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Why is Homosexuality Wrong?

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Uphill Battle said:
To try to get a Christian to answer this question, and asking him or her to not use the source where they derive their truth, isn't logically possible. I am not going to go in to each different version, denomination, sect, cult, interpretation or point of view.
there's many xians that are fully capable of using logic separate from scripture... perhaps not many fundies though.

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All I know is, many Christians hold that the bible is the word of God. So to ask them to separate their world view from their scripture doesn't make alot of sense.
red herring
Know ones asking them to forgo God from their world view, were asking for a logical reason to be against homosexuality other then the bible.
I don't know is a perfectly acceptable answer.
 
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Certainly, it seems reasonable to say, what's the harm? I for one, wont be picketing any gay pride parades. I will try to explain my position. According to the Bible all sin is rebellion against God. The wages of sin is death. It's that simple. However I don't think that gay bashing is likely to remedy the issue. I'm in no position to judge anyones sin but my own. I will say that forgiveness is offered to all who willingly give their life to Jesus Christ. I accepted Christ two years ago. My sins have been forgiven. The stipulation is that I repent, that is, turn away from my sins. That meant that I had to give up many things that I had dearly loved. If I had not been willing, I could never have done it. I believe the purpose of everyones life is to find God. And to seek salvation through Jesus Christ. By that I mean everyone.
 
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Here's how it is. Some people are going to hate the gays because of the way they interperate their religious text. Nothing is going to change their minds. Other people are going to hate the gays because they think it's icky. (They'll say it's illogical because it isn't what nature intended, or something similar, but what it really comes down to is that they think it is icky.) What these people don't realize is that we don't make laws in this country based on any religious beliefs and we don't make laws based on what people think is icky. If we did, we'd outlaw spiders.
 
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and roaches... those big ones like we get in TX that can pick up my schnauzer and carry him away... EWWWW.

Seriously, my husbands issue with it is the idea that a gay man can be in the gym changing room with him. He says it's the same as a man being in the changing room with me... even if he wasn't looking it would be horribly uncomfortable... so, in other words... it's icky.

I am torn between seeing his point and wanting to punch him over and over.
 
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Eh, let's try it from a different angle.

Why is murder wrong? Can you answer that without appeal to Bible verses?

Why is testifying falsely in court wrong? Ditto.

Why are theft and robbery wrong? Adultery?

All these questions can be answered with strictly secular arguments. Go ahead, try it.

Then you'll be in a position to try and answer "why is homosexuality wrong?".

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Not true.
Murder is wrong because you are taking the life of another human being.
Falsely testifying in court is wrong because you are purposely leading the court away from the truth which could result in a guilty person going unpunished or a innocent person going to prison.
Theft & Robbery are wrong because you are taking something that someone worked for or that matters to them in some way away from them for no reason except to hurt someone else or serve your own selfish purposes.
Adultery is wrong because it often rips apart families and it ALWAYS breaks a lifelong promise and shatters someones dreams, if not their entire life.

Homosexuality is wrong because... because... ummmm.... Leviticus something:something says so and for no other reason.
 
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Helpme..iamconfused said:
Wats your point remove the bible and nothing is wrong wat do you think every thing is based off of?

everything? really? so the guy in the Bible who got set free instead of Jesus. What was in in prison for? If every thing is based off the Bible, then it's impossible for him to have done anything wrong at that time since the Bible wasn't around. So, I guess not EVERYTHING is based on the Bible.
 
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Why is murder wrong? Can you answer that without appeal to Bible verses?

It violates that person's right to life. Bad karma too.

Why is testifying falsely in court wrong? Ditto.

I don't believe it always is wrong.

But as for lying, Tony Montana said it best, "All I have in this world is my word and my balls, and I don't break em for nobody." If I devalue my word with an unjust lie, I devalue myself.

Why are theft and robbery wrong? Adultery?

Stealing is dishonest, and dishonourable. Outside of betraying your spouse, there is nothing wrong with adultery. You can't have a civil society that allows for rampant theft.

Then you'll be in a position to try and answer "why is homosexuality wrong?".

None of the above concepts are similar enough to homosexuality. Hence the problem.
 
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DuchessDinesOut said:
everything? really? so the guy in the Bible who got set free instead of Jesus. What was in in prison for? If every thing is based off the Bible, then it's impossible for him to have done anything wrong at that time since the Bible wasn't around. So, I guess not EVERYTHING is based on the Bible.
Wow The Jewish text's were around for instance the 10 commandments were there back then the jewish texts are the same as in the King james version so the bible was around back then thank you..
 
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Helpme..iamconfused said:
Wow The Jewish text's were around for instance the 10 commandments were there back then the jewish texts are the same as in the King james version so the bible was around back then thank you..

Okay. But the Romans weren't Jews, right? I could be wrong here, but if the guys who ruled the world, so to speak, weren't Jewish then they would not at all be concerned with the Jewish texts.

