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Why I'm Orthodox . . . and why others may want to be too.

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He can and does forgive the sin but what dissolves marriage as it is taught to us in scripture? Not repentance but DEATH. The vow we take says until DEATH do us part.
 
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Probably you don't think they are fasle . . . but they are negative statements and we have the right to ask for objective evidence to back them up . . . I don't think anyone has the right to keep posting negative statements about another's Church and Faith and not back them up, especially when requested, do you?


You've derailed this thread, Therese. Now I know why all these people PM me and tell me its easier if I just put you on my ignore list.

Please feel free to do just that.



So, challenging people to substantiate their claims against Our Church and holding them accountable to doing so is wrong?

Tell me . . what kind of peace are you looking for?

One that is a "feel good" peace, the "good old boys club" type of peace?

A FALSE peace?



Or one that is based on truth?


Peace, TRUE peace is based on truth, it is found in seeking the truth, not a hiding from it. It is not merely a feeling.

TRUE peace cannot exist in the absence of truth, in the absence of a desire for truth.


I don't mean your type of peace, your "feel good" "good old boys" peace that takes comfort in others "feeling" the same way you do about a certian group of Christians, or one that is comforted by not being faced with the conflict that results from being held accountable for one's accusatoins and attacks against another's faith.

That is not peace, not TRUE peace.


I wish True peace to all . . . . this comes only with the truth.



Peace to all
 
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Concur.

Harsh words have driven at least one poster here to explore Orthodoxy. Even the promise of Bingo couldn't bring him back.

Would you like a cookie? We have eggnog, too.
 
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*sigh*

If you would just, for one moment, please set aside your forensic approach to everything, we might make a bit of progress here.

Would you like a cookie? We have eggnog too.
 
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Basil . . what you have not told us is how forgiveness of the sin of divorce DISSOLVES the MARRIAGE, the COVENANT. . . .


One cannot marry another while the first marriage Covenant is in force.

A Marriage Covenant is not dissolved by a civil court.

It is not a contract that can be dissolved by a court of man.


A Marriage Covenant is ONLY dissolved by death of one of the partners.


How does forgiveness of the sin of divorce (a civil issue which ruptures the relationship of the man and woman) actually end the marriage Covenant which can only be ended by death?



You say it is dissolved because of forgiveness . .


How?


You ask isn't God powerful enough?



What does God's power have to do with it?


Will God use His power to break one of His own Laws?



We are simply waiting for you to answer these questions.



Peace to all
 
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Would you all remember this is ADVENT for Heaven's Sakes..... Funny thing about that NONE of us are supposed to be fighting..... What is this ADVENT Starts and the CLAWS come out and then all of the sudden you want everyone to see even our own problems inside the HOLY APOSTOLIC CATHOLIC CHURCH .....

WOW people are NONE of you thinking?

Yes this is demonstrating so well well the Season and Christ's Church ..... I am sure he is sooooooooo very proud of us ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL Right now
 
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Saint Benedict and Saint Scholastica,
you were people of peace,
you walked the paths of peace your whole life
and led all who came to you into the ways of peace.

Help us to seek peace and pursue it,
to be the first to hold out our hands
in friendship and forgiveness.

Help us to achieve peace in our hearts, in our homes,
in our neighborhoods, and in our troubled world.

Let peace fill our lives
so that we may live in God's grace and love.
Amen.​

From the Benedictines for Peace.
 
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CaDan said:
Concur.

Harsh words have driven at least one poster here to explore Orthodoxy. Even the promise of Bingo couldn't bring him back.

Would you like a cookie? We have eggnog, too.
Even though he could do a lot worse than orthodoxy they way I see it- this is how much he hates the Catholic Church. But this is just my opinion.
 
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Come, let us go up to the
Mountain of the Lord
That we may walk the paths
Of the Most High

And we shall beat our swords into ploughshares,
And our spears into pruning hooks.
Nation shall they learn sword against nation
Neither shall they learn war any more.
And none shall be afraid,
For the mouth of the
Lord of Hosts has spoken.​
 
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Bingo. It's one thing to demonstrate that a priest or bishop has sinned against the faith. We've seen plenty of cheap shots taken at our Church clergy for the sex scanal, even though i've demonstrated this problem exists within the eastern orthodox church as well. Did that get any mea-culpa's from the EO here? no of course not.. but I digress.
What we have not seen here however, is any evidence that the Catholic Church has failed to keep the integrity of the faith in tact. We keep the faith that has been handed down by the Apostles themselves.
We have seen however, a failed attempt by our EO brethren to prove they have kept the teaching of the Church in tact, particularly on the matter of divorce and contraception. Instead we've all witnessed a false mercy which simply ignores sin under the pretense that sacraments can be 'forgiven' (whatever that means).

So on the one hand, we've seen that Catholic Clerics were persecuted for the sins of a few (~2% of priests are guilty), even though the exact same thing happens in the EO Church which was never acknowledged (or denied) but the faith is intact, even though some clergy aren't good examples of following it.

On the other hand, we've seen an demonstration of false mercy in order to justify the permitting of multiple marriages among EO lay men & women, and the same to justify permitting contraception if their confessors conscience allows for it (whatever thats all about).
So here I believe we've seen the gates of hell prevail in teachings on faith and morals. This is the fruit, and the lack of Magisterial Authority to fix it within the EO Church is why we find the mantra "come, experience the mystery of our faith" pronounced so often.
If I found that my faith was very difficult to justify using the deposit of faith & reason, then I would emphasise the mystery too.
 
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