose from another pseudo-human, when you refuse to acknowledge that the most significant meaning comes from yourself.
Intelligent being is not limited to human. The most significant meaning that comes from you is temporary at best.

I never claimed ultimate meaning came from us, but merely the most satisfactory meaning. Unsatisfactory meanings come from outside ourselves.
Unsatisfactory to whom? This is a meaningless statment.



There are similarities but there are distinctions and you are in denial of the distinctions in saying there can be no separation.
When did I say there can be no separation? I merely said that separation is at its core illusory, but not that it doesn't exist.
You just said there can be so separation. If separation does not exist, there can be no separation.

You are avoiding the obvious bottom line of your theology through some sort of word game about animals and plants.
I don't have theology, since I don't believe in God. The word you're looking for is metaphysics. And you seem to ignore my criticism that you're focused too much on humans. Do you think it is reasonable to focus only on humans in this world?
Ultimatly I think it is more interesting to me to focus on humans than on non humans, since I am human.


You assume the reality of no meaning to anything--that may or may not be reality.
I don't assume we can never find meaning, I assume that ultimate meaning is unsatisfactory.
That is because you assume there is no ultimate meaning.

Yes they were part of life but what was the point after everyone is gone?
The point was that they found meaning in their own lives. That's satisfactory to me, but not to you.
Ultimate meaninglessness is satisfactory to you, but not to me.

I am as focused on the moments as you are I suspect. Believeing in the continuation of life in a spiritual realm does not detract from enjoyment of the moment.
Only if you think that an eternal line of moments is as meaningful as a finite line of moments, which seems contradictory. Moments are meaningful only as they eventually reach an end.
This is an untrue, incorrect statment---"Moments are meaningful only as they eventually reach an end." Prove to me this statment is true. I find it interesting that most athiest believe we cannot enjoy life if we believe in eternal life or heaven. I think the truth is--reality is believing in an afterlife and a destiny of meaning makes this life more enjoyable. I think the truth is, Atheists do not enjoy this life as much as Christians on the whole and Christians are less fearful of death than atheists are.

If it does not last forever that means there comes a point in time when all is meaningless--which is what I am saying and you are objecting to.
Because you are fixated on ultimate meaning and I am not
You are assuming meaninglessness is reality. You don't see it as just assumption on your part.


Anything can be said--but life is not energy or matter.
You mean human experiential life is not energy or matter. But in fact they are in the basic sense that they result from their interaction. Your brain chemistry, your bodily chemistry in general is energy and matter, is it not?
My brain is matter--my thoughts are not.

Meaningless--now. Words meaning nothing. How can you know that life cannot be appreciated without it being finite? You deny life that is not finite and would claim to have never experienced such a thing. You cannot know therefore that life cannot be appreciated if it is not finite.
How do you suppose that life can really be appreciated if it goes on forever?
How do you suppose life cannot be appreciated because it extends in time?

There would be no ending point to it so you'd never be afraid to lose it and thus you'd have no appreciation, since you'd have it with no worries.
You should have used the word apprehention rather than appreciation. It would have been a more reasonable statment.
You cannot claim any more than you can appreciate life if it is infinite since YOU have not experienced life infinitely. I made the negative claim, you made the positive one, the onus of proof is on you to support your claim,but you haven't, so we're left with the default negative skeptical position I present.
Why do you get to claim something and not have to prove it?

No, thinking about timelessness is not the same as square circle which is simply jibberish. Timelessness is an idea, but like the word eternity, one that we cannot really relate to since in this world we have no point of referrence to relate to it.
No point of reference means it's even more meaningless than a square circle.
Not true. Not reasonable. Simply arguing.
If you don't even know where to start, why even think about it in some intellectual or philosophical sense? We can see what a square and a circle are, so we have a point of reference.
You can see them as separte and not equal things. To combine them is to say nothing about nothing.

Timelessness becomes incoherent when you think of it in relation to time, just as nonexistence and nothingness become incoherent to imagine in relation to existence.
Time is relative. Non existence is not relative


Not always.
By all means try to show a point where experiencing too much of something will still enable you to appreciate it the same way you did when it was new. I doubt you can.
By using the words too much, you sabotage the issue.

