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Why is Christianity right/Why should I be Christian?

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For a long time after I intellectually decided christianity was legit it made very little difference to my character or my inclinations. Spirituality without works is little different than wishful thinking in practice. If you are here, you have a inclination and a heart that searches for the truth. The best actions are to pray, to attend church, and to read the Bible. Praying will help you reflect on God, attending church will help you reflect on the history and community of mankind, and reading the Bible will help you reflect on teachings. I'd start with Luke, and Psalms. A good prayer is:

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love.
Where there is injury, pardon.Where there is doubt, faith.
Where there is despair, hope.
Where there is darkness, light.
Where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master,
grant that I may not so much seekto be consoled, as to console;
to be understood, as to understand;
to be loved, as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive.
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,and it is in dying that we are born to Eternal Life.
Amen

Anyway, cheers and good luck.
 
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OP=WHy?

Simply-because the Tomb was Empty.

Either Jesus was who He said He was or He was the biggest & most successfull liar/con-artist of all time.

Read outside the Bible-(if spiritual abuse hinders you).Histroy (Quran/Dead Sea Scrolls & Others) agree Jesus lived, died & was buried....

so the question is Did He Rise?

IF he didn't - How'd they get past the guards? How many people can keep a secret? Eyewitness accounts from "upstanding" people ALL False?

Did He Predict it? YEP

Did He do it? (Go backward if you have too-is there SOME higher power?)
If so What?, WHY?

There is an order to all things-THere is an inter-relation of all things, so does a God
make sense? Does to me, now which one? For me Jesus makes more sense than
earning my way w/works from an ant to a human or state of Nirvana.

4 noble truths-Great-but what then?
TAO-nice but unforfilled
Buddah-would it were that easy
Confuscious-Wise (almost as Solomon)

What esle you got? :)
 
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Hi,

I have a very strong faith nothing can move it. I know God is real and nothing can change my mind on that. Why, well God has chosen to reveal himself to me on many occassions. Below is a list of some of those times. I hope that it will increase your own faith in God. These things help me to know that the words of Jesus are true, as revealed in the bible. As all of these things have happened since I invited Jesus into my life, for years I sought God for the miraculous but nothing happened. But over the last few years He has allowed me to have some miraculous things happen, they are not super amazing, and they are quite common among people that I know of, but they are not just common human things.

One morning I got up and walked into the hall and I heard a voice that I believed was God say "How would you like to be stabbed in the Valley". The Valley was known as the rough end of town, and the voice scared me a little, I wondered if I had done something to offend God. I had planned to go down to the Valley to ask people out to church as was my habit at the time. In the end I went anyway regardless of the fear. I walked up to the first person I met and asked him if he would like to go out to church. He said to me "I am an atheist, I don't believe in God". I just said "fine", but hoped to change his mind. He then proceeded to unbutton his shirt and showed me scar marks up and down his chest and stomach. He said to me, "I was attacked by a knife wielding man in the Valley some time ago and spent months recovering in hospital, How could God allow that to happen to me". Then I knew why God had said in the morning "How would I like to be stabbed?". God understood this man, but had a good plan for him. Some weeks latter this man came out to church and became a Christian.

Some time after the second Gulf War an Australian man Douglas Wood was captured by terrorists in Iraq, who made demands for a ransom or he would be executed. I set about fasting and praying for his release, I said to God "You know where he is....tell me". Three words entered my mind ABC, Bizaar and "A-meal". I thought "I am going crazy what has all that got to do with him. Bizaar I though "this is Bizarre". I thought maybe "A-meal" is a town so I searched a map of Iraq for a town of that name, but found nothing that really matched. Some time latter Douglas Wood was freed by US troops who came across his captors. It was not until latter that I actually discovered what the three words meant. I was on a forum libertyunites.us and came across a post by a user called ABC in the post she appealed to the captors to release Douglas Wood because he had gone to a/or the Bazaar and bought food for homeless people and had provided them with "A-meal". I believe God saw this action too and blessed Douglas Wood with an escape from his captors.

