No one is asking you to. STRAW MAN.
That is not what I find in the Catechism or what I know to be "Honouring" Mary. I see real worship of Mary by the RCC in a lot of their teachings.
One popular prayer in Mary’s honor is the
Hail Holy Queen:
“Hail, holy Queen, Mother of Mercy!Our life, our sweetness and our hope!To thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve.To thee do we send up our sighs, mourning and weeping, in this valley of tears.Turn, then, most gracious Advocate, thine eyes of mercy toward us; and after this our exile show unto us the blessed fruit of thy womb, Jesus.O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary.”
Doesn’t this sound like worship? Is this a prayer of salvation from Mary? Or is a prayer to get the Mother Of God to get her son to do something for us?
IMMACULATE CONCEPTION -- Mary was preserved from all stain of original sin from the first instant of her conception. (
Catechism 490-492).
In Luke 1:46-47, Mary said:
“My soul doth magnify the Lord, And my spirit hath rejoiced in God my Saviour”. Mary knew that she needed a savior.
ALL-HOLY ‑- Mary, “the All-Holy,” lived a perfectly sinless life. (
Catechism 411, 493)
Romans 3:23 says
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God”. Revelation 15:4 says, “Who shall not fear thee, O Lord, and glorify thy name? For
thou only art holy”. Romans 3:10 says,
“There is none righteous, no, not one”.
PERPETUAL VIRGINITY ‑- Mary was a virgin before, during and after the birth of Christ. (Catechism 496-511)
Matthew 1:24-25 says, “Then Joseph being raised from sleep did as the angel of the Lord had bidden him, and took unto him his wife: And knew her not till she had brought forth her firstborn son: and he called his name JESUS.” “Till” (until) means that
after that point, Joseph
did “know” (have sexual relations with) Mary. (See Genesis 4:1 where Adam “knew” Eve and she conceived and had a son.)
CO-MEDIATOR ‑- Mary is the Co-Mediator to whom we can entrust all our cares and petitions. (Catechism 968-970, 2677)
There is only one mediator and that is Jesus. 1 Timothy 2:5-6 says, “For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus: Who gave himself a ransom for all, to be testified in due time.”
Hebrews 7:25 says,Wherefore he [Jesus] is able to save them to the uttermost that come unto God by him, seeing he ever liveth to make intercession for them.”
Ephesians 3:12 says, “In whom [Jesus} we have boldness and access with confidence by the faith of him.”
If Jesus is constantly interceding for us and He is able to save us “to the uttermost,” (utterly, completely) then He doesn’t need Mary’s help. If we can approach God with “boldness” and “confidence” because of our faith in Jesus, then we don't need Mary’s help either.
QUEEN OF HEAVEN ‑- God has exalted Mary in heavenly glory as Queen of Heaven and earth. (Catechism 966) She is to be praised with special devotion. (Catechism 971, 2675)
Psalm 148:13 says, “Let them praise the name of the Lord: for his name alone is excellent; his glory is above the earth and heaven.” This makes it quite clear that only God’s name (not Mary’s) is to be exalted. (In Catholic Bibles the numbering of the chapters and verses of some of the Psalms is slightly different.)
This is what I am vehemently trying to avoid.