No the same does not apply to life or to eating. We eat all the time, but we don't get tired of eating and we breath all the time but we don't get tired of breathing.
It doesn't apply to our involuntary actions or our primal needs, but it does apply to our selfish wants, like love without reciprocity or life without death.
What applies to love and life? I have lost your train of thought.

Not true. If I live in a spiritual state of immortality, I probably would not see everything die around me.
Only assuming that everyone else shared that immortality, but that clearly isn't the case.
Nothing about the spiritual realm is clearly the case.

You will no doubt realize that in your annihilationist perspective that there will be people that are gone forever. What of them? Would you not care that they are gone?
We cannot know the details but assuming the worst is simply assuming.


Even figurativly or spiritually life is better than death because we do not want to kill ourselves.
I was never saying anything about suicide, but merely an acceptance of death as part of life.
I accept death in this world as part of life. I don't accept ultimate meaninglessness and oblivion as reality.


I don't think I have to see hatred around to enjoy the love of my family and friends. I can enjoy them without seeing the hatred.
Love is not as appreciated without seeing its opposite in the same way you don't really see light without seeing the shadow it casts.
I don't agree.

No because dying is not ususally preferable to life.
Only if you think living forever is a good thing for our minds, which you've failed to defend sufficiently
And you failed to defend it being a bad thing.

I suspect I am no more afraid of death that you are. I don't look forward to dying nor to non existence if that is our destiny. I do look forward to life if that is our destiny.
You cannot seriously claim I look forward to death. I accept it, but I do not wish for it. I appreciate the life I have now, you just want life forever because you can't accept that your life is finite and thus that you cannot have the eternal life that you want.
You are wrong. I can accept that my life is finite. You make assumption about me when you have no knowledge.


Prefering life over death does not prove any theology that provides hope of destiny rather than meaningless oblivion is wrong.
It does if one can demonstrate that that preference is actually obsession or fixation on life in dismissal or denial of death's significance.
But you cannot and have not demonstrated any such thing.

I think you say things like that because it sounds good and perhaps makes you feel better, but then you say things like escaping the wheel of life. That is not the middle path between life and oblivion.
I said nothing of a wheel of life. Samsara is your bondage to unrealistic beliefs about the world. Life and death are in a cycle, one is not better than the other, they complement each other.
Sounds to me like you are referring to the wheel of life.

The question really is about the reasonabless of a meaningless existence or a reason or purpose for us existing and about reality being limited to what we have been able to prove.
Existence is not meaningless just because we don't have a god to give us purpose. We can get purpose ourselves, and it isn't less important because it is temporary, which you've failed to demonstrate why.
Yes I have. Your being unwilling to see it is a separate matter.


I don't want things to exist permanently, but I do not prefer oblivion as my destiny.
You don't want it; that doesn't mean it isn't true. You keep trying to mask your desires with a preference, which, honestly, is hardly any different than simply you wanting something to be true in contrast to the way things actually are.
You don't know how things acturally are. You think you do, but you don't.

If you don't want things to exist permanently, then you shouldn't even want your own self to exist permanently in order to be consistent. Am I wrong?
Yes.

You must be working with a strange defintion of nihilism. How do you define nihilism?
There are multiple kinds of nihilism, some of them less serious than others. At best, I am an existential nihilist. Life has no objective purpose that applies to all humans, we find our own purposes in life as individuals. I am not an ethical nihilist, which believes that there is no morality. I am not an epistemological, metaphysical or ontological nihilist either, far as I can tell. These believe, respectively, that we cannot have absolute knowledge, that some things don't actually exist or that there are some things that don't exist in a particular sense/ontologically.
So for our purposes you are a nihilist.
Better yet, how do YOU define nihilism? There isn't just one overall kind of nihilism, so perhaps you've had that mistaken belief.
I define nihilism as believing we face a destiny of oblivion.

Changing the issue. Self is real. Anatta would say self is not permanent.
Primarily, anatta says that self is not ours.
Who does it belong to?

Sunyata says things don't have a permanent essence and anicca says that things are not permanent in general.
This has little or nothing to do with our discussion then. I agree all is in a state of flux in this world. I do not agree that means it does not exist.