Also, the Tanakh (Jewish Texts) are not the same as the KJV version of the Bible... so it wasn't around then and your very very welcome.
 
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Let me begin by saying that I do not know why God dislikes or does not dislike homosexuality. Therefore, at best I am guessing.

So my thoughts on why God seems to say that homosexuality is wrong has to do with two points. One point is about symbolic. One point is about beneficiality.

About symbolism, we know that God is big on symbols. Some christians believe, for instance, that God had year after year of animal sacrifices not as necessarily an end unto itself, but as a symbol of the Messiah. The animal had to be unblemished or else it would break the symbolism. Now, it is said that the church is the bride as Christ is the groom. Heterosexual marriage, then, can be said to be symbolic of the union of humankind with God. Homosexuality, then, can be said to be changing the symbol to mankind alone and/or God alone.

This is not a perfect guess for many reasons that I know full well. Upfront, I will acknowledge that it does not seem particularily intuitive why a god, muchless a rational and loving God would care about who got with who. To condemn something merely because it ruined a symbol seems even to me odd and overreacting. So I start my second guess.

About beneficial things, this assumes that God knows things beyond our knowledge and that he wants the best for everyone. Obviously, both premises can be argued against, but let us assume this for the moment. If this is the case, it may be not homosexuality is harmful so much as because prevents something good. Everyone can agree that the lawful union of relationship between heterosexuals is good. Not everyone can agree that the union of homosexuals whether lawful or otherwise is good. The weakness of this argument is that it seems as if a relationship situation can contains both heterosexual and homosexual. If such a relationship can exist, then it proves that homosexual activity does not prohibit or inhibit a heterosexual one.

The difficulty with this guess is that I can very easily state that God knows more than me and sees the harm it will cause. However, it is another creature altogether to say how it will cause harm. For, if I cannot say how it causes harm, then it is no better than any other baseless claim.

So, my final guess has to do with the idea of God creating men and women to compliment each other. Men and women are different. This guess supposes that there is something beneficial about the union of differentness that goes beyond production of children. Homosexual relationships, would create a relationship which is born of sameness and supposedly deny the 'best situation' (Note that I does not say what is or is not the best situation. Only that many christians claim it is.). If this is the case, then it can be said that God makes the rule in hopes that humans will reap the ultimate benefit.

The weakness of this guess, I freely admit. Homosexual relationships do not preclude heterosexual ones, or even friendships, or prevent the exchange of learning between opposite sexes. Also, the punishment/condemnation seems out of proportion to the wrong. A case can be made for homosexuality to not be favored if it is not the best, but we cannot punish something for being less than best, but only for being harmful. Also, it can be said that if homosexuality precludes an ultimate good, then so does people who are not yet in a relationship whether because they are single, too young, or otherwise. If people who are otherwise not in a relationship are not punished for their lack of a heterosexual relationship, it seems unfair to single out homosexuals.

Finally, note that I do not in anyway say that homosexuality is wrong, only what is a possible reason for God to make rules against it. Throughout I have made various guesses which I implore you to remember are all baseless. I have NO evidence in support of these views in case you should ask. :)
 
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DuchessDinesOut said:
Okay. But the Romans weren't Jews, right? I could be wrong here, but if the guys who ruled the world, so to speak, weren't Jewish then they would not at all be concerned with the Jewish texts.

Also, the Tanakh (Jewish Texts) are not the same as the KJV version of the Bible... so it wasn't around then and your very very welcome.
the TANAKH is the exact same as the old testiment and the Jews put Jesus and that other man up to see who gets pardond and the man did somthing wrong but Jesus didnt so it was the jews who condemmed him for doing nothing..
 
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Helpme..iamconfused said:
the TANAKH is the exact same as the old testiment and the Jews put Jesus and that other man up to see who gets pardond and the man did somthing wrong but Jesus didnt so it was the jews who condemmed him for doing nothing..

No it isn't. It is similiar, but not the same. I understand that you think that, as I did before several months of verse by verse comparison, but it just isn't write. Buy yourself a Tanakh and talk to me about this in a few months.

My point was not who did what to Jesus it was that the man was in prison, found guilty by people who didn't use the Bible or Tanakh to determine right from wrong. Therefore, not everything comes from the Bible.
 
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Uphill Battle said:
To try to get a Christian to answer this question, and asking him or her to not use the source where they derive their truth, isn't logically possible. I am not going to go in to each different version, denomination, sect, cult, interpretation or point of view.

All I know is, many Christians hold that the bible is the word of God. So to ask them to separate their world view from their scripture doesn't make alot of sense.

Do I believe homosexuality is wrong? sure. That's what I read in the bible. That doesn't mean that I hate homosexuals. Any more than I hate an adulterer (I'd have to hate myself for my past) a liar (Ditto) or any other form of sin the bible describes.