One time I thought about suing some one but felt bad about it because I did not want to give a bad impression about what a Christian is like. So I prayed and asked God to show me clearly what to do. Latter that day I opened my bible at random, selecting a random verse and it opened to 1Co 6:7 "Nay, already it is altogether a defect in you, that ye have lawsuits one with another. Why not rather take wrong? why not rather be defrauded?" So I knew what God was thinking, no lawsuit. From this I do not believe God was saying the legal system is wrong just this particular action.

At one point in my life I was praying for scientific cures for illnesses like cancer. Because I was on a science kick I thought would it not be fun to create a real life dinosaur. I wanted Jesus just for fun to show me how to create a Real Live Dinosaur, he can show us anything you know if he wants, but when I asked him how to start recreating a Dinosaur. Jesus spoke into my head the sentence "bood", a term I had never heard before. I decided to look it up on the Internet and I found out the following: You see, the children of Semai are taught from an early age, the concept of "bood." If a parent asks a child to do something and the child replies " bood," it means in other words, "I don't feel like doing that," and the matter is closed. Bood means gently No.

One day I was witnessing to a Muslim and he asked me why we ate pork. I used the verse out of the bible which says "It is not what enters the mouth that defiles a man but what comes out of the mouth". After some general discussion I finished for the night. I asked God to give me a verse from the bible to encourage me. I opened the bible at random and selected a random verse. It opened to the exact same verse that I had used with the Muslim. The one about food not defiling. So I knew that God was approving of what I had been talking about.

Wisdom, like an inheritance, is a good thing and benefits those who see the sun. - Ecc 7:11 I have always considered it wise to seek God for every thing in life. By this I do not mean "God, what should I eat" or "what should I wear". Not small insignificant things but things that matter. God cares about the things that we see as significant, things that are important to us. There was a point in my life where I was single, unmarried and constantly bombarded by the worlds system of doing things, a system to which I was diametrically opposed. I wanted to find a partner, but was not really sure how to go about it. By trade I am a computer programmer so the Internet was very familiar to me. So I tried internet dating. I remember getting to a point of meeting quite a few people but not really fully clicking with any of them. So I prayed and said out of all the thousands of people that are online in the world there must be some one who could make a good partner for me. So I deliberately listened for God’s voice, and prayed once. The word “Grace” entered my mind. So I typed “Grace” into the search box (that was used to search for profiles). The first profile to come up was of Ru Chen. I had been contacted by Ru Chen once, but we were unable to send messages to one another over the site for some unknown reason. So I tried to contact her again, but again with no success. Some time latter Ru was able to contact me using an email I had sent to her when she had first contacted me, after chatting online for some weeks we decided to meet. We went out together to the movies and just eating out, and seeing each other for some time. Eventually we decided to marry. We went out and bought a ring. Some months latter we got married.

This is a story of God working between me an my wife to get his point accross. One night I was laying on my bed and the verse of scripture came into my mind "With patience possess your souls". Latter that week my wife called me into the bedroom where she was reading the bible not knowing anyting about what I had heard said to me "this is a verse you will like", a thing she never has done before. It was Be patient, then, brothers, until the Lord's coming. See how the farmer waits for the land to yield its valuable crop and how patient he is for the autumn and spring rains. You too, be patient and stand firm, because the Lord's coming is near.Jas 5:7-8 It was not that I was not being patient, for I was, when talking to my mother about it we both felt it ment, the coming of the LORD is near means his intervention in our lives is near. When we are patient we reap a harvest of his blessing given time. So by faith I believe some time, sooner or latter God will do something if we just wait patiently and obediently for him to act, even if it is his final salvation on his return.