Yes it does mean that. Eternal life is more important than temporary life.
temporary purpose.
Only if you think eternity is better that finitude. But you've failed to demonstrate this apart from your personal desires to live forever in contradiction to your claim that you don't want things to exist permanently.
At what point is oblivion better than life?

I don't think you or I think we are absolutely separte from the world around us, but we both know we are separate in the sense that you and I are not the same thing.
Only so much so. There are many similarities we could find.
The similarities have nothing to do with our being separte individuals.

That is you talking--not Buddhism.
What do you think you know about Buddhism? You've demonstrated time and time again that you misunderstand it greatly due to presuppositions about it being nihilistic and otherwise self denying in some monastic sense.
So far you have been unable to explain how I am imcorrect.

No you are wrong. We are supposed to enjoy this life as Christians--be content. We are being saved from death--in Christ we have victory over death--that is the message of the resrrection and of being reborn.
The problem is the Christian's fixation on life in general. Death is seen as the enemy when it isn't from another perspective that is not nihilistic.
You complain of the Christian fixation on life and then deny Buddhism's fixation on death.

We do not agree on what soul is and we are not talking about the same thing when we use the word. When I talk about soul, I am referring to that part of us that is spiritual--the part that will return to God when we die--and our body will return to dust.
Not every Christian agrees that our body is useless. The body could be said to be the other half of the soul and how it is completed when the soul and body are joined in a perfected form.
Not every Buddhist agrees on things either. That has nothing to do with anything.__________________
 
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When you say self is gone there is no other way of reading what you are saying, but oblivion of self.

But oblivion of self is not necessarily a bad thing, if you think that self is in some way a corrupting influence on the mind in a sense more subtle than sensual pleasures for example

Both statments are true, but it is not the being in relationwith others that makes us individuals.
I think it is in some sense. We distinguish ourselves in communication and gaining understanding of ourselves and others

You don't believe in the metaphysical self existing after Nirvana--right?

Yes I don't believe that, primarily because of dependent origination and secondarily because of the truth of impermanence

I don't recall asking that--probably in response to your saying everyone deserves life.
I think we agree everyone deserves life, but don't agree on why

I don't think my perspective in comparison to yours is all that tiny.

How broad do you think your perspective really is though?

Smothering someone and not allowing them to be free is not being loving and certainly not too much love.

Part of the problem lies in how we define love

True, loving others is not always easy to do and certainly impossible for us to do perfectly.
If there is any perfection, it would have to be defined differently
 
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It means that at some point nothing is significant anymore. There is no one for it to be significant to.
Then it doesn't matter, since humans might as well be significant on their own, same as the meanings they find.

Yes oblivion is the same as non life. If nature takes its course and one ceases to exist, that is oblivion.
Isolated oblivion is isolated

Does Nature have a point? What is it?

Nature itself doesn't need a point, it simply exists. You try to put agency on everything and you encounter this problem

Intelligent being is not limited to human. The most significant meaning that comes from you is temporary at best.
It being temporary is just how things are. Everything is temporary, so why should meaning and self be an exception to that?

Unsatisfactory to whom? This is a meaningless statment.
It doesn't have relevance to perspective, it's an overall estimation based on the various unsatisfactory beliefs and meaning we derive from their unrealistic nature.

You just said there can be so separation. If separation does not exist, there can be no separation.
Separation is a natural impulse, but it's unrealistic when made absolute. that's what I'm trying to say

Ultimatly I think it is more interesting to me to focus on humans than on non humans, since I am human.
We are not absolutely separate from nature though, so it would be foolish to just focus on us

That is because you assume there is no ultimate meaning.
Because it's fruitless, it's something we have no control over and have no interaction with except in the loosest sense of conforming to some arbitrary standard set in place by an equally arbitrary consciousness.

Ultimate meaninglessness is satisfactory to you, but not to me.
The problem is your search for ultimacy and fixation on it, seems to me.

This is an untrue, incorrect statment---"Moments are meaningful only as they eventually reach an end." Prove to me this statment is true. I find it interesting that most athiest believe we cannot enjoy life if we believe in eternal life or heaven. I think the truth is--reality is believing in an afterlife and a destiny of meaning makes this life more enjoyable. I think the truth is, Atheists do not enjoy this life as much as Christians on the whole and Christians are less fearful of death than atheists are.