But because of my faith in the bible as God's word, i cannot separate my point of view from it. Even when it goes against what I might want. (I.E. that fornication rule.... it isn't the easiest one to abide by!)
You are perfectly fine to cite the bible, however there are just practical reasons why I'd prefer not to see verses cited. Among these tend to be that citing the bible tells me what is immoral, but not why its immoral.

I assume that if the bible prescribes anything, then it does so with a good reason. And I want to know those reasons.

As an example, the bible mentions several verses similar promoting animal welfare (this is the whole idea behind kosher slaughter). If I were to ask you why anyone should look out for that, you would say "because it reduces gratuitous suffering", and I would find that explanation perfectly reasonable; because it takes a bible command and explains the reasoning for that command.

I'm not asking you seperate morality from scripture in an explicit sense. I am asking you to explain the reasoning behind the commands in scripture, in an effort to show that the commands are not simply arbitrary or silly (after all, no one should be bound to moral commands that are arbitrary or have no moral foundation). I believe this can be done with the majority of biblical commands, but I have yet to see the explanation behind the wrongness of homosexuality.


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Eh, let's try it from a different angle.

Why is murder wrong? Can you answer that without appeal to Bible verses?

Why is testifying falsely in court wrong? Ditto.

Why are theft and robbery wrong? Adultery?

All these questions can be answered with strictly secular arguments. Go ahead, try it.
This is easy. Note: I dont want to derail my thread, all I am doing is to show you that secular morality can be achieved relatively easily. So if you would like to challenge my reasoning on any of these examples, feel free to start a new thread and do so.

One of the things that is morally relevant is the satisfaction or dissatisfaction of preferences, and the capacity to suffer. You can see my explanation for why this is here, you can see Peter Singer's explanation here and here (those articles have to do with the animal liberation movement, but they explain preference utilitarianism perfectly well).

Understanding that what is morally relevant (preferences and the capacity to suffer), it is now important to understand that the most ethical actions are going to be the ones that satisfy the greatest number of preferences while frustrating the fewest. This is roughly known as preference utilitarianism.

To answer your questions:
Murder is wrong because people have the capacity to suffer and an interest in continued existence. To translate this in roughly utilitarian terms, it satisfies very few preferences (namely, the murderers preference to kill) at the expense of a phenomenal number of preferences frustrated (namely, the victims interest in continued existence, the interest to start a family, achieve goals, satisfy future preferences, etc.) - this means all of the victim's interests are reduced down to nothingness at a most trivial gain; clearly, this is an imbalace in the neat little utilitarian scheme defined above, so taking the life of a human who does not want to die cannot be moral. To kill someone against their wishes morally, there has to be a strong compelling reason for why killing would be better than not killing (for instance, you would be very justified in killing Osama bin Laden).

Falsely testifying in court is wrong for the same reasons, because it satisfies fewer preferences than that it frustrates, and even worse it causes gratuitous undue suffering on everyone involved.

Theft and robbery are wrong for the same reasons. I explained in another thread why these are wrong, so I'll copy and paste: "not all preferences satisfied or dissatisfied carry the same moral weight. For instance, if two people have an interest in taking your money (2 against 1), then the most moral action is for you to keep your money. This is because you will suffer a great deal more for losing your money than the other two people will suffer for not being able to take it".

There you have it, reasons to be moral that dont rely on the bible. Hopefully you'll find this explanation to be a little more-to-the-point than saying "it violates a persons right" (because stating a person has a right is, in actuality, begging the question. However, the way I've explained it does not beg the question).

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Then you'll be in a position to try and answer "why is homosexuality wrong?".
Certainly correct, I am in deed in the position to try to answer "why is homosexuality wrong". But, I've given this a lot of thought, and I honestly cannot see any reason why consentual homosexuality is any more immoral than consexual heterosexuality.

I'm convinced that neither is immoral, however I'll leave open the possibility that I could be simply mistaken. However, this means the burden to show that it is wrong is on you, not me.
 
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DuchessDinesOut said:
My point was not who did what to Jesus it was that the man was in prison, found guilty by people who didn't use the Bible or Tanakh to determine right from wrong. Therefore, not everything comes from the Bible.
But JEsus was delived to pilate from the JEws as was the other man read your bible then come and talk to me.+ i dont have to read the whole TANAKH because i already have it called the OLD TESTIMENT>><<< the english traslation the KJV
 
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Hon, first of all, these guys are trying to get their thread back. Second, The point, once again, was not about Jesus but rather the guy who was in prison. We are talking about two different people. Third, the Tanakh and the old testament are not the same... close but no cigar. If you would take the time to compare the two you would know that. Ever wonder why Jews don't believe in Jesus? It's because he didn't fulfill the messianic prophecy as laid out in the Tanakh... however, you believe that he did fulfill the messianic prophecy from the Old Testament. Is it possible that you are looking at two different versions, different wording, different meaning, different prophecies.... different books?????

Your 14 years old so I know you don't believe this but you don't know everything... very far from it. Let these guys have their thread back now cause you aren't getting any where with this.
 
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