I was praying for all Muslum countries on the 27 of Febuary 2011, and specifically for the president of Iran, which I do whenever I pray for them. That God might bring them to salvation that can only be found in the Love and mercy of Jesus Christ. Like the bible says there is no other name given under heaven or earth by which man can be saved. I went into the kitchen, and asked the LORD for a verse of scripture for him, I opened the bible up to a verse, It was quite condemning, so I said LORD you must be able to have more mercy than that. So I opend up the bible again and it opened to "Seek good, not evil, that you may live. Then the LORD God Almighty will be with you, just as you say he is." - Amo 5:14. I was not sure if either of the verses were for him, so I did not send anything. The next day I was having a break from work and thought of him again. So I prayed LORD do you have anything that I can send to bless him with. This time I was on the computer so I used my electronic bible, a different one to the night before. I randomly selected a verse, not looking at where I was choosing and it rested on the exact same verse I had received the night before. "Seek good, not evil, that you may live. Then the LORD God Almighty will be with you, just as you say he is." - Amo 5:14 So I knew God had chosen that verse for him. So I sent him the verse of scripture and an encouragement to seek Jesus. Then on the 6th of March a Sunday I set about praying and fasting, and prayed for the president and all the members of his parliment, again I said LORD give me a verse for them, bless them and bring them to you, don't dispose of them, even if they have resisted you, just bless them with salvation. I opened the bible and again, and my finger rested on "Seek good, not evil, that you may live. Then the LORD God Almighty will be with you, just as you say he is." - Amo 5:14 I have to admit I am not sure what God's plans are for them, but I feel these verses sum up the attitude it is wise to have, "The highway of the upright avoids evil; he who guards his way guards his life. Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall. Better to be lowly in spirit and among the oppressed than to share plunder with the proud. Whoever gives heed to instruction prospers, and blessed is he who trusts in the LORD". Pro 16:17-20.


As a final one I once prayed for a woman with a bad back and she was healed instantly.
 
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Faith is not blind. When we really need clarity, our loving God desires us to draw closer to him. I love G.K. Chesterton's quote: "The Christian ideal has not been tried and found wanting; it has been found difficult and left untried."

The biggest hurdle for most of us usually is not just a piece of proof, although that might be exactly what some of us need. The biggest hurdle often is testing the faith to see if it is true. We want to be fully convinced, but how do we become convinced? By diving in with our mind, body and spirit-- if it's false, or if it's true, I believe we can know.

The Bible promises that if we seek God with our whole heart, we will find him. Many ask questions, fewer seek him. That's understandable because we're afraid. But if you are ready, use every means at your disposal to wholeheartedly find him: prayer, people, the Bible, books. Take your strengths and weaknesses, and your fear, to God himself. Present them to him, and ask in your heart that he take and do what needs to be done; that if he is there, he will bring healing and forgiveness (we all need it, even if the reasons differ). Mean it; kneel, stomp, cry, yell. You won't scare him :)

There is no right thing to say. He formed you, and loves you; he wants to be with you in such intimacy, that to do so without your permission would violate your spirit. But with your consent, he will satisfy your thirst. The fear will subside, and the unanswered questions? Well, his peace might just make it "ok" to save the questions for another day or two, sometimes longer. But let your heart come out, as few people ever allow. Do not fear. Desire him with your whole person, and see what happens.

Then please share with us, how did it go? Did you put it all on the line? Do you still have reservations?
 
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Emily,
I too struggled with Christianity when I was younger. I grew up in a Christian family, went to church every Sunday, and went to a Christian school. I was and still am a person that always tries to follow the rules, be a good person, and help people as much as I can. I wanted so much to be a good Christian. The only problem was that i never really believed, not like everyone else did. I tried so hard to be a Christian and to believe that the belief that Christ died for my sins was the only way to salvation, but I just couldn't. I felt alone. I felt guilty. I tried to talk to pastors, teachers, and my family about my struggles and they could never give me answers that helped. There was a giant hole in my life. I was depressed. When I went to college I decided to major in History. I learned everything I could about our past. The more I learned, the more I saw that there was nothing wrong with me for not believing in Christianity. I finally let it go. I stopped trying to believe and I was relieved. I have never been more happy than I am now. All of the weight that Christianity had put on me has been lifted. I no longer feel guilty or alone. I feel free. Christianity was my prison. Free thought, science, history, and a never ending quest for knowledge was my salvation. I hope you too can shed the weight of religion. It will set you free.
 
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I completely agree with "A girl named tennessee". While i personally do not believe in a god, I think she's right. There is no proof of a god despite what others have tried posting. It's all biased material written to protect the bible. The bible of the god DOES, and CANNOT exist. It's that simple. It is impossible for the god of the bible to exist.

If you think there's a God. Go with deism, It requirs you have faith that there is something bigger. That's perfectly fine, who knows there might be. If there is a God, it would be a lot more complex then what can be put down in a book.
 
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