I simply believe you can't appreciate life to the fullest since you think this life is only a transition, that it pales in comparison to heaven and thus you have contempt for it, as much as you can try to appreciate it being a creation of God.

Meaning is transitory in that we always move into a new perspective on meaning as we see it from a distance, in hindsight, so to speak.

Who's more fearful of death here? An atheist who calmly accepts his eventual death by throat cancer or a Christian who looks forward to the next life with little real appreciation for this life, except as it reflects your ideal vision of heaven?

You are assuming meaninglessness is reality. You don't see it as just assumption on your part
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I assume meaning comes from minds, not from something outside the mind.

My brain is matter--my thoughts are not.
That doesn't mean they don't result from matter.

How do you suppose life cannot be appreciated because it extends in time?
Same reason I believe that life is valuable in that it eventually passes away. One appreciates something all the more when they know that it could go away at any time and never truly return.

You should have used the word apprehention rather than appreciation. It would have been a more reasonable statment.

You can't appreciate something truly if it is not permanent in your perspective, so logically you don't really appreciate this life, you appreciate the next life.

Why do you get to claim something and not have to prove it?
Depends on how you define proof in each context. And in logic, especially with such a grand scale, when I make a negative claim. I claim it through lack of evidence. You, making the positive claim, are asked to present the evidence, correct?


You can see them as separte and not equal things. To combine them is to say nothing about nothing.
They are equal in being shapes, they aren't equal absolutely

Time is relative. Non existence is not relative
Nonexistence is relative. I can experience nonexistence indirectly. When my friend's stepfather died. I experience his not being here. You see?


What applies to love and life? I have lost your train of thought.
Our attachments. We can become addicted to life and love without moderation

Nothing about the spiritual realm is clearly the case.
Then you're obfuscating the issue entirely by saying it's inscrutable.


We cannot know the details but assuming the worst is simply assuming
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I'm not assuming the worst, I'm assuming the basic state of things from what I observe.


I accept death in this world as part of life. I don't accept ultimate meaninglessness and oblivion as reality.
Because you refuse to acknowledge it for fear that you will go into nihilism,which you haven't proved I am in the sense of anything more than existential.



And you failed to defend it being a bad thing.

I can't defend it if you dismiss all my claims anyway. You can't accept that life could be meaningful subjectively and existentially unless you also believe there is an ultimate meaning applying to everyone as if we're automatons.

You are wrong. I can accept that my life is finite. You make assumption about me when you have no knowledge.
Then by all means try to prove otherwise.

But you cannot and have not demonstrated any such thing.
Then why even have this discussion if all you're trying to do is tell me I'm wrong at each step?

Sounds to me like you are referring to the wheel of life.
It's sometimes called that

Yes I have. Your being unwilling to see it is a separate matter.
My refusing to accept some ridiculous notion of a purpose beyond ourselves is not unwilling to see what you believe, I simply don't accept it as true.

You don't know how things acturally are. You think you do, but you don't.

Then you don't either. We're both imperfect, unless you claim to the contrary about yourself.


So for our purposes you are a nihilist.
I define nihilism as believing we face a destiny of oblivion
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There are too many kinds of nihilists for you to just lump me into the vague category. Not to mention in your position, we might as well be destined to oblivion unless we believe in God and Jesus and such.

Who does it belong to?

It's no one's, because no one's permanent and thus no one can hold onto it forever

This has little or nothing to do with our discussion then. I agree all is in a state of flux in this world. I do not agree that means it does not exist.
No one claimed metaphysical nihilism. Things exist, but they're temporary, that is the basic notion of anicca. NOWHERE did I say these things do not exist, I am not someone who believes everything is an illusion.



At what point is oblivion better than life?
there isn't any point, because in oblivion there is no self to appreciate or not appreciate that state

The similarities have nothing to do with our being separte individuals.
We experience things, but we of course understand them differently as individuals in some sense of the term.

So far you have been unable to explain how I am imcorrect.
If you want textual support, then you're barking up the wrong tree. Buddhism as a philosophy only has those basic points, but they are not so strict that they cannot be interpreted in different ways.


You complain of the Christian fixation on life and then deny Buddhism's fixation on death.
I deny it because it's not true. I appreciate life all the more knowing it is temporary. I claim that you cannot appreciate it, for you have contempt for the notion of impermanence and believe in some state of permanence in the future life.
 
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As Nietszche put it, "In heaven all the interesting people are missing,"

Not if you've met Saints on earth. They are the examples of what people will be like in heaven after going through the spiritual maturation on earth. :)
 
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When you say self is gone there is no other way of reading what you are saying, but oblivion of self.
But oblivion of self is not necessarily a bad thing, if you think that self is in some way a corrupting influence on the mind in a sense more subtle than sensual pleasures for example
Usually and overall, life is preferable to death and existence is preferable to non existence.

Both statments are true, but it is not the being in relationwith others that makes us individuals.
I think it is in some sense. We distinguish ourselves in communication and gaining understanding of ourselves and others
But if we have no contact with anyone we are still individuals.

I don't recall asking that--probably in response to your saying everyone deserves life.
I think we agree everyone deserves life, but don't agree on why
I don't know that I agree the word deserve is appropriate.
 
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Not all saints in the nominal sense are Christian, so I hope in heaven you're willing to see Gandhi, Gautama Buddha, etc. Otherwise you might be disappointed.
Actually, I cannot say who will be in heaven with regards to these people you mentioned, as only God knows the heart, but from what I've read and learned of Gandhi, his heart was very much "Christian."
 
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It means that at some point nothing is significant anymore. There is no one for it to be significant to.
Then it doesn't matter, since humans might as well be significant on their own, same as the meanings they find.
It matters to me that eventually nothing will matter and all will be meaningless. I don't believe that to be the case.

Does Nature have a point? What is it?
Nature itself doesn't need a point, it simply exists. You try to put agency on everything and you encounter this problem
If nature was created, then a point does exist, along with nature.

Intelligent being is not limited to human. The most significant meaning that comes from you is temporary at best.
It being temporary is just how things are. Everything is temporary, so why should meaning and self be an exception to that?
You assume and do not know this world is all there is--there is no reality other than this universe. You simply do not know that to be a fact.


Ultimatly I think it is more interesting to me to focus on humans than on non humans, since I am human.
We are not absolutely separate from nature though, so it would be foolish to just focus on us
I don't see it being foolish to focus on intelligence.

Ultimate meaninglessness is satisfactory to you, but not to me.
The problem is your search for ultimacy and fixation on it, seems to me.
Why is the search for meaning a problem?

This is an untrue, incorrect statment---"Moments are meaningful only as they eventually reach an end." Prove to me this statment is true. I find it interesting that most athiest believe we cannot enjoy life if we believe in eternal life or heaven. I think the truth is--reality is believing in an afterlife and a destiny of meaning makes this life more enjoyable. I think the truth is, Atheists do not enjoy this life as much as Christians on the whole and Christians are less fearful of death than atheists are.
I simply believe you can't appreciate life to the fullest since you think this life is only a transition, that it pales in comparison to heaven and thus you have contempt for it, as much as you can try to appreciate it being a creation of God.
Your belief is incorrect.
Meaning is transitory in that we always move into a new perspective on meaning as we see it from a distance, in hindsight, so to speak.
This is only true if there is no Creator who has a purpose for our existence.
Who's more fearful of death here? An atheist who calmly accepts his eventual death by throat cancer or a Christian who looks forward to the next life with little real appreciation for this life, except as it reflects your ideal vision of heaven?
It has been my experience the Christian is usually the more calm one at peace with eventual death.

You are assuming meaninglessness is reality. You don't see it as just assumption on your part
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I assume meaning comes from minds, not from something outside the mind.
That is what I just said. Anything that only relies on our own minds is eventually meaningless.

My brain is matter--my thoughts are not.
That doesn't mean they don't result from matter.
I don't know that matter causes the thoughts.

How do you suppose life cannot be appreciated because it extends in time?
Same reason I believe that life is valuable in that it eventually passes away. One appreciates something all the more when they know that it could go away at any time and never truly return.
That sounds more like the unhealthy clinging you often refer to.

You should have used the word apprehention rather than appreciation. It would have been a more reasonable statment.
You can't appreciate something truly if it is not permanent in your perspective, so logically you don't really appreciate this life, you appreciate the next life.
I think the truth is and reality is, belief in an afterlife makes you appreciate this life all the more.

Why do you get to claim something and not have to prove it?
Depends on how you define proof in each context. And in logic, especially with such a grand scale, when I make a negative claim. I claim it through lack of evidence. You, making the positive claim, are asked to present the evidence, correct?
No because I don't claim to be albe to prove the positive, but you claim to be able to prove the negative.


You can see them as separte and not equal things. To combine them is to say nothing about nothing.
They are equal in being shapes, they aren't equal absolutely
They are not equal shapes.

Time is relative. Non existence is not relative.
Nonexistence is relative. I can experience nonexistence indirectly. When my friend's stepfather died. I experience his not being here. You see?
No you have not experienced non existence in seeing someone die. You have only experience their absence.


Nothing about the spiritual realm is clearly the case.
Then you're obfuscating the issue entirely by saying it's inscrutable.
I am pointing out your facts are not facts.


We cannot know the details but assuming the worst is simply assuming
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I'm not assuming the worst, I'm assuming the basic state of things from what I observe.
You cannot observe the next life. Assuming it to be like this one is wrong.
I accept death in this world as part of life. I don't accept ultimate meaninglessness and oblivion as reality.
Because you refuse to acknowledge it for fear that you will go into nihilism,which you haven't proved I am in the sense of anything more than existential.
No, I refuse to acknowledge it because its reality has not been proven.

And you failed to defend it being a bad thing.
I can't defend it if you dismiss all my claims anyway. You can't accept that life could be meaningful subjectively and existentially unless you also believe there is an ultimate meaning applying to everyone as if we're automatons.
I see no logical argument there.

But you cannot and have not demonstrated any such thing.
Then why even have this discussion if all you're trying to do is tell me I'm wrong at each step?
Your illogical statments are not proof of anything.

You don't know how things acturally are. You think you do, but you don't.
Then you don't either. We're both imperfect, unless you claim to the contrary about yourself.
I have always agreed we do not know and what I believe cannot be proven. You however have claimed to be able to prove the negative.


So for our purposes you are a nihilist.
I define nihilism as believing we face a destiny of oblivion
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There are too many kinds of nihilists for you to just lump me into the vague category. Not to mention in your position, we might as well be destined to oblivion unless we believe in God and Jesus and such.
You are being evasive. There are not that many kinds of oblivion and I never said we escaped oblivion by mental belief in God and Jesus.


At what point is oblivion better than life?
there isn't any point, because in oblivion there is no self to appreciate or not appreciate that state
And in life there is someone to appreciate that state, so the state of existence is better than the state of non existence.


You complain of the Christian fixation on life and then deny Buddhism's fixation on death.
I deny it because it's not true. I appreciate life all the more knowing it is temporary. I claim that you cannot appreciate it, for you have contempt for the notion of impermanence and believe in some state of permanence in the future life.
I don't' have contempt for the notion of impermanence and agree it is reality in this life. I do believe there is the potential for a life that is not subject to time.
 
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Usually and overall, life is preferable to death and existence is preferable to non existence.
True, but life should not be something you feel must go on forever.


But if we have no contact with anyone we are still individuals.

Again, true, but separation in that sense is still not permanent

I don't know that I agree the word deserve is appropriate


Deserve admittedly has a problem in terms of some conscious entity granting that desert to individuals. Perhaps the expression would be we "naturally" live?
 
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Actually, I cannot say who will be in heaven with regards to these people you mentioned, as only God knows the heart, but from what I've read and learned of Gandhi, his heart was very much "Christian."

A good position, especially in terms of humility. What about the 14th Dalai Lama? Is his heart Christian, you think?
 
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It matters to me that eventually nothing will matter and all will be meaningless. I don't believe that to be the case.
You want meaning to exist forever, I don't think it should.

If nature was created, then a point does exist, along with nature.
If creation is true, which cannot be demonstrated, only believed in. Nature can be amazing as it is without believing it was created and nature doesn't need a point in the sense that humans need a purpose, it has purpose in the sense that we observe it, such as in evolutionary theory or general biology, ecology, etc.

You assume and do not know this world is all there is--there is no reality other than this universe. You simply do not know that to be a fact.
I have no reason to believe otherwise, so I go with the default of naturalism. And you have not presented any compelling or convincing reason why I should believe otherwise.


I don't see it being foolish to focus on intelligence.
I see it as myopic, not foolish.


Why is the search for meaning a problem?

Ultimacy does not equal meaning, they are separate terms.


Your belief is incorrect.
You can believe that all you want, but you have not presented grounds for why your belief is true.

This is only true if there is no Creator who has a purpose for our existence.
It has been my experience the Christian is usually the more calm one at peace with eventual death.
Say that to Buddhist monks who have immolated themselves, say that to Gandhi who was doing a hunger protest and almost died because his kidneys failed. And these were protests for human rights of one sort or another, it wasn't anything about witnessing for God and becoming a martyr, which is only meaningful to believers in that faith that the martyr died for.

That is what I just said. Anything that only relies on our own minds is eventually meaningless.
But not without the potential for meaning as we exist.

I don't know that matter causes the thoughts.
Brain function results in thoughts that we experience. That's the general notion

That sounds more like the unhealthy clinging you often refer to.
You seem to think that if I value something because it is temporary that I want it to exist forever. That is not the case at all. If I wanted things to exist forever, that would be clinging. If I instead accept that they will go away, but value them as they are in every moment they exist, I don't see any way you could fallaciously interpret clinging in any sense, because clinging implies you want something to remain the same forever. Am I wrong?

I think the truth is and reality is, belief in an afterlife makes you appreciate this life all the more.
Not really, by the very name afterlife it implies this life is nothing very important at all except as it relates to the afterlife, which means life is merely a means to the end that is the afterlife, which means life is not valued in itself.

No because I don't claim to be albe to prove the positive, but you claim to be able to prove the negative.
I never said I could prove the negative, I merely say that the negative is the default in virtually any situation of such a grand scale as the entire universe.


They are not equal shapes.
They share the quality of being shapes, I never said they were

No you have not experienced non existence in seeing someone die. You have only experience their absence.
Experiencing the absence of something is basically INDIRECTLY experiencing its nonexistence. I didn't say I could DIRECTLY experience such nonexistence.


I am pointing out your facts are not facts.
What facts did I claim about your "spiritual realm?


You cannot observe the next life. Assuming it to be like this one is wrong
Then why do you assume it is even moderately like the next one? Do we not have something like physical bodies, in a fusion with spiritual bodies? Christian metaphysics doesn't seem to be gnostic in the sense of hating the physical, but they instead seem to acknowledge that the physical is the other half of the spiritual in that it completes it.


No, I refuse to acknowledge it because its reality has not been proven.

You refuse to acknowledge meaning as being anything other than what you stubbornly believe it to be. You don't want to get out of this comfort zone.

I see no logical argument there.
A strictly formulaic argument it is not, but you have failed to argue why we must believe in ultimacy in order to appreciate life.

Your illogical statments are not proof of anything.

Where is the illogic? You've rarely agreed with me on anything and any time I try to engage in argument, you just say I'm wrong without arguing why your position is right. That seems like what you've been doing and correct me if I'm mistaken in that belief.

I have always agreed we do not know and what I believe cannot be proven. You however have claimed to be able to prove the negative

I have never claimed this and unless you can quote me as saying this, I remain skeptical of this claim. I only resort to the default position, like atheism to theism. I cannot prove a negative, I merely say that unless evidence is presented for the positive, the original position of skepticism is preferable.


You are being evasive. There are not that many kinds of oblivion and I never said we escaped oblivion by mental belief in God and Jesus.
We escape your oblivion by a particular belief in God and Jesus, not just any general belief.


And in life there is someone to appreciate that state, so the state of existence is better than the state of non existence.
Better, but not ultimate. Preferable, but not the absolute state of things.


I don't have contempt for the notion of impermanence and agree it is reality in this life. I do believe there is the potential for a life that is not subject to time.

That's part of the problem, in my opinion. Time is intrinsic, like space, to any real understanding of life at all. to speak of life without time or life without space is like speaking of a shape without sides or sight without eyes
 
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